There's a friend group in my gym i would love to integrate

[volgograd009]

I've been in my old gym for 11 months and i really was popular there, there wasn't a lot of teenagers it was mostly jacked middle aged men because the gym was ran by old people but they appreciated me really much. But last month i switched to a more modern gym ran by young people, most of the people there are teenagers like me, there's a friend group that i really want to be a part of, they're all jacked (one is a 2012 and is ripped istg) and yeah that's it if you want some pictures here

 

[volgograd009]

I'm just gonna try and socialise with them

 

[DrRodger]

Get the women outta there and the groups goated

 

[simematic]

I'm just gonna try and socialise with them

they jealous of you being bettee

 

[fantom0726]

I've been in my old gym for 11 months and i really was popular there, there wasn't a lot of teenagers it was mostly jacked middle aged men because the gym was ran by old people but they appreciated me really much. But last month i switched to a more modern gym ran by young people, most of the people there are teenagers like me, there's a friend group that i really want to be a part of, they're all jacked (one is a 2012 and is ripped istg) and yeah that's it if you want some pictures hereView attachment 5598071View attachment 5598072View attachment 5598076View attachment 5598080View attachment 5598084

whos the 2012 nigga out of these

 

[volgograd009]

Get the women outta there and the groups goated

Maybe the first one but the second one is chill asf

 

[bhsoda_destroyer]

dammn

 

[fantom0726]

Maybe the first one but the second one is chill asf

bruh how are '12 niggas looking like this

 

[Psl King]

I've been in my old gym for 11 months and i really was popular there, there wasn't a lot of teenagers it was mostly jacked middle aged men because the gym was ran by old people but they appreciated me really much. But last month i switched to a more modern gym ran by young people, most of the people there are teenagers like me, there's a friend group that i really want to be a part of, they're all jacked (one is a 2012 and is ripped istg) and yeah that's it if you want some pictures hereView attachment 5598071View attachment 5598072View attachment 5598076View attachment 5598080View attachment 5598084

Which one are you? Or is this just the group?

 

[volgograd009]

whos the 2012 nigga out of these

Here

 

[volgograd009]

dammn

I know right

 

[volgograd009]

Which one are you? Or is this just the group?

This is the group

 

[Raison_d'être]

Pick out the least popular/social one and socialize with them first, then get him/her to introduce you to the rest and you're set

 

[volgograd009]

Pick out the least popular/social one and socialize with them first, then get him/her to introduce you to the rest and you're set

Oh shit that seems like a good idea

 

[manleterdachuaxxwe]

dammn

You can not be that hungry nigga

 

[fantom0726]

damn i wish i could have some friends at the gym, my gym is mostly either insanely roided men that are pushing 40 or either some 20yo dudes, im 17 so i dont think anyone is a good match for me

 

[volgograd009]

damn i wish i could have some friends at the gym, my gym is mostly either insanely roided men that are pushing 40 or either some 20yo dudes, im 17 so i dont think anyone is a good match for me

If i were you i'd socialise with the 20yo dudes not much of a difference

 

[Psl King]

This is the group

Are you anywhere near as muscular as them?

 

[Outlander]

I never bother socializing in places like the gym. Been going since 2022 and just go there for the gainz and nothing more. In my experience people at the gym don't tend to be very interested in socializing with anyone that's not already in their social group. Good luck tho

 

[volgograd009]

Are you anywhere near as muscular as them?

Yes of course not a big difference between me and this guy

 

[Vannx]

You can not be that hungry nigga

vera archetype with a fat ass

 

[fantom0726]

If i were you i'd socialise with the 20yo dudes not much of a difference

most of them are pretty jacked, they are like, going for bench press PRs and stuff, and im not like this so like idk
there also some dudes that are not that jacked, and they are like pretty casual about the gym
who should i try to talk to

 

[volgograd009]

I never bother socializing in places like the gym. Been going since 2022 and just go there for the gainz and nothing more. In my experience people at the gym don't tend to be very interested in socializing with anyone that's not already in their social group. Good luck tho

I just think that having friends at the gym makes it more enjoyable to attend, like having bench press buddies rooting for you and shit, it seems nice

 

[Psl King]

Yes of course not a big difference between me and this guy

Mirin then. Also yeah just socialize with them but don’t come off as too eager to talk.

 

[volgograd009]

most of them are pretty jacked, they are like, going for bench press PRs and stuff, and im not like this so like idk
there also some dudes that are not that jacked, and they are like pretty casual about the gym
who should i try to talk to

Maybe the second group if they're more your vibe

 

[Lord Vader]

I've been in my old gym for 11 months and i really was popular there, there wasn't a lot of teenagers it was mostly jacked middle aged men because the gym was ran by old people but they appreciated me really much. But last month i switched to a more modern gym ran by young people, most of the people there are teenagers like me, there's a friend group that i really want to be a part of, they're all jacked (one is a 2012 and is ripped istg) and yeah that's it if you want some pictures hereView attachment 5598071View attachment 5598072View attachment 5598076View attachment 5598080View attachment 5598084

ask one of them to spot you and start small talk in between your sets, that way it doesnt feel forced or awkward

 

[Outlander]

damn i wish i could have some friends at the gym, my gym is mostly either insanely roided men that are pushing 40 or either some 20yo dudes, im 17 so i dont think anyone is a good match for me

My gym has a mix of people from many ages, but I never socialize really there. Having others your own age there doesn't guarantee you'll be able to make friends. I gained 20 or so pounds of muscle over the 4 years there, but no new friends there. I'm in my 20s now

 

[fantom0726]

Maybe the second group if they're more your vibe

i mean im not that big, i mainly go to the gym to keep myself lean, not for the gains, cus im pretty anorexicpilled and shi
how do i even start a conversaton with one of these dudes, im neurodivergent as hell

 

[volgograd009]

Although i think i'm not helping myself when i'm at the gym, like i keep grunting and looking bad at people, making me less approachable, but i don't so it on purpose though

 

[Outlander]

I just think that having friends at the gym makes it more enjoyable to attend, like having bench press buddies rooting for you and shit, it seems nice

Yeah I agree that would make it somewhat more fun tbh. I think most friend groups you see at the gym were already friends before going to the gym instead of meeting and forming the friend group in the gym. It's usually pretty hard to integrate into an established social group if you don't know them prior but maybe you'll get lucky

 

[volgograd009]

i mean im not that big, i mainly go to the gym to keep myself lean, not for the gains, cus im pretty anorexicpilled and shi
how do i even start a conversaton with one of these dudes, im neurodivergent as hell

It's really not thaaaat hard someone on the thread said to ask for a spot and do some small talk, we should try that and see where it gets us

 

[volgograd009]

Yeah I agree that would make it somewhat more fun tbh. I think most friend groups you see at the gym were already friends before going to the gym instead of meeting and forming the friend group in the gym. It's usually pretty hard to integrate into an established social group if you don't know them prior but maybe you'll get lucky

I hope so

 

[fantom0726]

I think most friend groups you see at the gym were already friends before going to the gym instead of meeting and forming the friend group in the gym. It's usually pretty hard to integrate into an established social group if you don't know them prior

oh yea thats ropefuel

 

[volgograd009]

I think most friend groups you see at the gym were already friends before going to the gym instead of meeting and forming the friend group in the gym.

Yep actually true two of those are cousins and i think one of them was with one at school