The few girls who like you are always exactly your type. NOT a coincidence (FIRST PROPER THREAD GTFIH)

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I have been noticing something weird throughout my life being HLTN/LMTN.
I don't get many IOIs from foids in general. But the ones who do happen to like me, irl or on dating apps, are always EXACTLY my type.


This surprised me, so I have been thinking about why it keeps happening.
Here's what I have come up with:

• There is a difference between broad and narrow attractiveness - For example chads will have a broad appeal, being good looking to most foids. While lower ranking guys can still have narrow appeal to a specific subset based on their unique features.

• Sample size - You only get to see the foids who act on interest. You dont even register the ones who DIDN'T. So your sample size ends up being heavily filtered from the beginning.

• People are usually attracted to others who sit in a similar aesthetic bracket to them - Whether it's similar facial harmony, similar "type" of features. Basically, attraction can go both ways based off of inherent overlap.

• Compounding halo effect - When someone is attracted to any halo feature you have (in my case, my eyes), they subconsciously upgrade the rest of you to match that even if the rest of you doesn't objectively match.

Its probably a combination of all of these things and maybe some other reasons I haven't listed. (I'm lazy)

Anyone else notice this or have any thoughts? Am curious to see if this is common for people who aren't broadly good looking but still pull specific types consistently.

 

[milkshake_addict]

RATIO

 

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BUMP

 

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Damn nobody gaf

 

[7Azcendr7]

Damn nobody gaf

Im a reading right now.

 

[alchemized]

Im a reading right now.

 

[7Azcendr7]

I have been noticing something weird throughout my life being HLTN/LMTN.
I don't get many IOIs from foids in general. But the ones who do happen to like me, irl or on dating apps, are always EXACTLY my type.


This surprised me, so I have been thinking about why it keeps happening.
Here's what I have come up with:

• There is a difference between broad and narrow attractiveness - For example chads will have a broad appeal, being good looking to most foids. While lower ranking guys can still have narrow appeal to a specific subset based on their unique features.

• Sample size - You only get to see the foids who act on interest. You dont even register the ones who DIDN'T. So your sample size ends up being heavily filtered from the beginning.

• People are usually attracted to others who sit in a similar aesthetic bracket to them - Whether it's similar facial harmony, similar "type" of features. Basically, attraction can go both ways based off of inherent overlap.

• Compounding halo effect - When someone is attracted to any halo feature you have (in my case, my eyes), they subconsciously upgrade the rest of you to match that even if the rest of you doesn't objectively match.

Its probably a combination of all of these things and maybe some other reasons I haven't listed. (I'm lazy)

Anyone else notice this or have any thoughts? Am curious to see if this is common for people who aren't broadly good looking but still pull specific types consistently.

Sort of high iq I suppose. Mirin effort and logic. There are some flaws in this reasoning though.

 

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Sort of high iq I suppose. Mirin effort and logic. There are some flaws in this reasoning though.

Ty. Just roughly thought it out and wanted to get a thread up but yeah, could definitely be improved

 

[Viriato_catholic]

I agree

 

[Nikmaxxer]

I have been noticing something weird throughout my life being HLTN/LMTN.
I don't get many IOIs from foids in general. But the ones who do happen to like me, irl or on dating apps, are always EXACTLY my type.


This surprised me, so I have been thinking about why it keeps happening.
Here's what I have come up with:

• There is a difference between broad and narrow attractiveness - For example chads will have a broad appeal, being good looking to most foids. While lower ranking guys can still have narrow appeal to a specific subset based on their unique features.

• Sample size - You only get to see the foids who act on interest. You dont even register the ones who DIDN'T. So your sample size ends up being heavily filtered from the beginning.

• People are usually attracted to others who sit in a similar aesthetic bracket to them - Whether it's similar facial harmony, similar "type" of features. Basically, attraction can go both ways based off of inherent overlap.

• Compounding halo effect - When someone is attracted to any halo feature you have (in my case, my eyes), they subconsciously upgrade the rest of you to match that even if the rest of you doesn't objectively match.

Its probably a combination of all of these things and maybe some other reasons I haven't listed. (I'm lazy)

Anyone else notice this or have any thoughts? Am curious to see if this is common for people who aren't broadly good looking but still pull specific types consistently.

Don't know man,it sounds high Iq,Pheno plays a role too,But there are persons who have not the level atractive of a chad,But still can pull diferent types of women ,and not only the same as him

 

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Don't know man,it sounds high Iq,Pheno plays a role too,But there are persons who have not the level atractive of a chad,But still can pull diferent types of women ,and not only the same as him

do you think that’s more down to social skill/presence, or do you think pheno alone can actually have wide appeal on its own?

there’s lots of other variables I haven’t added in the thread but I may make a comprehensive one down the line

 

[Nikmaxxer]

do you think that’s more down to social skill/presence, or do you think pheno alone can actually have wide appeal on its own?

there’s lots of other variables I haven’t added in the thread but I may make a comprehensive one down the line

Pheno can,women Will always prefer some stereotipes ,like white skin above a black skin,but it depends on the looks of the person too

 

[nuhi2k]

i agree mirin

 

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Pheno can,women Will always prefer some stereotipes ,like white skin above a black skin,but it depends on the looks of the person too

Yeah I suppose. But pheno does differ from ethnicity. I have seen photos of indigenous tribes where some have different phenos to eachother.

So it’s a different variable but yeah it could be included.

 

[bluebandz]

I have been noticing something weird throughout my life being HLTN/LMTN.
I don't get many IOIs from foids in general. But the ones who do happen to like me, irl or on dating apps, are always EXACTLY my type.


This surprised me, so I have been thinking about why it keeps happening.
Here's what I have come up with:

• There is a difference between broad and narrow attractiveness - For example chads will have a broad appeal, being good looking to most foids. While lower ranking guys can still have narrow appeal to a specific subset based on their unique features.

• Sample size - You only get to see the foids who act on interest. You dont even register the ones who DIDN'T. So your sample size ends up being heavily filtered from the beginning.

• People are usually attracted to others who sit in a similar aesthetic bracket to them - Whether it's similar facial harmony, similar "type" of features. Basically, attraction can go both ways based off of inherent overlap.

• Compounding halo effect - When someone is attracted to any halo feature you have (in my case, my eyes), they subconsciously upgrade the rest of you to match that even if the rest of you doesn't objectively match.

Its probably a combination of all of these things and maybe some other reasons I haven't listed. (I'm lazy)

Anyone else notice this or have any thoughts? Am curious to see if this is common for people who aren't broadly good looking but still pull specific types consistently.

unless your type is people with similarities that are shared this doesn’t completely explain it. This threads very cool and makes you think. mirin

 

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unless your type is people with similarities that are shared this doesn’t completely explain it. This threads very cool and makes you think. mirin

yup very true.

it’s a pretty dense topic with so much variables. will definitely be interesting to look into further.

thanks bro

 

[mahoey]

I want to fucking kill myself

 

[Jinxian]

I want to fucking kill myself

dawg

 

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I want to fucking kill myself

 

[height maxxer]

good thread

 

[alchemized]

good thread