The modern dating market didn't collapse but rather the illusion of average guys having a chance just died

The only way an the average guy has a chance is if a woman is uniquely self aware about what u said and knows that if they don't find someone whilst young it will become harder as their looks fade (extremely unlikely) or if they are sick of being treated as a piece of meat by guys out of their league (more likely but still improbable unless they are old). Any other way I don't think women in this age will even consider someone who match up to the societally normalised standard of tall, rich, good looking and good personality. It's very sad, but it's a motivation to improve not just in looks but in everything.
Mirin the High IQ response.
hit the nail on the head regarding the fatigue dynamic most foids won't realize it until it's far too late. Focus on full self-improvement is the only real leverage left :feelswhy:
 
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we were literally saying the same thing.
not same tho hypergamy is a never ending loop like a dopamine loop/craving so better get ur girl develope self control or
True jfl :lul: their decision-making is 100% emotional and instinct-driven regardless of IQ ffs High IQ just gives them more sophisticated excuses for the exact same hypergamous selection
:feelswhy:

Mine has one. She's never used social media though.
cool i need to find someone like her where did u find her amazon forest ?
 
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not same tho hypergamy is a never ending loop like a dopamine loop/craving so better get ur girl develope self control or



cool i need to find someone like her where did u find her amazon forest ?
At work.
 
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Mirin the High IQ response.
hit the nail on the head regarding the fatigue dynamic most foids won't realize it until it's far too late. Focus on full self-improvement is the only real leverage left :feelswhy:
Sad thing is, even when the average guy finally gets that girl who's sick of being thrown around by chads she will be ran through and craving her former relationships. Never truly his. Fucked either way. Lose lose.
 
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People keep arguing whether the dating market is 'ruined' or if guys are just lazy but the truth is way simpler and brutal:

Social media and dating apps permanently removed geographic and status limits for women just as everyone knows.
An average girl with a smartphone now has access to the top tier of guys in a 50km radius, which could be as good as as bad for us. But why would any woman settle for an average fucking 5/10 guy when she has infinite validation and high-tier options sitting in her DMs 24/7?

Thinking 'just hit the gym and be nice' is enough in 2026 is pure cope sold by self-help grifters. If you aren't actively maxxing out your looks, status, and money to hit the top percentile, you literally don't fucking exist to women. Without aggressive maxing you're invisible (Should be knowledge by now)

Here is my actual hot take that nobody talks about:

It’s not just about hypergamy or high-tier guys pump-and-dumping but rather it’s an Attention Economy Paradox.

Dating apps didn't just give women options they turned modern dating into a high-dopamine casino for them. Think about it this way: A girl's brain receives so much passive, low-effort micro-validation daily from anyone I mean likes, story replies, DMs that her baseline sensitivity for romantic payoff is completely fried :lul:

Real-life dating with a normal guy requires emotional investment, patience, and dealing with real human flaws and none of which can compete with the friction-free, instantaneous dopamine hit of an app feed like tinder e.g.
Average guys aren't losing to 'better men' but rather they are losing to the phone screen itself. Women aren't replacing average guys with top-tier partners —> they are replacing traditional relationships with endless digital validation loops because real life feels too boring by comparison

Is there actually any realistic path left for an average guy to compete against instant digital dopamine or is the only option left to completely drop out of the game?



@migra
@Lefty Rankin
@VerlyChud
@RJ_ascends
real as shit
 
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WE all might just have to rope at this point gen no point in even trying if you want your life to be even anywhere near easy. Minimum is htn 6'3 to 6'5 and have a 7.5 inch dick if you make under 150k
 
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our ancestors began revolutions over less
 
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news water GIF
 
No but I was a zoo keeper at one point. Back when I was fucking your mom. I was rather taken with the hippo exhibit, I have to admit.
someones angwy
 
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high iq take
 
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jfl bro ty for the jokes go be a stand up comedian
Nah I'll just keep pimping. I've made too much money since I put your mom down. Seems a lot of dudes got a real thing for fat girls.
 
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Nah I'll just keep pimping. I've made too much money since I put your mom down. Seems a lot of dudes got a real thing for fat girls.
Calm down unc think abt this you are a 38 year old talking shit to a 15 year old on a forum site. You are more than double my age, but I'm not gonna say anything about your age being on forum site like this. Because I'll probably be on forum sites like you when I'm 38 too.
 
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Calm down unc think abt this you are a 38 year old talking shit to a 15 year old on a forum site. You are more than double my age, but I'm not gonna say anything about your age being on forum site like this. Because I'll probably be on forum sites like you when I'm 38 too.
I'll talk shit to anybody who starts shit. Let a four year old girl call me a loser. I'll squat down eye level with with her and tell her she's gonna grow up to be a stupid whore just like her mother. I'll make that little cunt cry and later that night sleep like a baby myself.

The difference between me and you is when I was your age, and the fifteen years that followed, I wasn't on any forums. I was too busy living my life. And when I finally did find myself on here it was for a totally different reason than yours.

Don't tell me ti calm down. I'm having fun at your expense)))
 
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I'll talk shit to anybody who starts shit. Let a four year old girl call me a loser. I'll squat down eye level with with her and tell her she's gonna grow up to be a stupid whore just like her mother. I'll make that little cunt cry and later that night sleep like a baby myself.

The difference between me and you is when I was your age, and the fifteen years that followed, I wasn't on any forums. I was too busy living my life. And when I finally did find myself on here it was for a totally different reason than yours.

Don't tell me ti calm down. I'm having fun at your expense)))
Yo bro you don't think I'm laughing my ass off too :feelsgood:
 
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Yo bro you don't think I'm laughing my ass off too :feelsgood:
I never gave it that much thought. You're either laughing or crying but neither make a difference to me. These types of interactions on here are dime a dozen for me.
 
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I never gave it that much thought. You're either laughing or crying but neither make a difference to me. These types of interactions on here are dime a dozen for me.
Yes you very right I've had to change my shirt 3 times because there is tears all over them they are absolutely soaked now because of you
 
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Yes you very right I've had to change my shirt 3 times because there is tears all over them they are absolutely soaked now because of you
As long as you don't start smacking yourself in the face with a brick.
 
:feelshah: where u work brada
Sad thing is, even when the average guy finally gets that girl who's sick of being thrown around by chads she will be ran through and craving her former relationships. Never truly his. Fucked either way. Lose lose.
:hnghn: yes ts is fucked in many ways it never began for us jfl
WE all might just have to rope at this point gen no point in even trying if you want your life to be even anywhere near easy. Minimum is htn 6'3 to 6'5 and have a 7.5 inch dick if you make under 150k
and that 6'3 htn vampire guy dont even want avg foid jfl hypergamy at top males :ROFLMAO:
Probably so
ts works for chads only :lul:
 
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People keep arguing whether the dating market is 'ruined' or if guys are just lazy but the truth is way simpler and brutal:

Social media and dating apps permanently removed geographic and status limits for women just as everyone knows.
An average girl with a smartphone now has access to the top tier of guys in a 50km radius, which could be as good as as bad for us. But why would any woman settle for an average fucking 5/10 guy when she has infinite validation and high-tier options sitting in her DMs 24/7?

Thinking 'just hit the gym and be nice' is enough in 2026 is pure cope sold by self-help grifters. If you aren't actively maxxing out your looks, status, and money to hit the top percentile, you literally don't fucking exist to women. Without aggressive maxing you're invisible (Should be knowledge by now)

Here is my actual hot take that nobody talks about:

It’s not just about hypergamy or high-tier guys pump-and-dumping but rather it’s an Attention Economy Paradox.

Dating apps didn't just give women options they turned modern dating into a high-dopamine casino for them. Think about it this way: A girl's brain receives so much passive, low-effort micro-validation daily from anyone I mean likes, story replies, DMs that her baseline sensitivity for romantic payoff is completely fried :lul:

Real-life dating with a normal guy requires emotional investment, patience, and dealing with real human flaws and none of which can compete with the friction-free, instantaneous dopamine hit of an app feed like tinder e.g.
Average guys aren't losing to 'better men' but rather they are losing to the phone screen itself. Women aren't replacing average guys with top-tier partners —> they are replacing traditional relationships with endless digital validation loops because real life feels too boring by comparison

Is there actually any realistic path left for an average guy to compete against instant digital dopamine or is the only option left to completely drop out of the game?



@migra
@Lefty Rankin
@VerlyChud
@RJ_ascends
I dropped out the game a year ago cuz of this.

I'm 6' MTN and I am fucking invisible.

I'm just so done with this shit. It's over for most guys.
 
:feelshah: where u work brada
I never really stay at the same job for more than a year. Last job I was a night time care giver in a group home for people with brain injuries. Before that i was a cook at a Chinese restaurant. Before that I ran a boarding/breeding kennel for dogs. Before that I was an English teacher. Before that I worked at a scam call center in South East Asia. Before that I worked in a basement of a hospital preparing meals for patients.
 

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