The Harsh Reality Of Dating

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This is the story of me 18M and my ex-gf 17F who ghosted me today after 8 months of being together. The reason I'm posting this here is because my whole life ive always been around the self-improvement and red pill and in around 2022 discovered black pill. Although I do agree that looks matter as when I started putting more effort into my looks, I did attract more female attention obviously I wouldn't cuff up these girls first though as I believed just be first pill is REAL. I finally met my girlfriend I was her first partner and everything for a visual understanding I am 6'3 not fat not skinny around 170 pounds and i workout 6 days a week. And im not some sub 5 but im not no chad either ive been rated MTN in actual bp servers and bp ratings but, What I'm trying to say is these foids are forever hypergamous no amount of looksmaxxing and ascending will save you. You may be able to have meaningless sex with some girls, but true genuine connection is pretty much over nowadays. Although it may sound like im ranting I just want somebody out there to know NO MATTER how much self improvement you do from looks to money to status TRUE LOVE DOESNT EXIST you may be able to just fuck but true genuine connection is honestly over just be first pill wont even save you im proof of that. In summary ITS OVER STOP TRYING IF YOU DO END UP DOING ALL THE WORK JUST PLAY THESE HOES DONT LOCK IN LIKE A ME.
tldr - gf ghosts me after 8 months of being together randomly be first pill isnt true no matter how much work you do you will never have true love due to how hypergamous foids are in the big 26.
 
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if you arent a nepo baby born chad its over
 
Its possible, also how the fuck does your gf just ghost you
 
This is the story of me 18M and my ex-gf 17F who ghosted me today after 8 months of being together. The reason I'm posting this here is because my whole life ive always been around the self-improvement and red pill and in around 2022 discovered black pill. Although I do agree that looks matter as when I started putting more effort into my looks, I did attract more female attention obviously I wouldn't cuff up these girls first though as I believed just be first pill is REAL. I finally met my girlfriend I was her first partner and everything for a visual understanding I am 6'3 not fat not skinny around 170 pounds and i workout 6 days a week. And im not some sub 5 but im not no chad either ive been rated MTN in actual bp servers and bp ratings but, What I'm trying to say is these foids are forever hypergamous no amount of looksmaxxing and ascending will save you. You may be able to have meaningless sex with some girls, but true genuine connection is pretty much over nowadays. Although it may sound like im ranting I just want somebody out there to know NO MATTER how much self improvement you do from looks to money to status TRUE LOVE DOESNT EXIST you may be able to just fuck but true genuine connection is honestly over just be first pill wont even save you im proof of that. In summary ITS OVER STOP TRYING IF YOU DO END UP DOING ALL THE WORK JUST PLAY THESE HOES DONT LOCK IN LIKE A ME.
tldr - gf ghosts me after 8 months of being together randomly be first pill isnt true no matter how much work you do you will never have true love due to how hypergamous foids are in the big 26.
im calling tales. i refuse to believe you just woke up one day after 8 months and she was gone like the wind.
 
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im calling tales. i refuse to believe you just woke up one day after 8 months and she was gone like the wind.
Im dead ass it happened today basically the whole story was 2 weeks she was acting very weird for the first 4 days saying she was busy with her aunts new born and family etc and doesnt want to talk to anybody I told her its alright and then she never texted me for 10 days and just randomly blocked me on everything today without a single word of what ive done wrong.
 
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Im dead ass it happened today basically the whole story was 2 weeks she was acting very weird for the first 4 days saying she was busy with her aunts new born and family etc and doesnt want to talk to anybody I told her its alright and then she never texted me for 10 days and just randomly blocked me on everything today without a single word of what ive done wrong.
in 10 days you didnt send her a single message?
 
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Yes friend, also rep me bitch
I also do believe its possible but in my own opinion only if you are each others firsts I did for the most part everything correct I was the first I also looked alright enough and was tall as well true love is possible I do believe though that a LTB has more options than a CL male my girlfriend was 103 pounds at 5'3 maybe if she was some 200 pound ogre we could of had true love but true love in your looksmatch is over due to hypergamy.
 
in 10 days you didnt send her a single message
I said goodmorning once but she said she needed space and she was busy and didnt want to talk to anybody I didnt want to overstep.
 
Its possible, also how the fuck does your gf just ghost you
Honestly I dont know how she just ghosts me like that I just wish I couldve gotten a conversation to why she was leaving,
 
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I said goodmorning once but she said she needed space and she was busy and didnt want to talk to anybody I didnt want to overstep.
well that's completely fucked and scary if this is real. i don't think i agree with your sentiment but i'm sorry that happened to you man, i hope you feel better.
 
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well that's completely fucked and scary if this is real. i don't think i agree with your sentiment but i'm sorry that happened to you man, i hope you feel better.
Well this is fucked and real I know it seems like its not honestly shit seems like a reddit story by AI I honestly look like such a clown.
 
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ive had multiple relationships once i ascended, they mostly failed because i went for sex lust and looks the most.
for a partner you'll have to find a gem, that is perfectly inside and outside. not just from the outside.
looks open the doors, but they wont keep you in the room.

my friend got cheated on after 6 years, they met at 13 years, and 2 months ago she decided to cheat, leave and fuck a better
looking guy. :feelswhy:
 
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ive had multiple relationships once i ascended, they mostly failed because i went for sex lust and looks the most.
for a partner you'll have to find a gem, that is perfectly inside and outside. not just from the outside.
looks open the doors, but they wont keep you in the room.

my friend got cheated on after 6 years, they met at 13 years, and 2 months ago she decided to cheat, leave and fuck a better
looking guy. :feelswhy:
You may be correct I did lust over her quite a bit but I also loved her as well I think it was like 75% love 25% Lust so you may be correct on the fact that my lust ruined this relationship.
 
This is the story of me 18M and my ex-gf 17F who ghosted me today after 8 months of being together. The reason I'm posting this here is because my whole life ive always been around the self-improvement and red pill and in around 2022 discovered black pill. Although I do agree that looks matter as when I started putting more effort into my looks, I did attract more female attention obviously I wouldn't cuff up these girls first though as I believed just be first pill is REAL. I finally met my girlfriend I was her first partner and everything for a visual understanding I am 6'3 not fat not skinny around 170 pounds and i workout 6 days a week. And im not some sub 5 but im not no chad either ive been rated MTN in actual bp servers and bp ratings but, What I'm trying to say is these foids are forever hypergamous no amount of looksmaxxing and ascending will save you. You may be able to have meaningless sex with some girls, but true genuine connection is pretty much over nowadays. Although it may sound like im ranting I just want somebody out there to know NO MATTER how much self improvement you do from looks to money to status TRUE LOVE DOESNT EXIST you may be able to just fuck but true genuine connection is honestly over just be first pill wont even save you im proof of that. In summary ITS OVER STOP TRYING IF YOU DO END UP DOING ALL THE WORK JUST PLAY THESE HOES DONT LOCK IN LIKE A ME.
tldr - gf ghosts me after 8 months of being together randomly be first pill isnt true no matter how much work you do you will never have true love due to how hypergamous foids are in the big 26.
You are 6 ft 3 MTN doomposting ? If you are white then I am going to lose my shit.
 
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You may be correct I did lust over her quite a bit but I also loved her as well I think it was like 75% love 25% Lust so you may be correct on the fact that my lust ruined this relationship.
one day we will all find pure love.:Comfy:
 
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You are 6 ft 3 MTN doomposting ? If you are white then I am going to lose my shit.
Lmao im white and I used to fraud A10 blue eyes with contacts I wasnt pale white cause I would tan but my parents are white so yes LOL thats why honestly just be first pill isnt real and imo if your partner has partners from the past it isnt true love.
 
one day we will all find pure love.:Comfy:
Honestly I dont know about pure love although I will probably find somebody else it wont be true love as we arent each others first. Ive rejected many girls thinking I needed a girl with no past for true love to exist and once I got that it turns out it doesnt matter at all. I wont be able to find true love as I honestly cant stand girls having a past before me.
 

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