Talked to my parents at the dinner table about my GF. They gave me some advice.

[aBetterMii]

Thank you. I just had a phone call with her and it lasted for quite a while; she was outside when she was taking the call at first and I could hear a few (mostly female) voices in the background. I'm assuming she was out but she sounded a little slurred/light on the line, and low inhib. So she hung up, waited about 10 minutes to go to a quiet area, and started talking to me. She sounded all good-girl, sweet and innocent at first when I tried to talk about nice and casual things to make her happy. Then, I brought up the fact I didn't like the sex she was having with me; then I proceeded to ask her about her sexual fantasies and if she'd ever considered a threesome.

She said she'd never considered having a threesome (my friend said she's been in a few threesomes already)

I asked her about the time when I caught her watching gay porn...

She was pretty sketchy and not giving detailed answers this time, but she admitted she always wanted to have sex with men that "look like sweet, innocent angels" and to watch them get dominated

I laughed at this response (I don't think this at all tbh) but I asked her to elab. She said one of her biggest turn-ons is to have sex with "angelic, innocent-looking men with nice, smooth bodies and big butts" and because I looked like "boyfriend material", "stable" and "a keeper" she really wanted to be my girlfriend

I also asked her if we see each other with children and married and she said "yes, I'd do anything for you"

I also asked her about what she's looking for and she really wants a boyfriend to settle down with, and he must be good-looking and educated.

Then I asked her about her Instagram account, her Onlyfans (that was on her Linktree) and her Snapchat score that was rising. She became so defensive about it and said "I'm broke and I really need to get money" and that "women shouldn't be shamed for posting thirst traps and nudes on the internet"

Then it broke out into a HUGE argument about sex work and the hatred of "men", the fact she's fetishizing me and taking me for granted, and the fact she's a compulsive liar (I brought up EVERY point)... And that I've spent so much money on her, making sure she's happy and taking care of her.... and yet she throws it back in my face (why would her Snap score be going up?)

I asked her about having sex outside of a relationship (my Nigerian friend's white friend) and she denies this... she says she doesn't know who this guy is or his friend.

I asked her about her parental status and she said both of her parents were living together (which is a lie)...

Man there's too much things to take in right now. My head hurts right now and I can't believe this happened to me...



I won't follow, nope. But I can definitely imagine who are the followers...
Yup that, plus I'm quite muscular already, so they'd assume I'm some brute. But nope. Probably it's because that I look more "boyish" and "clean" and she could sense my inexperience..... that's why she probably took advantage of me. And thank you, I'm gonna stay on here for the time being

I brought up the time when she tried to change her bold image when she perceived me as white to a "good girl" image after finding out my ethnic background and religion and she denies this


Thank you but I don't want to be seen as a little beta cuck


The worst thing is that it's a woman taking advantage of a man. What red flags would you say are the worst?

Holy shit she had an onlyfans? I would not invest a second of my emotions after that. You could see the red flags but you let love/infatuation make you look past them. The more you deal with girls like this the better you get. You will find a nice vanilla girl that doesnt hide anything from you and wont be a whore as long as you dont ldar after this. There is no denying it anymore, she is a liar and a whore. You can do so much better you seem genuinely very sweet and nice, and if youre built and attractive all it takes is a lil time and maybe try being more NT (i assume youre not too NT to be on a forum like this) youll be ok bro dont let her manipulate you any longer

 

[SadLivwr]

I can't date women with OnlyFans....
plus she hid all this info from me

break up with her at this point tbh

 

[BigNigga69]

My parents told me they heard me sobbing upstairs in my room for a good hour and wanted to talk about it with me at the dinner table as honestly as I could.

You are a faggot

Do not tag me again, this whore is not worth an LTR, pls rope ASAP or break up with her before tagging me. Blocked.

 

[Mik]

Too much shit too unpack rn I will read when I get home

 

[Deleted member 13847]

when youre already at the point of asking random people online (let alone random incels) whether a relationship is worth keeping you know it should be already over
I imagine you already know but you just want confirmation from others online that you believe shes clearly not telling the truth to you and thats whats happening, ofc with the emotional attachment already involved it might be tricky but just looking at everything posted from you it will always be the best decision for you, and I think you already know that she is not a long term option
obvioualy there is the small chance that shes telling the truth, but its clear that her actions and how she acts falls out of what you would consider to be an ideal partner, or you would feel anxiety abt her actions (rightfully) so throughout the relationship so whats the point, youll live the rest of your life unsure as whether you feel cheated or not and its unhealthy, a relationship needs you to feel fully dedicated to someone else first and foremost and you already seem to have your foot out the door looking at your threads
get out whilst you can and learn from this experience

 

[Deleted member 15099]

If I were you, I'd definitely break up with her. The snap and insta thing in itself is weird, but the onlyfans sealed the deal.

 

[Enfant terrible]

Give me her number

Xangsane​

i will talk it out with her

 

[Xangsane]

Too much shit too unpack rn I will read when I get home

You are a faggot

Do not tag me again, this whore is not worth an LTR, pls rope ASAP or break up with her before tagging me. Blocked.

when youre already at the point of asking random people online (let alone random incels) whether a relationship is worth keeping you know it should be already over
I imagine you already know but you just want confirmation from others online that you believe shes clearly not telling the truth to you and thats whats happening, ofc with the emotional attachment already involved it might be tricky but just looking at everything posted from you it will always be the best decision for you, and I think you already know that she is not a long term option
obvioualy there is the small chance that shes telling the truth, but its clear that her actions and how she acts falls out of what you would consider to be an ideal partner, or you would feel anxiety abt her actions (rightfully) so throughout the relationship so whats the point, youll live the rest of your life unsure as whether you feel cheated or not and its unhealthy, a relationship needs you to feel fully dedicated to someone else first and foremost and you already seem to have your foot out the door looking at your threads
get out whilst you can and learn from this experience

If I were you, I'd definitely break up with her. The snap and insta thing in itself is weird, but the onlyfans sealed the deal.

Holy shit she had an onlyfans? I would not invest a second of my emotions after that. You could see the red flags but you let love/infatuation make you look past them. The more you deal with girls like this the better you get. You will find a nice vanilla girl that doesnt hide anything from you and wont be a whore as long as you dont ldar after this. There is no denying it anymore, she is a liar and a whore. You can do so much better you seem genuinely very sweet and nice, and if youre built and attractive all it takes is a lil time and maybe try being more NT (i assume youre not too NT to be on a forum like this) youll be ok bro dont let her manipulate you any longer

break up with her at this point tbh

I'll reply to each of you in a moment, but to give you a quick update: I'm drafting a breakup text.

It's gonna be quite a lengthy one.

 

[Xangsane]

Give me her number

Xangsane​

i will talk it out with her

I rather not let her know about this place

 

[Xangsane]

Breaking up with my girlfriend. Found out she's got an OnlyFans and is a compulsive liar.

Drafting the long breakup letter to her after that rotten phone call I had with her just now.

looksmax.org

 

[CupOfCoffee]

Listen to your father. Obviously

 

[Xangsane]

Listen to your father. Obviously

she's gone

 

[Xangsane]

this wasn't even a relationship tbh

 

[Deleted member 5786]

tell your mom she is wrong

 

[Xangsane]

tell your mom she is wrong

I'm not bothering with the letter. The last thing I sent to her was "Take care" and I blocked her.

 

[faggotchadlite]

My parents told me they heard me sobbing upstairs in my room for a good hour and wanted to talk about it with me at the dinner table as honestly as I could.

• I told them about my relationship with the girl, what my friends told me, and the sort of activities we did together. These included the following:
  • I told them what my four friends said to me over the phone
  • I told them the emotions that went through me after what they said
• This included any sexual activity as well as bonding/dating activities.
  • Going on road trips together
  • Playing video games together
  • Playing music together
  • Drawing/painting together
  • Eating out together
  • Cooking together
  • We have sex pretty often, but most of the time she initiates it in the car. The sex style isn't what I like at all (I prefer romantic and sweet, emotional sex, she likes it pretty rough and kinky to the point my genitals and lips bled)

Based on what I told them today plus their own personal assessment, they advised me to do the following:

• Mum: Talk to her over the phone, or speak to her about her past in person over the weekend and if she's willing to own up and turn over a new leaf, keep her
• Dad: Send her a text over WhatsApp and break up with her. Do NOT visit her this weekend, and NEVER see her again. Block her on all platforms.

They told me that she was manipulating me into commitment by LARPing as a "nice, good girl" but is, in reality, a raging Marxist with an astonishingly high body count and it would be a bad idea to LTR a girl who is likely a compulsive liar. My dad especially believes she is depraved, sick and just wants to add me as another one of her (likely 100+ bodies according to him) bodies. She sees me as a fetish object because of my prettyboyish looks and to add, she has been caught watching gay porn with a prettyboy bottoming and being spat on while I was taking a dump. He said I should cut off all contact with her because I shouldn't just be taken as some dumb, easy walkover moron and if I LTR her, he thinks the children might be degenerates and not compatible with my faith/upbringing. He said I deserve better than "a rough, promiscuous Western-raised girl from a single-mother council estate" who wants to "manipulate and destroy the soul of someone's son".
I also told him that she tried to coerce me to have sex without a condom, and I refused every single time. He thinks she wants to get a baby out of me, and dump me. So I should dump her before she dumps me out of "boredom". He even believes she could be having sex right at this minute with another man.

Meanwhile, my mum thinks she should be given a chance as I enjoyed being with her emotionally and the bonding activities we had brought us closer together. She also thinks that most Western women have high body counts and I shouldn't just dump a girl because she's "promiscuous".

Maybe I shouldn't have moved in too quickly with her but again I blame this on my loneliness and inexperience.

What do you think?

listen to ur dad not mom

 

[Mik]

I'm not bothering with the letter. The last thing I sent to her was "Take care" and I blocked her.

O damn. Go find yourself a Stacy that loves you

 

[Xangsane]

O damn. Go find yourself a Stacy that loves you

Stacy is a bit of a stretch but as long as the right girl comes into my life I'd snap her up.

 

[RecessedCel5]

I can't date women with OnlyFans....
plus she hid all this info from me

ok , break up with her , literally garbage

 

[germanlooks]

Tales

 

[Michael Myers]

Thank you. I just had a phone call with her and it lasted for quite a while; she was outside when she was taking the call at first and I could hear a few (mostly female) voices in the background. I'm assuming she was out but she sounded a little slurred/light on the line, and low inhib. So she hung up, waited about 10 minutes to go to a quiet area, and started talking to me. She sounded all good-girl, sweet and innocent at first when I tried to talk about nice and casual things to make her happy. Then, I brought up the fact I didn't like the sex she was having with me; then I proceeded to ask her about her sexual fantasies and if she'd ever considered a threesome.

She said she'd never considered having a threesome (my friend said she's been in a few threesomes already)

I asked her about the time when I caught her watching gay porn...

She was pretty sketchy and not giving detailed answers this time, but she admitted she always wanted to have sex with men that "look like sweet, innocent angels" and to watch them get dominated

I laughed at this response (I don't think this at all tbh) but I asked her to elab. She said one of her biggest turn-ons is to have sex with "angelic, innocent-looking men with nice, smooth bodies and big butts" and because I looked like "boyfriend material", "stable" and "a keeper" she really wanted to be my girlfriend

I also asked her if we see each other with children and married and she said "yes, I'd do anything for you"

I also asked her about what she's looking for and she really wants a boyfriend to settle down with, and he must be good-looking and educated.

Then I asked her about her Instagram account, her Onlyfans (that was on her Linktree) and her Snapchat score that was rising. She became so defensive about it and said "I'm broke and I really need to get money" and that "women shouldn't be shamed for posting thirst traps and nudes on the internet"

Then it broke out into a HUGE argument about sex work and the hatred of "men", the fact she's fetishizing me and taking me for granted, and the fact she's a compulsive liar (I brought up EVERY point)... And that I've spent so much money on her, making sure she's happy and taking care of her.... and yet she throws it back in my face (why would her Snap score be going up?)

I asked her about having sex outside of a relationship (my Nigerian friend's white friend) and she denies this... she says she doesn't know who this guy is or his friend.

I asked her about her parental status and she said both of her parents were living together (which is a lie)...

Man there's too much things to take in right now. My head hurts right now and I can't believe this happened to me...



I won't follow, nope. But I can definitely imagine who are the followers...
Yup that, plus I'm quite muscular already, so they'd assume I'm some brute. But nope. Probably it's because that I look more "boyish" and "clean" and she could sense my inexperience..... that's why she probably took advantage of me. And thank you, I'm gonna stay on here for the time being

I brought up the time when she tried to change her bold image when she perceived me as white to a "good girl" image after finding out my ethnic background and religion and she denies this


Thank you but I don't want to be seen as a little beta cuck


The worst thing is that it's a woman taking advantage of a man. What red flags would you say are the worst?

Yo what the fuck man she even had an onlyfans? She was lying so hard to you and deceiving you all along. Trying to play innocent and shit when in reality she was a big whore. Seriously having an onlyfans and then breaking down about it and defending her whore ways. No way lmao. Good thing it's over now bro. You did the right thing otherwise you'd be even more invested in her and even more depressed when eventually the two of you would break up later down the line. You're gonna feel sad the coming days and thats absolutely okay bro, let it out and move forward brother, one step at a time.

 

[oldcelloser]

based on what you wrote, you probably just sit in the corner and masturbate as the bull fucks your gf for onlyfans

 

[Lihito]

My parents told me they heard me sobbing upstairs in my room for a good hour and wanted to talk about it with me at the dinner table as honestly as I could.

• I told them about my relationship with the girl, what my friends told me, and the sort of activities we did together. These included the following:
  • I told them what my four friends said to me over the phone
  • I told them the emotions that went through me after what they said
• This included any sexual activity as well as bonding/dating activities.
  • Going on road trips together
  • Playing video games together
  • Playing music together
  • Drawing/painting together
  • Eating out together
  • Cooking together
  • We have sex pretty often, but most of the time she initiates it in the car. The sex style isn't what I like at all (I prefer romantic and sweet, emotional sex, she likes it pretty rough and kinky to the point my genitals and lips bled)

Based on what I told them today plus their own personal assessment, they advised me to do the following:

• Mum: Talk to her over the phone, or speak to her about her past in person over the weekend and if she's willing to own up and turn over a new leaf, keep her
• Dad: Send her a text over WhatsApp and break up with her. Do NOT visit her this weekend, and NEVER see her again. Block her on all platforms.

They told me that she was manipulating me into commitment by LARPing as a "nice, good girl" but is, in reality, a raging Marxist with an astonishingly high body count and it would be a bad idea to LTR a girl who is likely a compulsive liar. My dad especially believes she is depraved, sick and just wants to add me as another one of her (likely 100+ bodies according to him) bodies. She sees me as a fetish object because of my prettyboyish looks and to add, she has been caught watching gay porn with a prettyboy bottoming and being spat on while I was taking a dump. He said I should cut off all contact with her because I shouldn't just be taken as some dumb, easy walkover moron and if I LTR her, he thinks the children might be degenerates and not compatible with my faith/upbringing. He said I deserve better than "a rough, promiscuous Western-raised girl from a single-mother council estate" who wants to "manipulate and destroy the soul of someone's son".
I also told him that she tried to coerce me to have sex without a condom, and I refused every single time. He thinks she wants to get a baby out of me, and dump me. So I should dump her before she dumps me out of "boredom". He even believes she could be having sex right at this minute with another man.

Meanwhile, my mum thinks she should be given a chance as I enjoyed being with her emotionally and the bonding activities we had brought us closer together. She also thinks that most Western women have high body counts and I shouldn't just dump a girl because she's "promiscuous".

Maybe I shouldn't have moved in too quickly with her but again I blame this on my loneliness and inexperience.

What do you think?

Not gonna read this bible