The age pill hits you like a truck. The older you get, the shittier and more grim reality grows.

[Deleted member 11167]

These past couple of days I was reminiscing about some good times back when I played Pokemon ROM hacks, I couldn't help but remember how much more excited I was for life.

I would walk around the city with my friends thinking about just how great life will be when I turn older being able to drive and own a car, get my own place buy furniture for it get myself a girlfriend, having kids, travel the world.

Overall just dreaming of a future dotted with accomplishments. Thinking life can be great and you are at the driver's seat and all this other naive nonsense.

With every year past 14 towards 18, you start to become more aware. It's almost like since birth you were standing in front of a wall, but it was covered with a curtain and then with years, this curtain little by little starts to slide to the side and you slowly start seeing the writing on the wall. And with each year you start to realize that life is all based on your resource, and the most important ones are pre-determined.

You start to realize that all males around you are in competition with you for women and resources, they all think the same as you, they want to fuck hot chicks the just as you, do nothing the just as you, and get paid big just like you.

You realize looks decide your social value and social value decides how your life will go because connections are everything in this world.

You realize there is no love or true friendship and all this other bullshit. It's all conditional and depends on circumstances.

All women are snakes and they are never loyal, if a certain situation arises, they will switch to another candidate with better resources.

You realize that to afford living you are forced to wage slave, you realize that life has no meaning or purpose.

Things like religion or philosophy are just tools of cope.

You realize your time is limited on this Earth.

You see grey hairs on your head, you start balding, your skin sags, you cant run as fast as you did.


Eventually, you realize what a disappointing reality it all actually is. And it's was completely different during your childhood and early teens.

Aging is absolutely brutal.


"And then one day you find ten years have got behind you
No one told you when to run, you missed the starting gun"

 

[defaya]

 

[Deleted member 11758]

 

[Deleted member 6382]

teles u dog

 

[JimmyDreamsOfZygos]

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Oh bro I think I’m cumming to your avi who is that girl she’s so hot I want to fuck her

 

[Vermilioncore]

Very true. It’s why I’m sitting and awaiting death just looking at the clock. Everything is circumstantial to women. First off, you need the looks, you need to resources, you need to be NT, you need to have a car, a job, etc. In this world you cannot be loved or befriended by anyone unless you have something to offer. You can be the kindest man on the planet, but that means nothing. This life is a very sad thing. When you look around you realize how alone you truly are. It’s depressing.

 

[Deleted member 11167]

Very true. It’s why I’m sitting and awaiting death just looking at the clock. Everything is circumstantial to women. First off, you need the looks, you need to resources, you need to be NT, you need to have a car, a job, etc. In this world you cannot be loved or befriended by anyone unless you have something to offer. You can be the kindest man on the planet, but that means nothing. This life is a very sad thing. When you look around you realize how alone you truly are. It’s depressing.

The real problem is when you're on your 10~20 you still had hope that you'd find something to do with your life, hope to find the "promised girl" that likes shy guys, lasting friends to do things you like together. By your late 10s you realize this feeling will never go away, that girl does not exist and now the body joins the soul in bashing your existence.

If you were a "wisdom seeker" in your teenagehood you probably got lots of redpills about the system, the rat race, and everything else, you thought that by knowing it you could do better than everyone else, but as much as knowing that you're made of cells does not make you a god, knowing the game does not give you means to runway from it.

I wish I remained bluepilled cuck.

 

[Deleted member 11167]

teles u dog

Bark all you want I remain indifferent

 

[Vermilioncore]

The real problem is when you're on your 10~20 you still had hope that you'd find something to do with your life, hope to find the "promised girl" that likes shy guys, lasting friends to do things you like together. By your late 10s you realize this feeling will never go away, that girl does not exist and now the body joins the soul in bashing your existence.

If you were a "wisdom seeker" in your teenagehood you probably got lots of redpills about the system, the rat race, and everything else, you thought that by knowing it you could do better than everyone else, but as much as knowing that you're made of cells does not make you a god, knowing the game does not give you means to runway from it.

I wish I remained bluepilled cuck.

Yup. It’s just so sad that the concept of being loved or wanted for simply being you is non existent. Why must someone possess so many resources or experiences or traits to be wanted? People who say bluepilled shit like “love is all you need” or “love conquers all” are delusional fucks who live in a fantasy world. In reality this so called “love” is nothing more than admiration for a person’s capabilities, success, looks, or resources.

To sum it up, it is indeed over for so many fucking men that it’s not even funny

 

[Deleted member 13197]

Friends and connections aren't based on looks jfl i don't know who you've hung out with

even if it was then accept it as a good thing. I would like knowing that I'm high status and ppl admire me

i guess there are two types of thinking. you either love mogging others or you hate it

 

[Deleted member 5818]

getting older is ok if you are a mogger

 

[Deleted member 11167]

is ok if you are a mogger

 

[Deleted member 2214]

Good thing is that we were born in the future so now we have the benefit of anti aging technology keeping our scalp's pigmentation until 100.

 

[mewcoper]

getting older is ok if you are a mogger

everything is ok when you are mogger bro what are you talking about

 

[Deleted member 11167]

Good thing is that we were born in the future so now we have the benefit of anti aging technology keeping our scalp's pigmentation until 100.

We will all be to old when something akin to that releases and it will be expensive.

 

[Deleted member 2214]

We will all be to old when something akin to that releases and it will be expensive.

Gigacope

 

[Deleted member 11167]

Gigacope

 

[Carolus]

The real problem is when you're on your 10~20 you still had hope that you'd find something to do with your life, hope to find the "promised girl" that likes shy guys, lasting friends to do things you like together. By your late 10s you realize this feeling will never go away, that girl does not exist and now the body joins the soul in bashing your existence.

If you were a "wisdom seeker" in your teenagehood you probably got lots of redpills about the system, the rat race, and everything else, you thought that by knowing it you could do better than everyone else, but as much as knowing that you're made of cells does not make you a god, knowing the game does not give you means to runway from it.

I wish I remained bluepilled cuck.

I have friends that I do stuff with every year, even though we live in different cities we always find time to travel together to some new place. Found that group when I was 19-20 years old. They're a mixture of blue, red and blackpilled, but it's essential to have such a group I feel like.

But the promised girl.. the life of glory and achieving ones ''dreams''.. not so much.
All this considered, I don't wish I was bluepilled because somehow I still value the knowledge of it all above all else, no matter how dark it is. If you were bluepilled you'd still break down at 40/50 when you realise your entire life was a lie and that the truth is darker than the excuses you told yourself.

All that aside, I'm talking to a girl rn that is pretty(blonde, blue eyes etc). She seems relatively innocent and she's not at all popular on social media which is a good sign. Nonetheless I'm preparing for the eventual red/blackpill to hit me, but you still gotta give it a shot, and I'm not throwing away my shots

 

[Deleted member 3789]

This is cope because a man is wiser as he ages

 

[Deleted member 2403]

This is cope because a man is wiser as he ages

@RichmondBread alt

 

[john2]

I'm only 18 and I can see the age pill approaching me so furiously.
If it is highly impossible for me to ascend or even get laid with a landwhale now, it is over for me by the time I am 20+ yo.

 

[RichmondBread]

The older we get, the more you realize age is irrelevant.

 

[Deleted member 12002]

These past couple of days I was reminiscing about some good times back when I played Pokemon ROM hacks, I couldn't help but remember how much more excited I was for life.

I would walk around the city with my friends thinking about just how great life will be when I turn older being able to drive and own a car, get my own place buy furniture for it get myself a girlfriend, having kids, travel the world.

Overall just dreaming of a future dotted with accomplishments. Thinking life can be great and you are at the driver's seat and all this other naive nonsense.

With every year past 14 towards 18, you start to become more aware. It's almost like since birth you were standing in front of a wall, but it was covered with a curtain and then with years, this curtain little by little starts to slide to the side and you slowly start seeing the writing on the wall. And with each year you start to realize that life is all based on your resource, and the most important ones are pre-determined.

You start to realize that all males around you are in competition with you for women and resources, they all think the same as you, they want to fuck hot chicks the just as you, do nothing the just as you, and get paid big just like you.

You realize looks decide your social value and social value decides how your life will go because connections are everything in this world.

You realize there is no love or true friendship and all this other bullshit. It's all conditional and depends on circumstances.

All women are snakes and they are never loyal, if a certain situation arises, they will switch to another candidate with better resources.

You realize that to afford living you are forced to wage slave, you realize that life has no meaning or purpose.

Things like religion or philosophy are just tools of cope.

You realize your time is limited on this Earth.

You see grey hairs on your head, you start balding, your skin sags, you cant run as fast as you did.


Eventually, you realize what a disappointing reality it all actually is. And it's was completely different during your childhood and early teens.

Aging is absolutely brutal.


"And then one day you find ten years have got behind you
No one told you when to run, you missed the starting gun"

I'm so much more excited about my life at 33 than I was during the days when I would play Pokemon, run around town, and go swimming on the lake with my sh*t heel friends. I was happy then, but I'm so much happier now. Things were better for me at 14 than they were at 18, but after I reached 20 things started to get better again. And it's only gotten better and better with each passing year.

You gotta grow up dude. Quit whining about the loss of your innocence, build a bridge, and get over it.

 

[sub6manletnozygos]

I'm so much more excited about my life at 33 than I was during the days when I would play Pokemon, run around town, and go swimming on the lake with my sh*t heel friends. I was happy then, but I'm so much happier now. Things were better for me at 14 than they were at 18, but after I reached 20 things started to get better again. And it's only gotten better and better with each passing year.

You gotta grow up dude. Quit whining about the loss of your innocence, build a bridge, and get over it.

how? can you give details as to why you are 'so much more excited about [your] life at 33'?

 

[Deleted member 12002]

how? can you give details as to why you are 'so much more excited about [your] life at 33'?

My first child's due to be born in 3 months. I got a sizeable amount of money that I've earned on my own, without ever having set foot in a college or university. I've traveled around the world living an international lifestyle for the past 10 years. I've lived in 15 different major cities during that time. My vacations usually last six months and spanning multiple tropical countries. I've got plans to start a business in within the next 5 years.

 

[sub6manletnozygos]

My first child's due to be born in 3 months. I got a sizeable amount of money that I've earned on my own, without ever having set foot in a college or university. I've traveled around the world living an international lifestyle for the past 10 years. I've lived in 15 different major cities during that time. My vacations usually last six months and spanning multiple tropical countries. I've got plans to start a business in within the next 5 years.

unironically, nice work chad.
how did you manage international lifestyle for 10 years. what industry broadly?

 

[Deleted member 12002]

unironically, nice work chad.
how did you manage international lifestyle for 10 years. what industry broadly?

Teaching English mainly. I've also worked at bars, clubs, hotels, and in sales. It's nothing special. Anybody can hop around the world and make a lot of money while doing so. You just gotta have the balls to go into it with the knowledge that you're either gonna sink or swim, without knowing exactly how you'll manage it. Opportunities will always come your way if you have the right mindset.

Don't care if you'll end up on the streets. Just leave your home and go do something. You'll be alright. First time I went abroad on a one way ticket I had nothin but $500 in my pocket. I had a teaching job lined up, but no idea how to teach. I got fired from that job pretty quickly but found another one immediately.

 

[MarstonAlloy]

Cope

 

[sub6manletnozygos]

Teaching English mainly. I've also worked at bars, clubs, hotels, and in sales. It's nothing special. Anybody can hop around the world and make a lot of money while doing so. You just gotta have the balls to go into it with the knowledge that you're either gonna sink or swim, without knowing exactly how you'll manage it. Opportunities will always come your way if you have the right mindset.

Don't care if you'll end up on the streets. Just leave your home and go do something. You'll be alright. First time I went abroad on a one way ticket I had nothin but $500 in my pocket. I had a teaching job lined up, but no idea how to teach. I got fired from that job pretty quickly but found another one immediately.

this is very interesting.
can you tell me more about why you managed to get fired from your first job? And how you managed to get your second job? how did you teach yourself to teach english after getting fired from your first job?
Leaving with a one-way and nothing but $500 is high t low inhibition.

 

[Deleted member 12002]

this is very interesting.
can you tell me more about why you managed to get fired from your first job? And how you managed to get your second job? how did you teach yourself to teach english after getting fired from your first job?
Leaving with a one-way and nothing but $500 is high t low inhibition.

I got fired because I simply couldn't teach. The people were rude to me as well, so I was rude to them back. And I refused to do promotional work outside the school for them. After getting fired I found an agent in another city who flew me there with the intention of getting me a job at another school. She payed for everything and even gave me a free apartment to live in. For two months the agent got me gigs at different kinds of schools where I earned enough money to live on while she took a cut. During this time I learned how to teach. There was no pressure or any kind of expectations at any of these types of schools. They basically just told me to go into the classroom and teach whatever kind of content I wanted. I taught at private training centers with young kids as well as middle schools and high schools. I never prepared anything and often got stoned before my lessons.

It's a hell of a rush being thrown at the front of a classroom full of 50 high schoolers stoned out of your mind, with no preparations or any kind of experience, for two 45 minute intervals. At first it's like "Oh shit!" (deer in the headlights), then you're just like "f*ck it I'm just gonna start talking about something and ask the students a bunch of questions". After being through the shock of it a few times you start to get good at keeping things interesting. That's the best way to learn. Makes you less inhibited. The first school I taught at wanted me to teach in a very specific way. I had to break through the inhibitions of teaching on my own terms before I got better.

After two months of this I got another full time job and a better apartment.

 

[sub6manletnozygos]

I got fired because I simply couldn't teach. The people were rude to me as well, so I was rude to them back. And I refused to do promotional work outside the school for them. After getting fired I found an agent in another city who flew me there with the intention of getting me a job at another school. She payed for everything and even gave me a free apartment to live in. For two months the agent got me gigs at different kinds of schools where I earned enough money to live on while she took a cut. During this time I learned how to teach. There was no pressure or any kind of expectations at any of these types of schools. They basically just told me to go into the classroom and teach whatever kind of content I wanted. I taught at private training centers with young kids as well as middle schools and high schools. I never prepared anything and often got stoned before my lessons.

It's a hell of a rush being thrown at the front of a classroom full of 50 high schoolers stoned out of your mind, with no preparations or any kind of experience, for two 45 minute intervals. At first it's like "Oh shit!" (deer in the headlights), then you're just like "f*ck it I'm just gonna start talking about something and ask the students a bunch of questions". After being through the shock of it a few times you start to get good at keeping things interesting. That's the best way to learn. Makes you less inhibited. The first school I taught at wanted me to teach in a very specific way. I had to break through the inhibitions of teaching on my own terms before I got better.

After two months of this I got another full time job and a better apartment.

fascinating. you must have high fluid intelligence to be able to improvise so well. what would you even teach the students in ur hypothetical scenario ('put in front of 50 foreign HSs with zero class prep')?

 

[Deleted member 12002]

fascinating. you must have high fluid intelligence to be able to improvise so well. what would you even teach the students in ur hypothetical scenario ('put in front of 50 foreign HSs with zero class prep')?

The first time I sang and danced "Head shoulders knees and toes", in front of the class of high schoolers, lol. One of the most awkward moments of my life. I got over the embarrassment almost immediately though. Before that I'd just been used to trying to teach little kids. I had no idea how to appeal to older teens. After that embarrassing moment I just started talking about stuff. I think I talked about travel or something before proceeding to ask students to tell me about their future goals/where they've been and whatnot. I made a games where they'd have to come up to the board and write words and stuff.

After getting better I made it a point to act awkward, or even deranged, whenever introducing myself to a new group of students. I'd introduce myself and start singing at the top of my lungs with perpousful tone deafness/making my voice crack or whatever. I liked messing with my students like that at first. It got their attention, and made them love me all the more when they seen that I'm actually confident and just having a good time with it. Then I'd just talk and joke with them for the rest of the class and end things with a simple game like 20 questions.

 

[sub6manletnozygos]

The first time I sang and danced "Head shoulders knees and toes", in front of the class of high schoolers, lol. One of the most awkward moments of my life. I got over the embarrassment almost immediately though. Before that I'd just been used to trying to teach little kids. I had no idea how to appeal to older teens. After that embarrassing moment I just started talking about stuff. I think I talked about travel or something before proceeding to ask students to tell me about their future goals/where they've been and whatnot. I made a games where they'd have to come up to the board and write words and stuff.

After getting better I made it a point to act awkward, or even deranged, whenever introducing myself to a new group of students. I'd introduce myself and start singing at the top of my lungs with perpousful tone deafness/making my voice crack or whatever. I liked messing with my students like that at first. It got their attention, and made them love me all the more when they seen that I'm actually confident and just having a good time with it. Then I'd just talk and joke with them for the rest of the class and end things with a simple game like 20 questions.

great stories. thanks for sharing. did you end up having a child with a foreign female after all this travel? in your other post youyou say you moved into a 'better' apartment after moving to another school. Does this mean you can make a sizeable income teaching english? do they really take on people without 'education' majors/degrees?

 

[Deleted member 12002]

great stories. thanks for sharing. did you end up having a child with a foreign female after all this travel? in your other post youyou say you moved into a 'better' apartment after moving to another school. Does this mean you can make a sizeable income teaching english? do they really take on people without 'education' majors/degrees?

Last job I earned $2,937 a month (after taxes), and never exceeded a budget of $620 a month. My budget included everything. Rent (fully furnished 2 bedroom high rise private apartment), utilities, transportation, groceries, cigarettes, eating out, and all other miscellaneous spending. This was supporting my wife, who's a full time homemaker (doesn't work), as well as myself. My hours were Wednesday to Friday from only 4pm to 8pm (office hours included), Saturday and Sunday from 9am to 6pm (With a one to three hour lunch break, depending on how many classes I had to teach.), and Monday/Tuesday off.

I live in China. You gotta understand the demand for native English speakers over here is larger than anywhere else in the world. The last job I had wasn't anything special. The working hours/salary is pretty standard all over China. It's actually gone up since then. I got the job at the end of 2019 and quit last November. You don't need any experience or qualifications. I only went to high school myself. As long as you're a native English speaker you could fall ass backwards into one of these types of jobs.

Yeah, my wife is Chinese. I met her after being over here about 7 years.

 

[Deleted member 11167]

I'm so much more excited about my life at 33 than I was during the days when I would play Pokemon, run around town, and go swimming on the lake with my sh*t heel friends. I was happy then, but I'm so much happier now. Things were better for me at 14 than they were at 18, but after I reached 20 things started to get better again. And it's only gotten better and better with each passing year.

You gotta grow up dude. Quit whining about the loss of your innocence, build a bridge, and get over it.

I really don't know what is wrong with me my father tells me the same but I simply can't see a good future for myself everything I do I somehow mess up even basic things like socializing with others.

There is something deeply wrong with me I just cant put a finger on what exactly but that thing is preventing me from moving forward in life.

 

[DoctorPMA]

I dissagree. Life is like videogame. Keep learning new things, seeking new experiences and leveling up. Cynical view does not help

 

[Danish_Retard]

I dissagree. Life is like videogame. Keep learning new things, seeking new experiences and leveling up. Cynical view does not help

But fr tho, this perspective has changed some of the ways I view the world. Especially this fantastic thread.

Treat Success Like A Video Game

Life is simply a video game where you can't give up and log off. The R&G (randomness element) is brutal. You might be born as a 1 PSL orphan in an underdeveloped, wartorn nation. You might be born in NYC to two loving, wealthy parents, whose genetics afforded you 7 PSL and 120 IQ. Whatever...

looksmax.org

 

[studiocel]

Teaching English mainly. I've also worked at bars, clubs, hotels, and in sales. It's nothing special. Anybody can hop around the world and make a lot of money while doing so. You just gotta have the balls to go into it with the knowledge that you're either gonna sink or swim, without knowing exactly how you'll manage it. Opportunities will always come your way if you have the right mindset.

Don't care if you'll end up on the streets. Just leave your home and go do something. You'll be alright. First time I went abroad on a one way ticket I had nothin but $500 in my pocket. I had a teaching job lined up, but no idea how to teach. I got fired from that job pretty quickly but found another one immediately.

English teacher maxxing is very legit. My short Chinese uncle was born in the west then moved to Japan to teach english and married a Japanese woman.

 

[Rabbi]

These past couple of days I was reminiscing about some good times back when I played Pokemon ROM hacks, I couldn't help but remember how much more excited I was for life.

I would walk around the city with my friends thinking about just how great life will be when I turn older being able to drive and own a car, get my own place buy furniture for it get myself a girlfriend, having kids, travel the world.

Overall just dreaming of a future dotted with accomplishments. Thinking life can be great and you are at the driver's seat and all this other naive nonsense.

With every year past 14 towards 18, you start to become more aware. It's almost like since birth you were standing in front of a wall, but it was covered with a curtain and then with years, this curtain little by little starts to slide to the side and you slowly start seeing the writing on the wall. And with each year you start to realize that life is all based on your resource, and the most important ones are pre-determined.

You start to realize that all males around you are in competition with you for women and resources, they all think the same as you, they want to fuck hot chicks the just as you, do nothing the just as you, and get paid big just like you.

You realize looks decide your social value and social value decides how your life will go because connections are everything in this world.

You realize there is no love or true friendship and all this other bullshit. It's all conditional and depends on circumstances.

All women are snakes and they are never loyal, if a certain situation arises, they will switch to another candidate with better resources.

You realize that to afford living you are forced to wage slave, you realize that life has no meaning or purpose.

Things like religion or philosophy are just tools of cope.

You realize your time is limited on this Earth.

You see grey hairs on your head, you start balding, your skin sags, you cant run as fast as you did.


Eventually, you realize what a disappointing reality it all actually is. And it's was completely different during your childhood and early teens.

Aging is absolutely brutal.


"And then one day you find ten years have got behind you
No one told you when to run, you missed the starting gun"

Hairpilled again just LDAR

 

[volcelfatcel]

Hairpill = agepill, hair is aging.

Hairpilled again just LDAR

 

[Deleted member 4562]

saying philosophy is cope is very low iq, virtues are the only thing that matters beyond looks and hedonism

 

[Deleted member 5061]

You realize there is no love or true friendship and all this other bullshit. It's all conditional and depends on circumstances.

All women are snakes and they are never loyal, if a certain situation arises, they will switch to another candidate with better resources.

Absolutely based and 100% correct. Also friends are snakes at the end of the day, they would throw you under the bus for pussy crumbs without thinking twice. Trust me when I tell you, they can be acting like your biggest dudebros when youre partying with them etc. but when it comes to thots, they will throw you under the bus quicker than you can imagine.

 

[Deleted member 5061]

Last job I earned $2,937 a month (after taxes), and never exceeded a budget of $620 a month. My budget included everything. Rent (fully furnished 2 bedroom high rise private apartment), utilities, transportation, groceries, cigarettes, eating out, and all other miscellaneous spending. This was supporting my wife, who's a full time homemaker (doesn't work), as well as myself. My hours were Wednesday to Friday from only 4pm to 8pm (office hours included), Saturday and Sunday from 9am to 6pm (With a one to three hour lunch break, depending on how many classes I had to teach.), and Monday/Tuesday off.

I live in China. You gotta understand the demand for native English speakers over here is larger than anywhere else in the world. The last job I had wasn't anything special. The working hours/salary is pretty standard all over China. It's actually gone up since then. I got the job at the end of 2019 and quit last November. You don't need any experience or qualifications. I only went to high school myself. As long as you're a native English speaker you could fall ass backwards into one of these types of jobs.

Yeah, my wife is Chinese. I met her after being over here about 7 years.

Mad respect mate, really low inhib and high T to leave everything behind and just move toa different country and actually succeed at the end.

Since youre married already, why are you here then out of all places/forums on the internet? Dont mean to sound rude or anything like that. Im legit wondering, since youve actually achieved what most ppl here want and once you ascend with a wife, youre all set tbh. No need to be on forums like this one lol.

 

[Deleted member 13076]

How old is OP? please don't tell me you're fucking 18

 

[Rabbi]

Pure autism

 

[sub6manletnozygos]

How old is OP? please don't tell me you're fucking 18

OP is 48 yo boomer

 

[sub6manletnozygos]

Last job I earned $2,937 a month (after taxes), and never exceeded a budget of $620 a month. My budget included everything. Rent (fully furnished 2 bedroom high rise private apartment), utilities, transportation, groceries, cigarettes, eating out, and all other miscellaneous spending. This was supporting my wife, who's a full time homemaker (doesn't work), as well as myself. My hours were Wednesday to Friday from only 4pm to 8pm (office hours included), Saturday and Sunday from 9am to 6pm (With a one to three hour lunch break, depending on how many classes I had to teach.), and Monday/Tuesday off.

I live in China. You gotta understand the demand for native English speakers over here is larger than anywhere else in the world. The last job I had wasn't anything special. The working hours/salary is pretty standard all over China. It's actually gone up since then. I got the job at the end of 2019 and quit last November. You don't need any experience or qualifications. I only went to high school myself. As long as you're a native English speaker you could fall ass backwards into one of these types of jobs.

Yeah, my wife is Chinese. I met her after being over here about 7 years.

amazing. i might think about english teacher maxxing then
do you still live in china and if so, do you intend to do so for the rest of your life? do you feel safe there? is there prejudice against white people and do you feel that chinese people get angry that your wife is chinese?

 

[Deleted member 12002]

amazing. i might think about english teacher maxxing then
do you still live in china and if so, do you intend to do so for the rest of your life? do you feel safe there? is there prejudice against white people and do you feel that chinese people get angry that your wife is chinese?

I feel safe here, but there's definitely prejuduce against whites. It's hard to explain how it manifests though. Things are little different. Someone who hasn't been here that long might mistake aggression for friendliness. They can be very passive aggressive at times. They can be overt with it as well. The most difficult thing for any Westerner to get used to while living in any Asian country is face culture. That's a whole subject of it's own though.

On the other hand, white people are celebrated too. A lot of people are just overly curious.

Some local people are angry about me having a Chinese wife. Nobody's ever said anything to her though. If they did they'll wish they hadn't. I get dirty looks sometimes. It can depend on where your're at though. I live in an area of Northern China (Shandong province). This place is extra traditional. Much more so than the South. So I get more resentment here. Most people mind their business though. Dirty looks is all I'll get.

But yeah, I'm in China. I plan to eventually move to Vietnam and start a business there. I've lived in Saigon for about 10 months before. Wonderful place. You can make good money teaching English there as well.

 

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I feel safe here, but there's definitely prejuduce against whites. It's hard to explain how it manifests though. Things are little different. Someone who hasn't been here that long might mistake aggression for friendliness. They can be very passive aggressive at times. They can be overt with it as well. The most difficult thing for any Westerner to get used to while living in any Asian country is face culture. That's a whole subject of it's own though.

On the other hand, white people are celebrated too. A lot of people are just overly curious.

Some local people are angry about me having a Chinese wife. Nobody's ever said anything to her though. If they did they'll wish they hadn't. I get dirty looks sometimes. It can depend on where your're at though. I live in an area of Northern China (Shandong province). This place is extra traditional. Much more so than the South. So I get more resentment here. Most people mind their business though. Dirty looks is all I'll get.

But yeah, I'm in China. I plan to eventually move to Vietnam and start a business there. I've lived in Saigon for about 10 months before. Wonderful place. You can make good money teaching English there as well.

thanks for sharing your stories low inhib chad. appreciate it

 

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thanks for sharing your stories low inhib chad. appreciate it

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