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ThatDjangoWalk
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To earn again your own self esteem and self respect, and not only that but to overcome all expectatives, you have to first realize that the 12-35 year old involuntary celibate behind the screen on his basement who is at the bottom of his society and spends 10 hours a day crying on a forum about his face/height/baldness whatever while at the same time somehow he thinks he is intelligent and the real deal while he doesn't even realize his own situation and have at least the decency to lower his head, let alone about him realizing the situation of the rest of the environment and people that sourround him, that same user who is arguing with you and perhaps has even the audacity of insulting you, yes, that same user is a trash can and his opinions have the same value as him and shouldn't affect you at all.
If you let somehow the bottom of society affect you, then know that you are lowering yourself to his grounds which are the grounds of ignorance, and since he has mastered ignorance he will defeat you on those terms.
After that, using your head and realizing where are you at and what sourrounds you, then Insha Allah (God Willing) you will improve step by step, until you earn a decent life in which you will realize you don't need to seek the respect of anyone, rather, the people will seek your respect.
If you let somehow the bottom of society affect you, then know that you are lowering yourself to his grounds which are the grounds of ignorance, and since he has mastered ignorance he will defeat you on those terms.
After that, using your head and realizing where are you at and what sourrounds you, then Insha Allah (God Willing) you will improve step by step, until you earn a decent life in which you will realize you don't need to seek the respect of anyone, rather, the people will seek your respect.