The Truth About Narcissism, How It Works + Overcoming it!

[eduardkoopman]

not me but youngmaxxing is I think

his responses had me caging hard either way

Oh I though OP @Rochefort6 was 12.
Is was like, damn he must be super high IQ to even comprehend stuff like this to that type of extend.

But now I see it's @youngmaxxing. He sounds 12. Funny also. And obviously the type of things a 12 year old shares:
Cope,
banging yo mamma,
And wishing he had the psychological disorder of being a grandious narcisist.

 

[Rochefort6]

he's 12 years old
you're bickering with a literal child you deluded fuck
JFL at this armchair psychologist cope

He’s gotta learn some time am I right?

 

[Deleted member 7866]

Oh I though OP @Rochefort6 was 12.
Is was like, damn he must be super high IQ to even comprehend stuff like this to that type of extend.

But now I see it's @youngmaxxing. He sounds 12. Funny also. And obviously the type of things a 12 year old shares:
Cope,
banging yo mamma,
And wishing he had the psychological disorder of being a grandious narcisist.

edward my g shut your gob, you got some normie sitcom as your avi

 

[Good_Little_Goy]

He’s gotta learn some time am I right?

It's up to PSL to guide him now

 

[Rochefort6]

"Confidence" = aldo context based in your example.
Which is what I also observed in most cases, that "confidence" is corraleted plenty with envrionment.
Something that is such "context based"; I consider fluid. And thus much based on state, wich part of the bed got out off that day, flow of the day, etc...



It's true that narcisistist will constantly fuck up their lifes, and aspects of their lifes, and relationships. because of thair nature.
But they will way way lss likely be incel. And most likely slayers. Not that narcistists are more happy or happy at all.
they do regularly fuck up, or over, their life. Because their life is never good in their eyes. They also can be suicidal more.
Destructive tendencies they often have.
AND that's the sad part, about narcistists.

What type of narcisist? Like more the grandious one? Or more the vulnerable oen?

Did you do gaslighting and stuff also?

Or that doesn't feel natural to you to do?

The grandious ones can be successfull regularly. Due to haveing great network skills, and portraiting leadership type of "confidence".
I dunno about their track record for LTR, I think it will be bad. I never read studies, but from personal observations. Women seem to put up with a lot of shit from narcisists in LTR but still be okay/saty with him. But for such dudes, they can't see that and they still push further and further, untill the woman had alot of bad stuff happening and she can't take any more. Then she takes it out on the next dude, whom did nothing wrong, that next dude that accpets that are such fucking losers. Never accpet punishment, for what someone else did.


I seem to see that also. From the few narcists I know. They are very unhappy in general. They are, and NEED, the next validation fix. Like an addict.
I haven't seen an narciostst being statisfied with his validation needs, by just 1 LTR perosn. because it wears off. They usually need fresh/new validation. They more often cheat, or need to cheat, to get their fix. or other ways of getting validation.
It's looking closely imo, often a struggling existence they have.
Looking at it from outside/superficially; most think they have it made and a great life. Because most guys struggle or can't get new bitches regularly.

Can you find pther ways to get your validation fix?
Religuous groups can be great for that, for some narcisists. When at high postition, pleople with same religion adoring you, and of course the status, plus you can help people actually maybe with the large network or good advice so they very happy and complim,entative to you. Plus ussually it's a decent size group, and renewals of new people, that you can get some fresh validation juice also.

Too much autistic rambling to read with ADHD. Not the point of the thread anyway.

 

[Rochefort6]

It's up to PSL to guide him now

Lol feel bad for the kid

 

[Deleted member 7866]

Lol feel bad for the kid

cope, seethe and dilate that i will be fucking 50 big booty bitches per day as a terachad whilst you rot on incels.is JFL

 

[Rochefort6]

that i agree on.
But in this forum, with plemty dude whom can't ghet laid. they glorify anything that increeases the chance of sex.

Slaves to pussy

 

[Rochefort6]

cope, seethe and dilate that i will be fucking 50 big booty bitches per day as a terachad whilst you rot on incels.is JFL

Indeed

 

[Deleted member 7866]

Slaves to pussy

nah pussy is a slave to me

 

[eduardkoopman]

Too much autistic rambling to read with ADHD. Not the point of the thread anyway.

Don't gaslight me,. and
Frame control mode ON, me

 

[LastGerman]

Not sure what you're driving at here

Brutal driver licence pill.

 

[buckchadley31]

I'm not listening to that nigger

 

[Good_Little_Goy]

Lol feel bad for the kid

yeah lol I have a strange mixture of envy and concern, I remember I found lookism when i was like 13 and couldn't make sense of it so I left, I think if I found .me then I would have make an account and stuff, definitely would have greatly affected my psyche.

I think if he stays just in the looksmaxxing section then it could be good but yeah if he spends too much time here and other internet rabbitholes and forums it's really not good.

nah pussy is a slave to me

NT maxxing is just as important as pubertymaxxing for you.

You're at a vital time of brain development and psychical development so it's crucial to optimise both. Try to develop you social skill as much as possible even if you can't be a chad at school and get the girls that you want, trust me, it's worth it.
Don't abuse drugs or alcohol or smoke to cope either it will fuck you up like it did me.

 

[Deleted member 7866]

NT maxxing is just as important as pubertymaxxing for you.

You're at a vital time of brain development and psychical development so it's crucial to optimise both. Try to develop you social skill as much as possible even if you can't be a chad at school and get the girls that you want, trust me, it's worth it.
Don't abuse drugs or alcohol or smoke to cope either it will fuck you up like it did me.

thank you sir im gonna work on my confidence (frame) optimism (canthal tilt and supraorbitals) coolness (jawline) and cuteness (height)

 

[Good_Little_Goy]

thank you sir im gonna work on my confidence (frame) optimism (canthal tilt and supraorbitals) coolness (jawline) and cuteness (height)

im ded srs cunt, I can pm you my face if you want, people usually rate 5-6psl, average height with good frame. Looks are usually the deciding factor and still very important, i'm not tryna bluepill you but I am giga aspie and inept socially so I get laid pretty rarely compared to my worse looking peers

 

[Deleted member 7866]

im ded srs cunt, I can pm you my face if you want, people usually rate 5-6psl, average height with good frame. Looks are usually the deciding factor and still very important, i'm not tryna bluepill you but I am giga aspie and inept socially so I get laid pretty rarely compared to my worse looking peers

i have aspergers but i have alot of friend and am working on curing it, dm me face. currently im 2.5 PSL but puberty should drop me at 5.5 with no intevention

 

[Deleted member 5818]

thank you sir im gonna work on my confidence (frame) optimism (canthal tilt and supraorbitals) coolness (jawline) and cuteness (height)

You’re 12 right? Just from reading this I know it’s over for you brodie

Also reading this thread I had a huge fucking smile on my face and got a massive dopamine rush. Never felt better to be a Narcy manipulative borderline psychopath. If u generally think it’s better to not be Narcy etc then you’re dumb asf. Take that 365 show for example. If you are already good looking then dark triad maxing is real unless ur subhuman then beta bux simp max

 

[EverythingMattersCel]

The truth is there are 2 main types of narcissists: the extroverted grandiose sense of self type and the vulnerable type. The vulnerable types might lash out if backed into a corner but are harmless for the most part. The extroverted outgoing types that are high in disagreeableness and low in conscientiousness + high in grandiose delusions cross more into the realm of anti-social traits are more confident + do better in dating + social situations.

Let me give 2 archetypes that best represent what I'm talking about:

The agoraphobic incel type with low self-esteem. This might be accompanied by other serious mental health issues. Stays in his basement all day and is a product of constant negative reinforcement and bullying that he has received throughout his life. This type is bitter with a chip on his shoulder. An almost paradoxical superiority complex vests what is in actuality an inferiority complex. The years of social isolation erode any ability to integrate in normal society and feedback loop forms to fit his hyperbolised or deluded world views. The incel type is stuck in a well that he is unable to clamber out of. It's a good analogy for the average user here tbh.

The extroverted + uber-confident and charismatic chad that is also a product of his environment. Instead of negative reinforcement, the halo effect from his good looks allows him to become socially competent. This enables him to get away with borderline anti-social acts from a young age. He tip-toes around social conventions with little regard for the consequences. He is manipulative and uses people mainly to supplement his ego. People to him are disposable cannon-fodder.

2 very different type of people and yet they are lumped into the same group...

 

[Good_Little_Goy]

i have aspergers but i have alot of friend and am working on curing it, dm me face. currently im 2.5 PSL but puberty should drop me at 5.5 with no intevention

pm me, I can't access your profile

 

[Rochefort6]

The truth is there are 2 main types of narcissists: the extroverted grandiose sense of self type and the vulnerable type. The vulnerable types might lash out if backed into a corner but are harmless for the most part. The extroverted outgoing types that are high in disagreeableness and low in conscientiousness + high in grandiose delusions cross more into the realm of anti-social traits are more confident + do better in dating + social situations.

Let me give 2 archetypes that best represent what I'm talking about:

The agoraphobic incel type with low self-esteem. This might be accompanied by other serious mental health issues. Stays in his basement all day and is a product of constant negative reinforcement and bullying that he has received throughout his life. This type is bitter with a chip on his shoulder. An almost paradoxical superiority complex vests what is in actuality an inferiority complex. The years of social isolation erode any ability to integrate in normal society and feedback loop forms to fit his hyperbolised or deluded world views. The incel type is stuck in a well that he is unable to clamber out of. It's a good analogy for the average user here tbh.

The extroverted + uber-confident and charismatic chad that is also a product of his environment. Instead of negative reinforcement, the halo effect from his good looks allows him to become socially competent. This enables him to get away with borderline anti-social acts from a young age. He tip-toes around social conventions with little regard for the consequences. He is manipulative and uses people mainly to supplement his ego. People to him are disposable cannon-fodder.

2 very different type of people and yet they are lumped into the same group...

It’s a spectrum. I can be both vulnerable and grandiose.

 

[Deleted member 534]

Fuck this sounds like me ngl

I have myself quite often but I act super charming and confident irl to empress

 

[Deleted member 7901]

Yeah it does. Narcissism = bad long term strategy.

Is lack of self-awareness also an evolutionary advantage?

Ok inferiority complex Andy. Keep being a victim, good strategy for success.

actually lack of self awareness can be an advantage on some cases

 

[AlphaDude]

I can't agree with this one. Narcissism and egoism are good but know your limits, don't be an autist and randomly tell people "I'm so good looking" or "I'm so smart" but rather use it as a comeback, for example a girl gives you a compliment and instead of saying thanks, say "I know, right" and stuff like that.
Doesn't matter if you are faking confidence, as long as others don't know, you are good.

 

[Rochefort6]

I can't agree with this one. Narcissism and egoism are good but know your limits, don't be an autist and randomly tell people "I'm so good looking" or "I'm so smart" but rather use it as a comeback, for example a girl gives you a compliment and instead of saying thanks, say "I know, right" and stuff like that.
Doesn't matter if you are faking confidence, as long as others don't know, you are good.

The false self will kill the real self as the narcissism grows. Won’t end well.

Real growth is the best strategy.

 

[Deleted member 6403]

let's be honest, being dark triad is an advantage, but at the same time if everyone was dark triad society wouldn't function. That's why being narcissist is so frowned upon. It's a big edge for a single person but not for everyone else.

 

[Rochefort6]

let's be honest, being dark triad is an advantage, but at the same time if everyone was dark triad society wouldn't function. That's why being narcissist is so frowned upon. It's a big edge for a single person but not for everyone else.

It can be for me in specific cases, but again, not a good long term strategy.

 

[Deleted member 6403]

It can be for me in specific cases, but again, not a good long term strategy.

Long term as in?

If you mean long term relationships with women, then that's actually a biologically good strategy, because your mission as a man is to impregnate as many women as possible, not spend all your time with one.

Its an advantage primitively speaking.

 

[Rochefort6]

Long term as in?

If you mean long term relationships with women, then that's actually a biologically good strategy, because your mission as a man is to impregnate as many women as possible, not spend all your time with one.

Its an advantage primitively speaking.

Long span of time. Speaking from research and experience brother sister.

 

[Deleted member 4209]

what is it called when i can tell i'm subhuman judging by my lack of success with women, but i don't dislike my reflection and refuse to talk to unattractive woman and want to be praised all the time?

 

[Rochefort6]

what is it called when i can tell i'm subhuman judging by my lack of success with women, but i don't dislike my reflection and refuse to talk to unattractive woman and want to be praised all the time?

Covert Narcissism has a strong inferiority complex usually. Probably you.

 

[BigBoy]

Jfl this entire thread is filled with fake wannabe narcys.

 

[BigBoy]

It’s a spectrum. I can be both vulnerable and grandiose.

Were you diagnosed? People are one and not the other.

 

[Effortless]

I AM THE APEX AND NOTHING CAN STOP ME

I WILL CONQUER THE WORLD AND EMPOWER WITH MY CHAMPION AURA

I AM THE FUCKING MAN AND YES, I'M FUCKING GORGEOUS

p.s. I don't give fuck about you and your dog shit opinion OP

 

[Deleted member 6403]

Long span of time. Speaking from research and experience brother sister.

Longevity?

I rather live a year as a wolf then a 100 as sheep

 

[Rochefort6]

Were you diagnosed? People are one and not the other.

I can be both.

 

[Rochefort6]

Longevity?

I rather live a year as a wolf then a 100 as sheep

Yeah, wolf is probably more psychopath Although I can get that feeling at my peak and I’m not easily manipulated and can be very charasimatic when I want something. At its best, you get a fake feeling of high self esteem and confidence IF the source of validation is great enough and you don’t get triggered. The longer you inflate your ego, the more unresolved insecurities you mask, the easier you are triggered and the more you project, it’s like being a child on its period if that makes sense. But if you think that’s badass then cool.

 

[AlphaDude]

The false self will kill the real self as the narcissism grows. Won’t end well.

Real growth is the best strategy.

Nope, being real won't get you anywhere unless you are a naturally confident alpha male, and let's be honest if you were you definitely wouldn't hang around here. The same thing with money, being that honest guy who would never cross some lines to make money won't get you far.
It's eat or be eaten.

 

[Deleted member 7901]

The false self will kill the real self as the narcissism grows. Won’t end well.

Real growth is the best strategy.

real self

 

[godlikesz]

 

[BigBoy]

I can be both.

So self-diagnosed cope

 

[Rochefort6]

Nope, being real won't get you anywhere unless you are a naturally confident alpha male, and let's be honest if you were you definitely wouldn't hang around here. The same thing with money, being that honest guy who would never cross some lines to make money won't get you far.
It's eat or be eaten.

stfu, there is something called growth and hard work. Lol at thinking everything should be given to you.

 

[Rochefort6]

So self-diagnosed cope

Coping is the opposite of what I’m doing

 

[owlofathena]

i dont honestly hate narcissistic people if they are actually good looking, I just hate seeing deluded people i guess

I have dealt with an actual narcissist he was a guy manlet I wanted to bash his head against a wall so bad

 

[Deleted member 5746]

I have dealt with an actual narcissist he was a guy manlet I wanted to bash his head against a wall so bad

Every woman is a narcy

 

[owlofathena]

Every woman is a narcy

True but male narcys are worse

 

[Rochefort6]

Every woman is a narcy

True but male narcys are worse

gtfo of this thread if you’re going to cope. This is the success sub, not im a little victim pussy that blames everyone but me.

 

[owlofathena]

gtfo of this thread if you’re going to cope. This is the success sub, not im a little victim pussy that blames everyone but me.

Cope?

 

[Deleted member 5746]

gtfo of this thread if you’re going to cope. This is the success sub, not im a little victim pussy that blames everyone but me.

Wtf are u even talk about

 

[Rochefort6]

Cope?

Yes, blaming everyone else is a coping strategy for escaping problems and life’s challenges. Kinda what a narcy might do. Watch the video, try improvIng yourself or gtfo.