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I've seen way too many threads on objectifying women and "not giving a fuck" on this forum.
Let me tell you, anyone who goes around telling EVERYONE who wants to listen how less of a fuck they give and say things like:
"YO I I DONT GIVE A FUCK MAN SERIOUSLY"
"I TOLD THAT BITCH SHE WAS A SLUT CAUSE I DONT GIVE A FUCK"
"LOL IDGAF WHAT THEY SAY ABOUT ME HATERS GONNA HATE"
I can tell you one thing about these people:
They give too many fucks.
This is the "I don't give a fuck" paradox.
The essence of the REAL IDGAF attitude is not being outcome-dependent and being more invested in the opinion you have of yourself than the opinion others have about you.
The problem is that MOST people interpret this wrong and just put up this fake mask of not giving a fuck. Inside they're still needy bitches.
There are two kinds of extremely needy people:
1) The well known chode. Doesn't stick up for himself, doesn't dare go for shit.
2) The IDGAF proclaimer. He objectifies women and does everything to show he doesn't give a fuck (e.g. ignore a girl's text cause she says she's going to be late for a date).
The only difference between the two is that the IDGAF proclaimer might get laid a few times, which further solidifies the thought that his attitude is something that helps him get good with women.
They put up a mask. They're the same chodes that just overcompensate and try to show how non-chodey they really are.
People that really aren't needy see right through this.
Really not giving a fuck is approaching a girl with the intent of meeting her and possibly sleeping with her. You don't expect it to go anywhere. You meet her to see if she vibes with you. You want to know what kind of person she is, how she will respond to you and your escalations.
Really not giving a fuck is being able to handle rejections and see them in a positive daylight.
Rejection = not having to spend more time trying to get a girl that wouldn't vibe with you anyway. You save your time for other girls that do. The IDGAF proclaimers might start doing funny shit or insult the girl to show they don't give a fuck.................................Think about what this really means.
Really not giving a fuck is recognizing where you are needy and to stop doing it.
Examples in texting:
-Sending a ton of follow-up texts = needy in the chodey way
-Punishing a girl for having waited 4 hours to respond to your texts by waiting even longer = needy in the IDGAF proclaimer way
-Purposely ignoring texts to show that you have a busy life = needy as FUCK.
Start being honest with others and especially with YOURSELF.
If you recognize the IDGAF proclaimer in your personality, smother it in its sleep.
It'll get you laid, but you'll never get good.
Note: This is something you can't just switch off at a whim. You'll get progressively less needy if you try to stay honest to yourself. It's something that comes with the reference experiences.
Let me tell you, anyone who goes around telling EVERYONE who wants to listen how less of a fuck they give and say things like:
"YO I I DONT GIVE A FUCK MAN SERIOUSLY"
"I TOLD THAT BITCH SHE WAS A SLUT CAUSE I DONT GIVE A FUCK"
"LOL IDGAF WHAT THEY SAY ABOUT ME HATERS GONNA HATE"
I can tell you one thing about these people:
They give too many fucks.
This is the "I don't give a fuck" paradox.
The essence of the REAL IDGAF attitude is not being outcome-dependent and being more invested in the opinion you have of yourself than the opinion others have about you.
The problem is that MOST people interpret this wrong and just put up this fake mask of not giving a fuck. Inside they're still needy bitches.
There are two kinds of extremely needy people:
1) The well known chode. Doesn't stick up for himself, doesn't dare go for shit.
2) The IDGAF proclaimer. He objectifies women and does everything to show he doesn't give a fuck (e.g. ignore a girl's text cause she says she's going to be late for a date).
The only difference between the two is that the IDGAF proclaimer might get laid a few times, which further solidifies the thought that his attitude is something that helps him get good with women.
They put up a mask. They're the same chodes that just overcompensate and try to show how non-chodey they really are.
People that really aren't needy see right through this.
Really not giving a fuck is approaching a girl with the intent of meeting her and possibly sleeping with her. You don't expect it to go anywhere. You meet her to see if she vibes with you. You want to know what kind of person she is, how she will respond to you and your escalations.
Really not giving a fuck is being able to handle rejections and see them in a positive daylight.
Rejection = not having to spend more time trying to get a girl that wouldn't vibe with you anyway. You save your time for other girls that do. The IDGAF proclaimers might start doing funny shit or insult the girl to show they don't give a fuck.................................Think about what this really means.
Really not giving a fuck is recognizing where you are needy and to stop doing it.
Examples in texting:
-Sending a ton of follow-up texts = needy in the chodey way
-Punishing a girl for having waited 4 hours to respond to your texts by waiting even longer = needy in the IDGAF proclaimer way
-Purposely ignoring texts to show that you have a busy life = needy as FUCK.
Start being honest with others and especially with YOURSELF.
If you recognize the IDGAF proclaimer in your personality, smother it in its sleep.
It'll get you laid, but you'll never get good.
Note: This is something you can't just switch off at a whim. You'll get progressively less needy if you try to stay honest to yourself. It's something that comes with the reference experiences.
