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how to know if youre non nt or nt anyways.
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It is encoded in your brain wiring but essentially you should ask yourself how effortlessly you can blend in with normies.how to know if youre non nt or nt anyways.
ok thanksIt is encoded in your brain wiring but essentially you should ask yourself how effortlessly you can blend in with normies.
If you can do it effortlessly, without feeling mentally drained and also happen to have the same interests, ways of thinking etc. then you are most likely neurotypical.
If you have a preference for more arcane interests, difficulty in navigating overly stimulative environments, and experience challenges with maintaining a flow state, then you are most likely neurodivergent.
Read everythingUnderstanding neurotypicals and neurodivergents
It has been a while since I last created a high-effort thread, but I felt compelled to write this one as this myth of ‘’NTmaxxing’’ needs to die out.
To preface, this thread is not an attack on those who preach about the supposed "importance" of being neurotypical. Instead, it aims to dismantle misconceptions that one can magically "become" neurotypical through superficial strategies or behavioural changes.
The neurological wiring of any individual is SET IN STONE and cannot be altered through actions. This thread will explore the differences between neurotypicals and neurodivergents and delve into the cognitive and cultural dynamics that highlight why NTmaxxing is a flawed pursuit.
What are neurotypical people?
View attachment 3402557
Within neurodiversity, neurotypicals (NTs, also colloquially referred to as normies) are individuals whose neurological wiring aligns with societal norms, enabling them to function smoothly in structured environments. They represent the overwhelming majority of the population in any given context. Neurotypicals excel at adhering to the status quo (irrespective of what that may be), hierarchies, and social cues.
Characteristics:
Example:
- Hierarchical nature: NTs operate within pyramid-like social systems, where rank, authority, and power balances dominate social and workplace dynamics.
- Mental shortsightedness: Their thought processes focus on immediate and tangible concerns. Abstract, long-term, or large-scale consequences often fall outside their scope of consideration.
- Blind social conformity: NTs thrive on shared norms, valuing harmony and predictability over critical evaluation or innovation.
Consider their stance on the COVID-19 vaccines, a few years ago.
NTs all rushed to take it, citing the immediate benefits of taking the jab: being able to travel and go to gyms, restaurants, clubs etc. without even considering the long-term ramifications and/or the damage that these experimental and unproven vaccines could end up doing to their bodies.
This reflects an inability and/or unwillingness to think beyond their immediate needs and scope.
What are neurodivergent people?
View attachment 3402559
Within neurodiversity, neurodivergents (NDs) include those with a wide range of atypical neurological traits or conditions. This group spans individuals with autism, ADHD, and other "non-standard" ways of thinking and perceiving the world. Neurodivergents often demonstrate exceptional creativity, analytical abilities, and a propensity for groundbreaking innovation.
Characteristics:
Example:
- Big-picture thinking: Neurodivergents often analyse situations holistically, considering far-reaching implications and multi-layered outcomes.
- Innovation and creativity: They are disproportionately represented among inventors and pioneers of revolutionary ideas and technologies.
- Struggle with norms: Their divergence from societal norms can create friction, particularly in structured, hierarchical environments.
Going back to the COVID-19 vaccines, the neurodivergent approach was vastly different: NDs approached it with far more caution, scrutinizing the lack of long-term data and the unprecedented speed of its development.
This reflects their tendency toward analytical thinking and prioritizing potential future risks over immediate benefits. While this scepticism may seem overly cautious to NTs, it stems from a focus on broader implications and a need for a more thorough understanding before acting.
Why NTmaxxing is a myth
Now that we’ve established the basic framework let’s extrapolate this further, using the forum as a case study.
If you’re on this forum, especially if you've been here for a prolonged period, it’s safe to conclude that you are NOT neurotypical and NEVER will be.
The very existence of these spaces, a form of "neurodivergent social media", arises because traditional social media platforms often fail to resonate with ND thought processes.
Yet, many users desperately cling to the belief that they can somehow transform into NTs through external means like "NTmaxxing"
But this belief misunderstands the very essence of ND and NT cognitive styles.
Just think about it, the very idea of a ''blackpilled'' community does NOT stem from NT minds and their subsequent wiring but instead, stems from ND minds since they view the world on a different level
The same principle could be applied to the redpill , as it also niche and falls beyond the scope of conventional, neurotypical wiring
Additionally, a trait that is highly common in these places, is the rigid adherence to the continuously perpetuated systems, rules and guidelines that operate with the PSL sphere rules and guidelines.
A behaviour commonly associated with individuals on the autism spectrum:
View attachment 3402617
Neurodivergent individuals, particularly those with autism, are also prone to viewing the world in black-and-white terms.
This binary mode of thinking manifests in a failure to recognize nuance since in reality, there will also be shades of grey.
For example, many users here dismissively categorize traits or strategies as either entirely good or entirely bad.
Coincidentally, only half of the users who participated in the Looksmax.org 2024 survey were able to confirm that they are not on the autism spectrum:
View attachment 3402651
The forum survey also revealed that 8.2% of the participants confirmed they are on the autism spectrum, a figure that is approximately 192.86% higher than the 2.8% prevalence rate observed in the United States, the largest demographic contributor to the forum.
Globally, this percentage is 720% higher than the 1% global prevalence rate:
View attachment 3402661
To further illustrate this, they will oversimplify concepts, declaring:
Without understanding the complexities or trade-offs associated with these instances.
- ''blue eyes good, brown eyes bad''
- ''jaw is law/eyes are the price’’
- ‘’6’3 or below is manlet’’
This black-and-white thinking can also be applied to behaviour:
Ironically, these individuals often adopt their own specialized terminology and engage in nihilistic discourse - behaviours that further alienate them from mainstream society - despite their stated desire to become neurotypical, wanting to fit in and coming up with their theories on how all of this could work out simultaneously through ''NTmaxxing'' (JFL)
- ‘’Just NTmaxx and you will get girls, bro’’
Rather than striving to become something that you're not, you would unironically be better off embracing your unique strengths.
Bottomline: genetic determinism
Neurodivergence is not a choice. It stems from deeply rooted neurological differences that manifest as introspection, introversion, and even melancholia (all very common here). Historically, these traits were adaptive, providing unique insights and roles in cooperative communities.
But today, in a hyper-conformist and individualistic world, these traits often seem maladaptive. As society shifts toward rewarding sociability and immediate gratification, ND traits - like long-term thinking - are increasingly undervalued.
Despite the challenges posed by modern society, NDs can thrive by building systems suited to their cognitive styles and leveraging their strengths rather than striving to emulate NTs. To do this, you must understand and accept NTs as they are
Conversely to trying to emulate NTs, the other major mistake NDs will make is to project their desires, values, and ways of thinking onto NTs.
Neurotypicals are not going to change because you want them to, nor are they equipped to think beyond their immediate mental horizons. Instead of wishing they were different, neurodivergents must learn to observe neurotypicals objectively - almost like a zoologist studying a different species.
View attachment 3402704
Neurotypicals function in their narrow hierarchical systems and transactional mentalities. Once you accept this as an unchangeable reality, you WILL be able to handle them more effectively and without frustration.
You can’t force neurotypicals to think holistically, but you can learn to work within their systems to achieve better outcomes.
Rather than striving to become something they are not, neurodivergents thrive by embracing their unique strengths and building systems suited to their own cognitive styles, avoiding the pitfalls of black-and-white ideologies
The changing world may appear to marginalize ND traits, but the solution is not to conform to NT norms, nor is to try and change or convert NTs into your way of thinking. Instead, it is to acknowledge and harness the unique value of these traits in ways that align with their intrinsic strengths.
so basically if I had a easy time talking with people I would be fineIt is encoded in your brain wiring but essentially you should ask yourself how effortlessly you can blend in with normies.
If you can do it effortlessly, without feeling mentally drained and also happen to have the same interests, ways of thinking etc. then you are most likely neurotypical.
If you have a preference for more arcane interests, difficulty in navigating overly stimulative environments, and experience challenges with maintaining a flow state, then you are most likely neurodivergent.
this basically talking with people who is diagnosed with the autism spectrum that they cant never be NTUnderstanding neurotypicals and neurodivergents
It has been a while since I last created a high-effort thread, but I felt compelled to write this one as this myth of ‘’NTmaxxing’’ needs to die out.
To preface, this thread is not an attack on those who preach about the supposed "importance" of being neurotypical. Instead, it aims to dismantle misconceptions that one can magically "become" neurotypical through superficial strategies or behavioural changes.
The neurological wiring of any individual is SET IN STONE and cannot be altered through actions. This thread will explore the differences between neurotypicals and neurodivergents and delve into the cognitive and cultural dynamics that highlight why NTmaxxing is a flawed pursuit.
What are neurotypical people?
View attachment 3402557
Within neurodiversity, neurotypicals (NTs, also colloquially referred to as normies) are individuals whose neurological wiring aligns with societal norms, enabling them to function smoothly in structured environments. They represent the overwhelming majority of the population in any given context. Neurotypicals excel at adhering to the status quo (irrespective of what that may be), hierarchies, and social cues.
Characteristics:
Example:
- Hierarchical nature: NTs operate within pyramid-like social systems, where rank, authority, and power balances dominate social and workplace dynamics.
- Mental shortsightedness: Their thought processes focus on immediate and tangible concerns. Abstract, long-term, or large-scale consequences often fall outside their scope of consideration.
- Blind social conformity: NTs thrive on shared norms, valuing harmony and predictability over critical evaluation or innovation.
Consider their stance on the COVID-19 vaccines, a few years ago.
NTs all rushed to take it, citing the immediate benefits of taking the jab: being able to travel and go to gyms, restaurants, clubs etc. without even considering the long-term ramifications and/or the damage that these experimental and unproven vaccines could end up doing to their bodies.
This reflects an inability and/or unwillingness to think beyond their immediate needs and scope.
What are neurodivergent people?
View attachment 3402559
Within neurodiversity, neurodivergents (NDs) include those with a wide range of atypical neurological traits or conditions. This group spans individuals with autism, ADHD, and other "non-standard" ways of thinking and perceiving the world. Neurodivergents often demonstrate exceptional creativity, analytical abilities, and a propensity for groundbreaking innovation.
Characteristics:
Example:
- Big-picture thinking: Neurodivergents often analyse situations holistically, considering far-reaching implications and multi-layered outcomes.
- Innovation and creativity: They are disproportionately represented among inventors and pioneers of revolutionary ideas and technologies.
- Struggle with norms: Their divergence from societal norms can create friction, particularly in structured, hierarchical environments.
Going back to the COVID-19 vaccines, the neurodivergent approach was vastly different: NDs approached it with far more caution, scrutinizing the lack of long-term data and the unprecedented speed of its development.
This reflects their tendency toward analytical thinking and prioritizing potential future risks over immediate benefits. While this scepticism may seem overly cautious to NTs, it stems from a focus on broader implications and a need for a more thorough understanding before acting.
Why NTmaxxing is a myth
Now that we’ve established the basic framework let’s extrapolate this further, using the forum as a case study.
If you’re on this forum, especially if you've been here for a prolonged period, it’s safe to conclude that you are NOT neurotypical and NEVER will be.
The very existence of these spaces, a form of "neurodivergent social media", arises because traditional social media platforms often fail to resonate with ND thought processes.
Yet, many users desperately cling to the belief that they can somehow transform into NTs through external means like "NTmaxxing"
But this belief misunderstands the very essence of ND and NT cognitive styles.
Just think about it, the very idea of a ''blackpilled'' community does NOT stem from NT minds and their subsequent wiring but instead, stems from ND minds since they view the world on a different level
The same principle could be applied to the redpill , as it also niche and falls beyond the scope of conventional, neurotypical wiring
Additionally, a trait that is highly common in these places, is the rigid adherence to the continuously perpetuated systems, rules and guidelines that operate with the PSL sphere rules and guidelines.
A behaviour commonly associated with individuals on the autism spectrum:
View attachment 3402617
Neurodivergent individuals, particularly those with autism, are also prone to viewing the world in black-and-white terms.
This binary mode of thinking manifests in a failure to recognize nuance since in reality, there will also be shades of grey.
For example, many users here dismissively categorize traits or strategies as either entirely good or entirely bad.
Coincidentally, only half of the users who participated in the Looksmax.org 2024 survey were able to confirm that they are not on the autism spectrum:
View attachment 3402651
The forum survey also revealed that 8.2% of the participants confirmed they are on the autism spectrum, a figure that is approximately 192.86% higher than the 2.8% prevalence rate observed in the United States, the largest demographic contributor to the forum.
Globally, this percentage is 720% higher than the 1% global prevalence rate:
View attachment 3402661
To further illustrate this, they will oversimplify concepts, declaring:
Without understanding the complexities or trade-offs associated with these instances.
- ''blue eyes good, brown eyes bad''
- ''jaw is law/eyes are the price’’
- ‘’6’3 or below is manlet’’
This black-and-white thinking can also be applied to behaviour:
Ironically, these individuals often adopt their own specialized terminology and engage in nihilistic discourse - behaviours that further alienate them from mainstream society - despite their stated desire to become neurotypical, wanting to fit in and coming up with their theories on how all of this could work out simultaneously through ''NTmaxxing'' (JFL)
- ‘’Just NTmaxx and you will get girls, bro’’
Rather than striving to become something that you're not, you would unironically be better off embracing your unique strengths.
Bottomline: genetic determinism
Neurodivergence is not a choice. It stems from deeply rooted neurological differences that manifest as introspection, introversion, and even melancholia (all very common here). Historically, these traits were adaptive, providing unique insights and roles in cooperative communities.
But today, in a hyper-conformist and individualistic world, these traits often seem maladaptive. As society shifts toward rewarding sociability and immediate gratification, ND traits - like long-term thinking - are increasingly undervalued.
Despite the challenges posed by modern society, NDs can thrive by building systems suited to their cognitive styles and leveraging their strengths rather than striving to emulate NTs. To do this, you must understand and accept NTs as they are
Conversely to trying to emulate NTs, the other major mistake NDs will make is to project their desires, values, and ways of thinking onto NTs.
Neurotypicals are not going to change because you want them to, nor are they equipped to think beyond their immediate mental horizons. Instead of wishing they were different, neurodivergents must learn to observe neurotypicals objectively - almost like a zoologist studying a different species.
View attachment 3402704
Neurotypicals function in their narrow hierarchical systems and transactional mentalities. Once you accept this as an unchangeable reality, you WILL be able to handle them more effectively and without frustration.
You can’t force neurotypicals to think holistically, but you can learn to work within their systems to achieve better outcomes.
Rather than striving to become something they are not, neurodivergents thrive by embracing their unique strengths and building systems suited to their own cognitive styles, avoiding the pitfalls of black-and-white ideologies
The changing world may appear to marginalize ND traits, but the solution is not to conform to NT norms, nor is to try and change or convert NTs into your way of thinking. Instead, it is to acknowledge and harness the unique value of these traits in ways that align with their intrinsic strengths.
yeah pretty much me except with talking with new peoplemany people are actually NT but just high inhibition, and even then, only around people they don’t know or people that they find attractive.
u prob also have autismI think whether or not you can fit in is case by case. There are two people in my class with adhd me and one other girl. She is able to fit in and people only found out she had adhd after two and a half years of being in the same class. whereas I’m not fitting in as well as I’d like
There’s this one girl whose boyfriend is diagnosed with autism yet both she and one of my friends have told me that I am way weirder than him. I think this is because both him and the girl from my class have had much more social exposure than I have.
The more time I spend on this forum, the less inclined I'm becoming to investing time into high-effort threads. They're almost never worth it. They go over everyone's head.I read every word. A very good read, and a thread that inspires me to start my own thread idea that I've been thinking about for a long time..
"THE ULTIMATE LIFEMAXXING MEGAGUIDE (Meaning of life, its purpose and how to get through it by increasing satisfaction and quality of life for every age group)"
Is going to be a very large and detailed thread, but I'm always thinking about whether or not it's worth investing time and energy in it..
You guys think people on this forum would be interested in such a guide?
@Alexanderr @NumbThePain @TechnoBoss @Orc ?
Yes i am interestedI read every word. A very good read, and a thread that inspires me to start my own thread idea that I've been thinking about for a long time..
"THE ULTIMATE LIFEMAXXING MEGAGUIDE (Meaning of life, its purpose and how to get through it by increasing satisfaction and quality of life for every age group)"
Is going to be a very large and detailed thread, but I'm always thinking about whether or not it's worth investing time and energy in it..
You guys think people on this forum would be interested in such a guide?
@Alexanderr @NumbThePain @TechnoBoss @Orc ?
Not all neurodivergence is the sameUnderstanding neurotypicals and neurodivergents
It has been a while since I last created a high-effort thread, but I felt compelled to write this one as this myth of ‘’NTmaxxing’’ needs to die out.
To preface, this thread is not an attack on those who preach about the supposed "importance" of being neurotypical. Instead, it aims to dismantle misconceptions that one can magically "become" neurotypical through superficial strategies or behavioural changes.
The neurological wiring of any individual is SET IN STONE and cannot be altered through actions. This thread will explore the differences between neurotypicals and neurodivergents and delve into the cognitive and cultural dynamics that highlight why NTmaxxing is a flawed pursuit.
What are neurotypical people?
View attachment 3402557
Within neurodiversity, neurotypicals (NTs, also colloquially referred to as normies) are individuals whose neurological wiring aligns with societal norms, enabling them to function smoothly in structured environments. They represent the overwhelming majority of the population in any given context. Neurotypicals excel at adhering to the status quo (irrespective of what that may be), hierarchies, and social cues.
Characteristics:
Example:
- Hierarchical nature: NTs operate within pyramid-like social systems, where rank, authority, and power balances dominate social and workplace dynamics.
- Mental shortsightedness: Their thought processes focus on immediate and tangible concerns. Abstract, long-term, or large-scale consequences often fall outside their scope of consideration.
- Blind social conformity: NTs thrive on shared norms, valuing harmony and predictability over critical evaluation or innovation.
Consider their stance on the COVID-19 vaccines, a few years ago.
NTs all rushed to take it, citing the immediate benefits of taking the jab: being able to travel and go to gyms, restaurants, clubs etc. without even considering the long-term ramifications and/or the damage that these experimental and unproven vaccines could end up doing to their bodies.
This reflects an inability and/or unwillingness to think beyond their immediate needs and scope.
What are neurodivergent people?
View attachment 3402559
Within neurodiversity, neurodivergents (NDs) include those with a wide range of atypical neurological traits or conditions. This group spans individuals with autism, ADHD, and other "non-standard" ways of thinking and perceiving the world. Neurodivergents often demonstrate exceptional creativity, analytical abilities, and a propensity for groundbreaking innovation.
Characteristics:
Example:
- Big-picture thinking: Neurodivergents often analyse situations holistically, considering far-reaching implications and multi-layered outcomes.
- Innovation and creativity: They are disproportionately represented among inventors and pioneers of revolutionary ideas and technologies.
- Struggle with norms: Their divergence from societal norms can create friction, particularly in structured, hierarchical environments.
Going back to the COVID-19 vaccines, the neurodivergent approach was vastly different: NDs approached it with far more caution, scrutinizing the lack of long-term data and the unprecedented speed of its development.
This reflects their tendency toward analytical thinking and prioritizing potential future risks over immediate benefits. While this scepticism may seem overly cautious to NTs, it stems from a focus on broader implications and a need for a more thorough understanding before acting.
Why NTmaxxing is a myth
Now that we’ve established the basic framework let’s extrapolate this further, using the forum as a case study.
If you’re on this forum, especially if you've been here for a prolonged period, it’s safe to conclude that you are NOT neurotypical and NEVER will be.
The very existence of these spaces, a form of "neurodivergent social media", arises because traditional social media platforms often fail to resonate with ND thought processes.
Yet, many users desperately cling to the belief that they can somehow transform into NTs through external means like "NTmaxxing"
But this belief misunderstands the very essence of ND and NT cognitive styles.
Just think about it, the very idea of a ''blackpilled'' community does NOT stem from NT minds and their subsequent wiring but instead, stems from ND minds since they view the world on a different level
The same principle could be applied to the redpill , as it also niche and falls beyond the scope of conventional, neurotypical wiring
Additionally, a trait that is highly common in these places, is the rigid adherence to the continuously perpetuated systems, rules and guidelines that operate with the PSL sphere rules and guidelines.
A behaviour commonly associated with individuals on the autism spectrum:
View attachment 3402617
Neurodivergent individuals, particularly those with autism, are also prone to viewing the world in black-and-white terms.
This binary mode of thinking manifests in a failure to recognize nuance since in reality, there will also be shades of grey.
For example, many users here dismissively categorize traits or strategies as either entirely good or entirely bad.
Coincidentally, only half of the users who participated in the Looksmax.org 2024 survey were able to confirm that they are not on the autism spectrum:
View attachment 3402651
The forum survey also revealed that 8.2% of the participants confirmed they are on the autism spectrum, a figure that is approximately 192.86% higher than the 2.8% prevalence rate observed in the United States, the largest demographic contributor to the forum.
Globally, this percentage is 720% higher than the 1% global prevalence rate:
View attachment 3402661
To further illustrate this, they will oversimplify concepts, declaring:
Without understanding the complexities or trade-offs associated with these instances.
- ''blue eyes good, brown eyes bad''
- ''jaw is law/eyes are the price’’
- ‘’6’3 or below is manlet’’
This black-and-white thinking can also be applied to behaviour:
Ironically, these individuals often adopt their own specialized terminology and engage in nihilistic discourse - behaviours that further alienate them from mainstream society - despite their stated desire to become neurotypical, wanting to fit in and coming up with their theories on how all of this could work out simultaneously through ''NTmaxxing'' (JFL)
- ‘’Just NTmaxx and you will get girls, bro’’
Rather than striving to become something that you're not, you would unironically be better off embracing your unique strengths.
Bottomline: genetic determinism
Neurodivergence is not a choice. It stems from deeply rooted neurological differences that manifest as introspection, introversion, and even melancholia (all very common here). Historically, these traits were adaptive, providing unique insights and roles in cooperative communities.
But today, in a hyper-conformist and individualistic world, these traits often seem maladaptive. As society shifts toward rewarding sociability and immediate gratification, ND traits - like long-term thinking - are increasingly undervalued.
Despite the challenges posed by modern society, NDs can thrive by building systems suited to their cognitive styles and leveraging their strengths rather than striving to emulate NTs. To do this, you must understand and accept NTs as they are
Conversely to trying to emulate NTs, the other major mistake NDs will make is to project their desires, values, and ways of thinking onto NTs.
Neurotypicals are not going to change because you want them to, nor are they equipped to think beyond their immediate mental horizons. Instead of wishing they were different, neurodivergents must learn to observe neurotypicals objectively - almost like a zoologist studying a different species.
View attachment 3402704
Neurotypicals function in their narrow hierarchical systems and transactional mentalities. Once you accept this as an unchangeable reality, you WILL be able to handle them more effectively and without frustration.
You can’t force neurotypicals to think holistically, but you can learn to work within their systems to achieve better outcomes.
Rather than striving to become something they are not, neurodivergents thrive by embracing their unique strengths and building systems suited to their own cognitive styles, avoiding the pitfalls of black-and-white ideologies
The changing world may appear to marginalize ND traits, but the solution is not to conform to NT norms, nor is to try and change or convert NTs into your way of thinking. Instead, it is to acknowledge and harness the unique value of these traits in ways that align with their intrinsic strengths.
You had to take this shit to go back to in person learningConsider their stance on the COVID-19 vaccines, a few years ago.
NTs all rushed to take it, citing the immediate benefits of taking the jab: being able to travel and go to gyms, restaurants, clubs etc. without even considering the long-term ramifications and/or the damage that these experimental and unproven vaccines could end up doing to their bodies.
yh can attest im non-NT by birth and i also look pretty weird. I can pm face if u want. i don't look "ugly" in the typical sense but i do look ogre/uncannyNot all neurodivergence is the same
if you are able to mask your neurodivergent characteristics and function as a regular human being, understanding body language, what other’s are feeling, know how to spot a manipulator, you can do well.
Only if you can hide your irregularities from people, including a girlfriend should you be fortunate enough to find a partner.
But if you’re someone who cannot recognize social cue’s, body language, what other’s are thinking, and what’s appropriate to say in the moment, you will have a rough time. Guaranteed
However I disagree with your statement that NTmaxxing is impossible, infact, I think how you act largely depends on how you look like.
I remember i acted in a very different way when I was in highschool than I act now. Back then, I used to say weird things all the time, make a fool of myself, was an easy target for bullies, and just had a fake “friend” group i’d jestermaxx for. I had a hard time understanding social cues and whether someone was laughing with me, at me, or cringing. When I lost a lot of weight, fixed hair, Suddenly people treated me like a human being, I found myself socializing more, making friends and that leads to today where I have a mostly normal life, normie friends, and can abstain from saying something that would make a fool out of me.
It’s no coincidence that a lot of outcasts who are non-neurotypical (weird) look weird too. Change your looks, you change how people behave towards you, acquire more social experience, and you change yourself.
Not saying it applies to all cases, but worked for me
I think the same unfortunately, that's why I can never find the real motivation for it..The more time I spend on this forum, the less inclined I'm becoming to investing time into high-effort threads. They're almost never worth it. They go over everyone's head.
Sure, i can take a lookyh can attest im non-NT by birth and i also look pretty weird. I can pm face if u want. i don't look "ugly" in the typical sense but i do look ogre/uncanny
i used to be a pretty nt guy before blackpill. i would make funny jokes and crack people, be friendly with almost everyone, try to force myself into the cool kids group in the class and i would get nothing in return because of my looks.Not all neurodivergence is the same
if you are able to mask your neurodivergent characteristics and function as a regular human being, understanding body language, what other’s are feeling, know how to spot a manipulator, you can do well.
Only if you can hide your irregularities from people, including a girlfriend should you be fortunate enough to find a partner.
But if you’re someone who cannot recognize social cue’s, body language, what other’s are thinking, and what’s appropriate to say in the moment, you will have a rough time. Guaranteed
However I disagree with your statement that NTmaxxing is impossible, infact, I think how you act largely depends on how you look like.
I remember i acted in a very different way when I was in highschool than I act now. Back then, I used to say weird things all the time, make a fool of myself, was an easy target for bullies, and just had a fake “friend” group i’d jestermaxx for. I had a hard time understanding social cues and whether someone was laughing with me, at me, or cringing.
When I lost a lot of weight, fixed hair, Suddenly people treated me like a human being, I found myself socializing more, making friends and that leads to today where I have a mostly normal life, normie friends, and can abstain from saying something that would make a fool out of me.
It’s no coincidence that a lot of outcasts who are non-neurotypical (weird) look weird too. Change your looks, you change how people behave towards you, acquire more social experience, and you change yourself.
Well… actually ashwaganda made me super NT so this is just wrongUnderstanding neurotypicals and neurodivergents
It has been a while since I last created a high-effort thread, but I felt compelled to write this one as this myth of ‘’NTmaxxing’’ needs to die out.
To preface, this thread is not an attack on those who preach about the supposed "importance" of being neurotypical. Instead, it aims to dismantle misconceptions that one can magically "become" neurotypical through superficial strategies or behavioural changes.
The neurological wiring of any individual is SET IN STONE and cannot be altered through actions. This thread will explore the differences between neurotypicals and neurodivergents and delve into the cognitive and cultural dynamics that highlight why NTmaxxing is a flawed pursuit.
What are neurotypical people?
View attachment 3402557
Within neurodiversity, neurotypicals (NTs, also colloquially referred to as normies) are individuals whose neurological wiring aligns with societal norms, enabling them to function smoothly in structured environments. They represent the overwhelming majority of the population in any given context. Neurotypicals excel at adhering to the status quo (irrespective of what that may be), hierarchies, and social cues.
Characteristics:
Example:
- Hierarchical nature: NTs operate within pyramid-like social systems, where rank, authority, and power balances dominate social and workplace dynamics.
- Mental shortsightedness: Their thought processes focus on immediate and tangible concerns. Abstract, long-term, or large-scale consequences often fall outside their scope of consideration.
- Blind social conformity: NTs thrive on shared norms, valuing harmony and predictability over critical evaluation or innovation.
Consider their stance on the COVID-19 vaccines, a few years ago.
NTs all rushed to take it, citing the immediate benefits of taking the jab: being able to travel and go to gyms, restaurants, clubs etc. without even considering the long-term ramifications and/or the damage that these experimental and unproven vaccines could end up doing to their bodies.
This reflects an inability and/or unwillingness to think beyond their immediate needs and scope.
What are neurodivergent people?
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Within neurodiversity, neurodivergents (NDs) include those with a wide range of atypical neurological traits or conditions. This group spans individuals with autism, ADHD, and other "non-standard" ways of thinking and perceiving the world. Neurodivergents often demonstrate exceptional creativity, analytical abilities, and a propensity for groundbreaking innovation.
Characteristics:
Example:
- Big-picture thinking: Neurodivergents often analyse situations holistically, considering far-reaching implications and multi-layered outcomes.
- Innovation and creativity: They are disproportionately represented among inventors and pioneers of revolutionary ideas and technologies.
- Struggle with norms: Their divergence from societal norms can create friction, particularly in structured, hierarchical environments.
Going back to the COVID-19 vaccines, the neurodivergent approach was vastly different: NDs approached it with far more caution, scrutinizing the lack of long-term data and the unprecedented speed of its development.
This reflects their tendency toward analytical thinking and prioritizing potential future risks over immediate benefits. While this scepticism may seem overly cautious to NTs, it stems from a focus on broader implications and a need for a more thorough understanding before acting.
Why NTmaxxing is a myth
Now that we’ve established the basic framework let’s extrapolate this further, using the forum as a case study.
If you’re on this forum, especially if you've been here for a prolonged period, it’s safe to conclude that you are NOT neurotypical and NEVER will be.
The very existence of these spaces, a form of "neurodivergent social media", arises because traditional social media platforms often fail to resonate with ND thought processes.
Yet, many users desperately cling to the belief that they can somehow transform into NTs through external means like "NTmaxxing"
But this belief misunderstands the very essence of ND and NT cognitive styles.
Just think about it, the very idea of a ''blackpilled'' community does NOT stem from NT minds and their subsequent wiring but instead, stems from ND minds since they view the world on a different level
The same principle could be applied to the redpill , as it also niche and falls beyond the scope of conventional, neurotypical wiring
Additionally, a trait that is highly common in these places, is the rigid adherence to the continuously perpetuated systems, rules and guidelines that operate with the PSL sphere rules and guidelines.
A behaviour commonly associated with individuals on the autism spectrum:
View attachment 3402617
Neurodivergent individuals, particularly those with autism, are also prone to viewing the world in black-and-white terms.
This binary mode of thinking manifests in a failure to recognize nuance since in reality, there will also be shades of grey.
For example, many users here dismissively categorize traits or strategies as either entirely good or entirely bad.
Coincidentally, only half of the users who participated in the Looksmax.org 2024 survey were able to confirm that they are not on the autism spectrum:
View attachment 3402651
The forum survey also revealed that 8.2% of the participants confirmed they are on the autism spectrum, a figure that is approximately 192.86% higher than the 2.8% prevalence rate observed in the United States, the largest demographic contributor to the forum.
Globally, this percentage is 720% higher than the 1% global prevalence rate:
View attachment 3402661
To further illustrate this, they will oversimplify concepts, declaring:
Without understanding the complexities or trade-offs associated with these instances.
- ''blue eyes good, brown eyes bad''
- ''jaw is law/eyes are the price’’
- ‘’6’3 or below is manlet’’
This black-and-white thinking can also be applied to behaviour:
Ironically, these individuals often adopt their own specialized terminology and engage in nihilistic discourse - behaviours that further alienate them from mainstream society - despite their stated desire to become neurotypical, wanting to fit in and coming up with their theories on how all of this could work out simultaneously through ''NTmaxxing'' (JFL)
- ‘’Just NTmaxx and you will get girls, bro’’
Rather than striving to become something that you're not, you would unironically be better off embracing your unique strengths.
Bottomline: genetic determinism
Neurodivergence is not a choice. It stems from deeply rooted neurological differences that manifest as introspection, introversion, and even melancholia (all very common here). Historically, these traits were adaptive, providing unique insights and roles in cooperative communities.
But today, in a hyper-conformist and individualistic world, these traits often seem maladaptive. As society shifts toward rewarding sociability and immediate gratification, ND traits - like long-term thinking - are increasingly undervalued.
Despite the challenges posed by modern society, NDs can thrive by building systems suited to their cognitive styles and leveraging their strengths rather than striving to emulate NTs. To do this, you must understand and accept NTs as they are
Conversely to trying to emulate NTs, the other major mistake NDs will make is to project their desires, values, and ways of thinking onto NTs.
Neurotypicals are not going to change because you want them to, nor are they equipped to think beyond their immediate mental horizons. Instead of wishing they were different, neurodivergents must learn to observe neurotypicals objectively - almost like a zoologist studying a different species.
View attachment 3402704
Neurotypicals function in their narrow hierarchical systems and transactional mentalities. Once you accept this as an unchangeable reality, you WILL be able to handle them more effectively and without frustration.
You can’t force neurotypicals to think holistically, but you can learn to work within their systems to achieve better outcomes.
Rather than striving to become something they are not, neurodivergents thrive by embracing their unique strengths and building systems suited to their own cognitive styles, avoiding the pitfalls of black-and-white ideologies
The changing world may appear to marginalize ND traits, but the solution is not to conform to NT norms, nor is to try and change or convert NTs into your way of thinking. Instead, it is to acknowledge and harness the unique value of these traits in ways that align with their intrinsic strengths.
npc commentGood thread
It could be, although it's important to realise how you truly feel when you're among other people and stay to yourself, meaning not forcing yourself to be something you're not.so basically if I had a easy time talking with people I would be fine
realistically the only reason why I was here bcs years of social isolation put I never had a hard time talking with people
Of course, there are varying degrees of neurodivergence, I pointed this out too.Not all neurodivergence is the same
if you are able to mask your neurodivergent characteristics and function as a regular human being, understanding body language, what other’s are feeling, know how to spot a manipulator, you can do well.
Only if you can hide your irregularities from people, including a girlfriend should you be fortunate enough to find a partner.
But if you’re someone who cannot recognize social cue’s, body language, what other’s are thinking, and what’s appropriate to say in the moment, you will have a rough time. Guaranteed
However I disagree with your statement that NTmaxxing is impossible, infact, I think how you act largely depends on how you look like.
I remember i acted in a very different way when I was in highschool than I act now. Back then, I used to say weird things all the time, make a fool of myself, was an easy target for bullies, and just had a fake “friend” group i’d jestermaxx for. I had a hard time understanding social cues and whether someone was laughing with me, at me, or cringing. When I lost a lot of weight, fixed hair, Suddenly people treated me like a human being, I found myself socializing more, making friends and that leads to today where I have a mostly normal life, normie friends, and can abstain from saying something that would make a fool out of me.
It’s no coincidence that a lot of outcasts who are non-neurotypical (weird) look weird too. Change your looks, you change how people behave towards you, acquire more social experience, and you change yourself.
Not saying it applies to all cases, but worked for me
I wouldn't, and I would never advocate for it either. But there's no choice in this matter, you're either born an NPC or you're not.Why would anybody want to become a nonsentient, NPC, neurotypical?
I'm not NT either and I've also done several things (including drugs) that made me seem ''more NT''.I disagree with the thread. Being non-NT does not always mean having autism, it just means not fitting in with normies. NTmaxxing is extremely difficult if you're autistic but it can be achieved if you are just socially undeveloped.
I'm non-NT because I used to have social anxiety disorder and it meant I wasn't able to develop socially because I always avoided talking to people. I can't fit in with normies because I can't relate to them and can't join in on most normie conversations.
My recommendations for NTmaxxing are:
- Avoid texting people and prioritise talking to people face to face. Messaging on this forum is going to make you less NT.
- Method acting classes so you can fraud NT-ness. If you get good enough at it, you can lie your way through NT conversations.
- Research normie trends and activities so you can join normie conversations. If you were in a normie conversation where you knew nothing about the topic, make a note of it and prepare for next time it comes up.
- Take ashwagandha (reduces social anxiety)
- Copy the most normie fashion styles and most normie opinions
- Improve looks so that normies will include you more
I'm also suspicious that drugs might make you more NT, since most normies take drugs. Nicotine has been proven to improve cognitive function: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6018192/
yeah that's pretty much it just come natural for meIt could be, although it's important to realise how you truly feel when you're among other people and stay to yourself, meaning not forcing yourself to be something you're not.
But if you're truly comfortable at heart in these settings and don't do it solely for the sake of socialising then yeah, you should be good.
A good litmus test would be to see if you can enter any social setting without a specific goal or objective, no need to impress others, achieve external validation etc., and still feel at ease simply being there.
If the experience feels natural and fulfilling on its own, that might be a sign you're more aligned with NT social dynamics.
Otherwise, if there’s a constant calculation or a sense of effort, it may suggest the opposite.
an ugly man can say the same thing as a good looking one and people will take it completely differently. Your looks are the most important thing in life,i used to be a pretty nt guy before blackpill. i would make funny jokes and crack people, be friendly with almost everyone, try to force myself into the cool kids group in the class and i would get nothing in return because of my looks.
after acknowledging that i am ugly, i started to talk a lot less in school if never, i gave up on trying to make friends, embraced being a loner because i had to.
NT is not just a state of mind, its the sum of the past positive and negative feedbacks you got from people through the social interactions.
At the end looks are all that matters.
I would much rather get with a neurotypical former cheerleader giga-NT bimbo than an autistic engineer femcel.I would also argue that if you're planning to hide certain characteristics from others that are inherent to you, you're only setting yourself up for failure in the long run, especially when it comes to dating/finding a long-term partner.
People should aim for their looksmatch in terms of physical appearance, but I will argue that it is just as important to find someone with more or less a similar brain/neurological wiring because otherwise, the relationship will not last.
On the morning of November 11, 2018, twenty-five-year-old Jacob Barefield was in the prison canteen with fellow inmates from the "C Dorm." (Doc. # 74 at 22.) Barefield was wearing a yellow wristband designating him to C Dorm. (Doc. # 74 at 23.) Barefield was standing in the canteen's snack-line when another inmate, Larry Lowe, approached him. (Doc. # 74 at 22.) Lowe was wearing a teal wristband designating him to the "F Dorm" where high-risk of violence inmates are assigned. (Doc. # 74 at 22.) F Dorm residents, like Lowe, should not have been allowed in the canteen with C Dorm residents. (Doc. # 74 at 22.) But Lowe was there.Understanding neurotypicals and neurodivergents
It has been a while since I last created a high-effort thread, but I felt compelled to write this one as this myth of ‘’NTmaxxing’’ needs to die out.
To preface, this thread is not an attack on those who preach about the supposed "importance" of being neurotypical. Instead, it aims to dismantle misconceptions that one can magically "become" neurotypical through superficial strategies or behavioural changes.
The neurological wiring of any individual is SET IN STONE and cannot be altered through actions. This thread will explore the differences between neurotypicals and neurodivergents and delve into the cognitive and cultural dynamics that highlight why NTmaxxing is a flawed pursuit.
What are neurotypical people?
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Within neurodiversity, neurotypicals (NTs, also colloquially referred to as normies) are individuals whose neurological wiring aligns with societal norms, enabling them to function smoothly in structured environments. They represent the overwhelming majority of the population in any given context. Neurotypicals excel at adhering to the status quo (irrespective of what that may be), hierarchies, and social cues.
Characteristics:
Example:
- Hierarchical nature: NTs operate within pyramid-like social systems, where rank, authority, and power balances dominate social and workplace dynamics.
- Mental shortsightedness: Their thought processes focus on immediate and tangible concerns. Abstract, long-term, or large-scale consequences often fall outside their scope of consideration.
- Blind social conformity: NTs thrive on shared norms, valuing harmony and predictability over critical evaluation or innovation.
Consider their stance on the COVID-19 vaccines, a few years ago.
NTs all rushed to take it, citing the immediate benefits of taking the jab: being able to travel and go to gyms, restaurants, clubs etc. without even considering the long-term ramifications and/or the damage that these experimental and unproven vaccines could end up doing to their bodies.
This reflects an inability and/or unwillingness to think beyond their immediate needs and scope.
What are neurodivergent people?
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Within neurodiversity, neurodivergents (NDs) include those with a wide range of atypical neurological traits or conditions. This group spans individuals with autism, ADHD, and other "non-standard" ways of thinking and perceiving the world. Neurodivergents often demonstrate exceptional creativity, analytical abilities, and a propensity for groundbreaking innovation.
Characteristics:
Example:
- Big-picture thinking: Neurodivergents often analyse situations holistically, considering far-reaching implications and multi-layered outcomes.
- Innovation and creativity: They are disproportionately represented among inventors and pioneers of revolutionary ideas and technologies.
- Struggle with norms: Their divergence from societal norms can create friction, particularly in structured, hierarchical environments.
Going back to the COVID-19 vaccines, the neurodivergent approach was vastly different: NDs approached it with far more caution, scrutinizing the lack of long-term data and the unprecedented speed of its development.
This reflects their tendency toward analytical thinking and prioritizing potential future risks over immediate benefits. While this scepticism may seem overly cautious to NTs, it stems from a focus on broader implications and a need for a more thorough understanding before acting.
There are a lot of substances that are known to cause cancer that we could do very well without like glues, construction materials, and other stuff like that that we have perfectly viable alternatives for, but that are also still produced and used by the millions gladly by NTs.
And if you're going to tell them about the dangers and propose them alternatives, in general, they'll just laugh it off and say you're crazy. They just won't do what should be done.
There are so many large-scale common problems for which the solutions are already there and that the NTs just aren't interested in applying because they fall outside of the consensus.
Within any given society, there's always a dynamic at play whereby a part of humanity is able to understand and invent technologies that the other part cannot understand. Most inventors are not normal/NT people, but rather NDs.
For instance, take pesticides. The chemists who invent pesticides can identify most of the effects they will have on a wide variety on things, not just on pests.
Biologists can also understand the effects, but the NTs cannot. The NT goes to the shop, wants something that kills the bugs, and then sprays it on the crops.
They will not think, and even if they do think about it, will not understand the wider implications of applying pesticides such as health risks and the negative impact it will have on the rest of the ecosystem.
Why NTmaxxing is a myth
Now that we’ve established the basic framework let’s extrapolate this further, using the forum as a case study.
If you’re on this forum, especially if you've been here for a prolonged period, it’s safe to conclude that you are NOT neurotypical and NEVER will be.
The very existence of these spaces, a form of "neurodivergent social media", arises because traditional social media platforms often fail to resonate with ND thought processes.
Yet, many users desperately cling to the belief that they can somehow transform into NTs through external means like "NTmaxxing"
But this belief misunderstands the very essence of ND and NT cognitive styles.
Just think about it, the very idea of a ''blackpilled'' community does NOT stem from NT minds and their subsequent wiring but instead, stems from ND minds since they view the world on a different level
The same principle could be applied to the redpill , as it also niche and falls beyond the scope of conventional, neurotypical wiring
Additionally, a trait that is highly common in these places, is the rigid adherence to the continuously perpetuated systems, rules and guidelines that operate with the PSL sphere rules and guidelines.
A behaviour commonly associated with individuals on the autism spectrum:
View attachment 3402617
Neurodivergent individuals, particularly those with autism, are also prone to viewing the world in black-and-white terms.
This binary mode of thinking manifests in a failure to recognize nuance since in reality, there will also be shades of grey.
For example, many users here dismissively categorize traits or strategies as either entirely good or entirely bad.
Coincidentally, only half of the users who participated in the Looksmax.org 2024 survey were able to confirm that they are not on the autism spectrum:
View attachment 3402651
The forum survey also revealed that 8.2% of the participants confirmed they are on the autism spectrum, a figure that is approximately 192.86% higher than the 2.8% prevalence rate observed in the United States, the largest demographic contributor to the forum.
Globally, this percentage is 720% higher than the 1% global prevalence rate:
View attachment 3402661
To further illustrate this, they will oversimplify concepts, declaring:
Without understanding the complexities or trade-offs associated with these instances.
- ''blue eyes good, brown eyes bad''
- ''jaw is law/eyes are the price’’
- ‘’6’3 or below is manlet’’
This black-and-white thinking can also be applied to behaviour:
Ironically, these individuals often adopt their own specialized terminology and engage in nihilistic discourse - behaviours that further alienate them from mainstream society - despite their stated desire to become neurotypical, wanting to fit in and coming up with their theories on how all of this could work out simultaneously through ''NTmaxxing'' (JFL)
- ‘’Just NTmaxx and you will get girls, bro’’
Rather than striving to become something that you're not, you would unironically be better off embracing your unique strengths.
Bottomline: genetic determinism
Neurodivergence is not a choice. It stems from deeply rooted neurological differences that manifest as introspection, introversion, and even melancholia (all very common here). Historically, these traits were adaptive, providing unique insights and roles in cooperative communities.
But today, in a hyper-conformist and individualistic world, these traits often seem maladaptive. As society shifts toward rewarding sociability and immediate gratification, ND traits - like long-term thinking - are increasingly undervalued.
Despite the challenges posed by modern society, NDs can thrive by building systems suited to their cognitive styles and leveraging their strengths rather than striving to emulate NTs. To do this, you must understand and accept NTs as they are
Conversely to trying to emulate NTs, the other major mistake NDs will make is to project their desires, values, and ways of thinking onto NTs.
Neurotypicals are not going to change because you want them to, nor are they equipped to think beyond their immediate mental horizons. Instead of wishing they were different, neurodivergents must learn to observe neurotypicals objectively - almost like a zoologist studying a different species.
View attachment 3402704
Neurotypicals function in their narrow hierarchical systems and transactional mentalities. Once you accept this as an unchangeable reality, you WILL be able to handle them more effectively and without frustration.
You can’t force neurotypicals to think holistically, but you can learn to work within their systems to achieve better outcomes.
Rather than striving to become something they are not, neurodivergents thrive by embracing their unique strengths and building systems suited to their own cognitive styles, avoiding the pitfalls of black-and-white ideologies
The changing world may appear to marginalize ND traits, but the solution is not to conform to NT norms, nor is to try and change or convert NTs into your way of thinking. Instead, it is to acknowledge and harness the unique value of these traits in ways that align with their intrinsic strengths.
I sent in pmsSure, i can take a look
might count schizos as nd too nglWe should also remember there are different types of ND. Like ADHD, if you are lucky you got the hyperactive type, it will be easy to make friends, since you are always chuckling like a chicken 24/7 and can’t keep your mouth shut, like a sober drunkard.. Or dyslexia; Doesn’t delibiate you in your ability to make friends in any way, just makes writing and reading harder.
Unfortunately, I got both autism and ADHD, though not the hyperactive ADHD, but rather the low concentration and executive dysfunction one.
Appreciate your insights, bro.Great thread bhai, I’ll find the time to read it all once. You put into words what I exactly think when people say NT is cope. (What I mean by NT in what I am writing now is usually in reference to autism).
If anything I am a perfect example of how neurodivergency and socially debiliating autism is a thing, because I am not in any way hindered by my looks. But still I never fit in no matter how hard I tried, couldn’t make friends or connections, and I was always the third wheel that no one preferred. I also am obsessed with the few interests I have. I am fundamentally different because I know it, and I got diagnosed by a group of different psychiatrists after I dropped out of middle school because I developed social anxiety because I couldn’t make any new friends there. This difference is something I have experienced all throughout my life without being able to do anything about it. Otherwise I wouldn’t be without even a single aquaintance my age in my local area, because it is such a highly unusual thing overall no matter who you are. Even some autists have friends, that’s how different I feel. I never was able to learn social cues, rules and hierarchies, because none of it never made any sense to me, while for NTs it comes naturally, and even the nerds of the NTs form their own groups. Which leaves out the ND weirdo’s like me to not be part of any group.
But as for "NT-maxxing", lots of users have varying definitions of what it means to be "NT" and to "NT-maxx". Some will just say it’s about fitting in, wearing the latest fashionable drip, using the newer iPhone models, trendy hairstyles, etc, (I do all this and I’m still a weirdo with 0 friends and even though I dress trendy and NT, I read about history and nerdy fantasy shit and listen to folk music 24/7, even though I wear white shoes, baggy pants, curtains hair, etc).
Others will say it’s the ability to socialize. And while autism does greatly affect social abilities, NTs can also develop social anxiety and the like. However, if you have social anxiety, you should seek treatment for it. If you can’t socialize, even though you have tried, you should also get checked, because that shit is NOT normal. Socializing is something that comes naturally to a large majority of human population while growing up. If you fail at that even though you had every opportunity to succeed and be good at socializing and fit in with your peers (like me), there is definitely something wrong with you.
It’s also entirely possible to mask and try to fit in as much as possible, but if you have a neurological discrepancy in your brain (such as autism or ADHD), you will forever have a brain that is wired differently, and you’ll be forever at a disadvantage because of it. For some it is a complete handicap if it’s severe/low functioning (such as autistic James). Though if you do manage to mask, you should remember it’s still not really you. There’s a good British TV-show about this, "Inside Our Autistic Minds", by Chris Packham (who was legit Chadlite when young) who is also diagnosed with autism.
As for why an NT would develop social anxiety could be because of factors relating to belonging to the wrong "caste" or social group of the NTs (i.e. the nerds), their looks, their social standing and wealth, physical disabilities, etc. There’s many different factors that come into play when we talk about NT and NT-maxxing here, while many also think of many different definitions in relation to those things.
Obvious post, brain chemsitry is impossible to change, even more then looksUnderstanding neurotypicals and neurodivergents
It has been a while since I last created a high-effort thread, but I felt compelled to write this one as this myth of ‘’NTmaxxing’’ needs to die out.
To preface, this thread is not an attack on those who preach about the supposed "importance" of being neurotypical. Instead, it aims to dismantle misconceptions that one can magically "become" neurotypical through superficial strategies or behavioural changes.
The neurological wiring of any individual is SET IN STONE and cannot be altered through actions. This thread will explore the differences between neurotypicals and neurodivergents and delve into the cognitive and cultural dynamics that highlight why NTmaxxing is a flawed pursuit.
What are neurotypical people?
View attachment 3402557
Within neurodiversity, neurotypicals (NTs, also colloquially referred to as normies) are individuals whose neurological wiring aligns with societal norms, enabling them to function smoothly in structured environments. They represent the overwhelming majority of the population in any given context. Neurotypicals excel at adhering to the status quo (irrespective of what that may be), hierarchies, and social cues.
Characteristics:
Example:
- Hierarchical nature: NTs operate within pyramid-like social systems, where rank, authority, and power balances dominate social and workplace dynamics.
- Mental shortsightedness: Their thought processes focus on immediate and tangible concerns. Abstract, long-term, or large-scale consequences often fall outside their scope of consideration.
- Blind social conformity: NTs thrive on shared norms, valuing harmony and predictability over critical evaluation or innovation.
Consider their stance on the COVID-19 vaccines, a few years ago.
NTs all rushed to take it, citing the immediate benefits of taking the jab: being able to travel and go to gyms, restaurants, clubs etc. without even considering the long-term ramifications and/or the damage that these experimental and unproven vaccines could end up doing to their bodies.
This reflects an inability and/or unwillingness to think beyond their immediate needs and scope.
What are neurodivergent people?
View attachment 3402559
Within neurodiversity, neurodivergents (NDs) include those with a wide range of atypical neurological traits or conditions. This group spans individuals with autism, ADHD, and other "non-standard" ways of thinking and perceiving the world. Neurodivergents often demonstrate exceptional creativity, analytical abilities, and a propensity for groundbreaking innovation.
Characteristics:
Example:
- Big-picture thinking: Neurodivergents often analyse situations holistically, considering far-reaching implications and multi-layered outcomes.
- Innovation and creativity: They are disproportionately represented among inventors and pioneers of revolutionary ideas and technologies.
- Struggle with norms: Their divergence from societal norms can create friction, particularly in structured, hierarchical environments.
Going back to the COVID-19 vaccines, the neurodivergent approach was vastly different: NDs approached it with far more caution, scrutinizing the lack of long-term data and the unprecedented speed of its development.
This reflects their tendency toward analytical thinking and prioritizing potential future risks over immediate benefits. While this scepticism may seem overly cautious to NTs, it stems from a focus on broader implications and a need for a more thorough understanding before acting.
There are a lot of substances that are known to cause cancer that we could do very well without like glues, construction materials, and other stuff like that that we have perfectly viable alternatives for, but that are also still produced and used by the millions gladly by NTs.
And if you're going to tell them about the dangers and propose them alternatives, in general, they'll just laugh it off and say you're crazy. They just won't do what should be done.
There are so many large-scale common problems for which the solutions are already there and that the NTs just aren't interested in applying because they fall outside of the consensus.
Within any given society, there's always a dynamic at play whereby a part of humanity is able to understand and invent technologies that the other part cannot understand. Most inventors are not normal/NT people, but rather NDs.
For instance, take pesticides. The chemists who invent pesticides can identify most of the effects they will have on a wide variety on things, not just on pests.
Biologists can also understand the effects, but the NTs cannot. The NT goes to the shop, wants something that kills the bugs, and then sprays it on the crops.
They will not think, and even if they do think about it, will not understand the wider implications of applying pesticides such as health risks and the negative impact it will have on the rest of the ecosystem.
Why NTmaxxing is a myth
Now that we’ve established the basic framework let’s extrapolate this further, using the forum as a case study.
If you’re on this forum, especially if you've been here for a prolonged period, it’s safe to conclude that you are NOT neurotypical and NEVER will be.
The very existence of these spaces, a form of "neurodivergent social media", arises because traditional social media platforms often fail to resonate with ND thought processes.
Yet, many users desperately cling to the belief that they can somehow transform into NTs through external means like "NTmaxxing"
But this belief misunderstands the very essence of ND and NT cognitive styles.
Just think about it, the very idea of a ''blackpilled'' community does NOT stem from NT minds and their subsequent wiring but instead, stems from ND minds since they view the world on a different level
The same principle could be applied to the redpill , as it also niche and falls beyond the scope of conventional, neurotypical wiring
Additionally, a trait that is highly common in these places, is the rigid adherence to the continuously perpetuated systems, rules and guidelines that operate with the PSL sphere rules and guidelines.
A behaviour commonly associated with individuals on the autism spectrum:
View attachment 3402617
Neurodivergent individuals, particularly those with autism, are also prone to viewing the world in black-and-white terms.
This binary mode of thinking manifests in a failure to recognize nuance since in reality, there will also be shades of grey.
For example, many users here dismissively categorize traits or strategies as either entirely good or entirely bad.
Coincidentally, only half of the users who participated in the Looksmax.org 2024 survey were able to confirm that they are not on the autism spectrum:
View attachment 3402651
The forum survey also revealed that 8.2% of the participants confirmed they are on the autism spectrum, a figure that is approximately 192.86% higher than the 2.8% prevalence rate observed in the United States, the largest demographic contributor to the forum.
Globally, this percentage is 720% higher than the 1% global prevalence rate:
View attachment 3402661
To further illustrate this, they will oversimplify concepts, declaring:
Without understanding the complexities or trade-offs associated with these instances.
- ''blue eyes good, brown eyes bad''
- ''jaw is law/eyes are the price’’
- ‘’6’3 or below is manlet’’
This black-and-white thinking can also be applied to behaviour:
Ironically, these individuals often adopt their own specialized terminology and engage in nihilistic discourse - behaviours that further alienate them from mainstream society - despite their stated desire to become neurotypical, wanting to fit in and coming up with their theories on how all of this could work out simultaneously through ''NTmaxxing'' (JFL)
- ‘’Just NTmaxx and you will get girls, bro’’
Rather than striving to become something that you're not, you would unironically be better off embracing your unique strengths.
Bottomline: genetic determinism
Neurodivergence is not a choice. It stems from deeply rooted neurological differences that manifest as introspection, introversion, and even melancholia (all very common here). Historically, these traits were adaptive, providing unique insights and roles in cooperative communities.
But today, in a hyper-conformist and individualistic world, these traits often seem maladaptive. As society shifts toward rewarding sociability and immediate gratification, ND traits - like long-term thinking - are increasingly undervalued.
Despite the challenges posed by modern society, NDs can thrive by building systems suited to their cognitive styles and leveraging their strengths rather than striving to emulate NTs. To do this, you must understand and accept NTs as they are
Conversely to trying to emulate NTs, the other major mistake NDs will make is to project their desires, values, and ways of thinking onto NTs.
Neurotypicals are not going to change because you want them to, nor are they equipped to think beyond their immediate mental horizons. Instead of wishing they were different, neurodivergents must learn to observe neurotypicals objectively - almost like a zoologist studying a different species.
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Neurotypicals function in their narrow hierarchical systems and transactional mentalities. Once you accept this as an unchangeable reality, you WILL be able to handle them more effectively and without frustration.
You can’t force neurotypicals to think holistically, but you can learn to work within their systems to achieve better outcomes.
Rather than striving to become something they are not, neurodivergents thrive by embracing their unique strengths and building systems suited to their own cognitive styles, avoiding the pitfalls of black-and-white ideologies
The changing world may appear to marginalize ND traits, but the solution is not to conform to NT norms, nor is to try and change or convert NTs into your way of thinking. Instead, it is to acknowledge and harness the unique value of these traits in ways that align with their intrinsic strengths.