Telling Parents about surgery

[gowtherr]

Getting lateral canthoplasty paired with either llrr or upper bleph within the next few months. Still live with my parents btw, if I tell them they are going to be FUCKING PISSED and def won't understand, at least not both of them. Getting surgery regardless because I'm horrible looking but telling them is gonna be brutal because there's no way I'm hiding ts for months lmao. Might even get kicked out of the house and be homeless...at least I'll ascend tho. Any advice or is it over for me.

 

[foidsaremean]

dude the surgery can wait 2 months if that means you can get enough money to do what you want and move out. mirin the priorities though still living with parents but has hardmaxx money

 

[gowtherr]

dude the surgery can wait 2 months if that means you can get enough money to do what you want and move out. mirin the priorities though still living with parents but has hardmaxx money

Anything to ascend lmao but idk where you live but 2 months is not cutting it for moving out the economy is brutallll

 

[t0urist]

Any advice or is it over for me.

Ngl moving out would help a ton especially during the healing phase, but just tell them after way easier without the drama beforehand and they can't undo the surgery they have to accept it and move on

 

[Usurper]

After I told mine I got told by my own father that looks don't matter in a man and that I have to accept myself as I am JFL, he also said that it's all in my head lmfao I need 8mm incisor ap advancement and 15 to 20mm pog, but it's all in my head.

And my mom told me to just get out there. "ooooh brrrrrooothherrr you are all day in your house how are you going to meet woman" yeah sure as if I haven't gone through school and then college.

JFL looks don't matter I am sure him marrying a clinically retarded woman that he had to maintain as housewife didn't have anything to do with it. I am also 165 like him . I don't blame him but, jesus christ he copes.

Getting oh brotheeerrred by your own parents definitely doesn't feel good.

 

[Foidslayer33366]

Parents always want the worst for their child when it comes to looks they geniunely dont want to understand

 

[Animepilled]

Parents always want the worst for their child when it comes to looks they geniunely dont want to understand

I think they are just afraid of surgeries

 

[Usurper]

I think they are just afraid of surgeries

As well but they also cope and gaslight you.

 

[ＥＳＲ]

If u gonna pay it with ur money
So it’s not their own business

 

[anon854]

never tell them before, mine would have never accepted it but i got them anyway and when i came back home they accepted it pretty quickly, especially since i looked much better than before

 

[gowtherr]

never tell them before, mine would have never accepted it but i got them anyway and when i came back home they accepted it pretty quickly, especially since i looked much better than before

Isn't it stressful post op to have to justify and explain it to them or no

 

[anon854]

Isn't it stressful post op to have to justify and explain it to them or no

oh if i told them before that i'm going to a shithole country to get my skull cut open it would be a catastrophe, they would try everything in their power to stop it, meanwhile just showing up looking different after your trip they can only accept it as it's done already

 

[gowtherr]

oh if i told them before that i'm going to a shithole country to get my skull cut open it would be a catastrophe, they would try everything in their power to stop it, meanwhile just showing up looking different after your trip they can only accept it as it's done already

Thats fair lmao I'm considering it lwk