Therapists will always gaslight you into thinking its in your head.

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I had anxiety most of my life but as of late my social anxiety was so bad I could not function in society. I had a therapist and would address feeling ugly worthless and looked down on. At the time I had the worst cystic acne of my life literal infections and wounds covered my face I was bloated 20 pounds fatter I had sleep deprived eyes.

My therapist kept trying to make me think this perceived hatred by other people was in my head. Maybe he wasn't completely off my brain made things worse but I think most people unless they are totally autistic know when people are looking down on them. Even if they try to fool themselves the brain is very good at figuring out peoples perception. This lead me to viewing every social interaction as an inherent negative thing. Since my looks have improved I have felt more social and less on guard. Even my own sister or my parents treat me nicer. I wish this was all in my heads I just wish they wouldn't gaslight ugly people into thinking its all their fault.

In my case it was semi my fault because my looks were poor due to horrible health mainly lack of sleep and bad diet from depression. But there are plenty of people who can do all the basic softmaxxes and still be subhuman in this society. Looks are not some monocausal thing they cascade into many areas of your life. Redditors are semi right when they go after incels personalities but what they don't understand is how you were treated has a huge impact on personality.
 
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If you feel awful talking to people its because either in the past or present you were heavily judged, your brain recognizes every and all social situation as a bad thing and puts you into flight or fight mode.

Every mental condition for the most part is rooted in some real life issue whether it be past trauma poor health or something else. Even things like schizophrenia which are genetic only become active when you experience intense stress. Mental illnesses are the bodies way of adapting to stress trauma and a subpar mental state.
 
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Lol if it's in the west then yeah. Please understand they are legally bound to gaslight you. What else can they do? Tell you yh your looks are influencing and then you have a mental breakdown and sue him and BAAAAAAM.

It's potential for too much trouble.
 
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its their job to gaslight. reality is too harsh for humans
 
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Lol if it's in the west then yeah. Please understand they are legally bound to gaslight you. What else can they do? Tell you yh your looks are influencing and then you have a mental breakdown and sue him and BAAAAAAM.

It's potential for too much trouble.
Idk I think you could come to terms easier if you realized this.
 
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i love to talk about my sexual desires with therapist, i only go to female therapists
and keep talking about how horny i am. lol
 
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Lol if it's in the west then yeah. Please understand they are legally bound to gaslight you. What else can they do? Tell you yh your looks are influencing and then you have a mental breakdown and sue him and BAAAAAAM.

It's potential for too much trouble.
i see you deleted your avi, good
 
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Go to psychiatrist
 
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Psychologists cant prescribe
 
Go to psychiatrist
And what get put on some anti anxiety med that will delude me into not seeing reality. These do not work you can't medicate away reality the ultimate end to these self deceptions is either suicide or further decay/mental illness
 
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And what get put on some anti anxiety med that will delude me into not seeing reality. These do not work you can't medicate away reality the ultimate end to these self deceptions of suicide and further decay/mental illness
You can feel better if u take medicine
 
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You can feel better if u take medicine
>Take your meds goyim so you cannot comprehend reality


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Idk I think you could come to terms easier if you realized this.
Some might, some might not. Results are unpredictable. Therapists have a protocol of what to follow. You could argue this with the system instead...
And what get put on some anti anxiety med that will delude me into not seeing reality. These do not work you can't medicate away reality the ultimate end to these self deceptions is either suicide or further decay/mental illness
Blackpill is that far too many mental conditions are not treatable
 
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Some might, some might not. Results are unpredictable. Therapists have a protocol of what to follow. You could argue this with the system instead...

Blackpill is that far too many mental conditions are not treatable
This modern society should not exist I shouldn't have existed to suffer this much either.

Society gets the monsters it earns. I wasn't destroyed in a single day it took a 2 decades
 
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And what get put on some anti anxiety med that will delude me into not seeing reality. These do not work you can't medicate away reality the ultimate end to these self deceptions is either suicide or further decay/mental illness
they are not to avoid reality, retard, they are there to at least make it bearable
 
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they are not to avoid reality, retard, they are there to at least make it bearable
The solution to anxiety is not medicating it away anxiety is completely natural its figuring out why a reaction is so intense if going outside or talking to people gives you panic attack then your problem of anxiety is only the surface you need to tackle why you view it so negatively.

Being delusional is never good in the long run. Redditors spend their whole lives with contradictions trying to avoid reality and they are probably at the end of the day less unhappy then a lot of incels. Unless your genuinely stupid being delusional won't work. Try as people might they still know deep down that their reality is a facade and it causes them even greater pain the bigger the contradictions between reality and their own integral delusions the more pain and complexity they must endure.
 
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I had anxiety most of my life but as of late my social anxiety was so bad I could not function in society. I had a therapist and would address feeling ugly worthless and looked down on. At the time I had the worst cystic acne of my life literal infections and wounds covered my face I was bloated 20 pounds fatter I had sleep deprived eyes.

My therapist kept trying to make me think this perceived hatred by other people was in my head. Maybe he wasn't completely off my brain made things worse but I think most people unless they are totally autistic know when people are looking down on them. Even if they try to fool themselves the brain is very good at figuring out peoples perception. This lead me to viewing every social interaction as an inherent negative thing. Since my looks have improved I have felt more social and less on guard. Even my own sister or my parents treat me nicer. I wish this was all in my heads I just wish they wouldn't gaslight ugly people into thinking its all their fault.

In my case it was semi my fault because my looks were poor due to horrible health mainly lack of sleep and bad diet from depression. But there are plenty of people who can do all the basic softmaxxes and still be subhuman in this society. Looks are not some monocausal thing they cascade into many areas of your life. Redditors are semi right when they go after incels personalities but what they don't understand is how you were treated has a huge impact on personality.
when my sis went from telling me to off myself to acting like a JB ik the psl blackpill had broken me then.
 
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Wait what happened bro story?
I was replying to ur family treating u better, my whole life I was more affected my familial treatment than outside treatment tbh. When I did all the psl autism methods for years only then did the power dynamic change, better treatment etc, interest. Once you seen that the people who were supposed to conditionally love you flip over something so stupid it changes you forever, water. family is just symbolic for the war bride theory.
 
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I was replying to ur family treating u better, my whole life I was more affected my familial treatment than outside treatment tbh. When I did all the psl autism methods for years only then did the power dynamic change, better treatment etc, interest. Once you seen that the people who were supposed to conditionally love you flip over something so stupid it changes you forever, water. family is just symbolic for the war bride theory.
My dad/mom still treated me nice when I was a subhuman. But my sister and friends saw me differently
 
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I was replying to ur family treating u better, my whole life I was more affected my familial treatment than outside treatment tbh. When I did all the psl autism methods for years only then did the power dynamic change, better treatment etc, interest. Once you seen that the people who were supposed to conditionally love you flip over something so stupid it changes you forever, water. family is just symbolic for the war bride theory.
Also by story I meant what did you fix with looks.
 
No point anyway. It’s $150 an hour for an authorised therapist where I live. I can’t pay that regularly JFL
 
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Lowkey the therapist spittin. Think about it. Ok, ur ugly, what are you supposed to do about it? Stop living? Get a bi max? No, you have to accept the situation, what comes with it, be accountable and just deal with it. Does life end because youre ugly? Does sugar taste less sweet when youre ugly? Does money buy less stuff when youre ugly?

You have a loser attitude. You had bad skin that made peoples skin crawl because you had a subhuman lifestyle and now that youre less subhuman you go on this blackpill tirade. Bro, who cares if you get treated better or worse. Youre putting too much stock into other peoples thoughts. Try be authentic. Say whatever you feel. Dont try fit in anywhere. Be alone if thats the outcome of being yourself. Dont try be social, just be authentic. Once youre authentic, you can truly look within and see what about you is wrong and improve for your own sake.
 
No point anyway. It’s $150 an hour for an authorised therapist where I live. I can’t pay that regularly JFL
Oh it was free for me but waste of time
 
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Never go to a therapist, 99% of them have no idea how to help blackpilled people like us. It’s usually a foid who says your personality is bad meanwhile she’s repulsed by how you look and wants you to gtfo asap. Or a beta bux cuck.
 
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Never go to a therapist, 99% of them have no idea how to help blackpilled people like us. It’s usually a foid who says your personality is bad meanwhile she’s repulsed by how you look and wants you to gtfo asap. Or a beta bux cuck.
My therapist was a chad :(
 
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Please understand they are legally bound to gaslight you. What else can they do?
its their job to gaslight. reality is too harsh for humans
They should just tell you the truth: "It's over!". There....they just saved you a lot of wasted time and money.
I also think therapists will disappear pretty fast in the near future, first replaced by free AI versions, and when people will realize it's all bullshit, they will stop using these too.
 
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