TyroneMaxxer
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I feel like I'm living in a nightmare. I'm a black man, and all my life I've believed in loving whoever I want regardless of race. But now my girlfriend, who's also black, has told me she wants to get a white sperm donor so she can have mulatto babies with green eyes and lighter skin.
I know she loves me and I love her, but this is something I can't get behind. She's trying to argue that it's not racist and that it's her right to choose, but I just can't accept it. I feel like it's a rejection of who I am and my heritage.
We've been together for years and I thought I knew her, but this revelation has made me question our relationship. I feel like I don't know her at all. I've tried to talk to her about it, but she won't budge. She's even started talking about finding a sperm donor, and my heart just breaks at the thought of it.
I'm so confused and hurt. I don't know what to do or how to handle this situation. I'm scared that if I can't convince her to change her mind, our relationship will be over. I want to believe in her and trust her, but this is something that I can't get past. I don't know what to do.
Any advice?
I know she loves me and I love her, but this is something I can't get behind. She's trying to argue that it's not racist and that it's her right to choose, but I just can't accept it. I feel like it's a rejection of who I am and my heritage.
We've been together for years and I thought I knew her, but this revelation has made me question our relationship. I feel like I don't know her at all. I've tried to talk to her about it, but she won't budge. She's even started talking about finding a sperm donor, and my heart just breaks at the thought of it.
I'm so confused and hurt. I don't know what to do or how to handle this situation. I'm scared that if I can't convince her to change her mind, our relationship will be over. I want to believe in her and trust her, but this is something that I can't get past. I don't know what to do.
Any advice?