This has to be the most brutal rejection ive ever had

[supergoat972]

I know this roastie at the office. She is in her 40s, has multiple kids, an ex husband. I was never interested in having a relationship with her, but I knew her for about 3.5 years. We would talk about 1-2 times a week, see each other in the hall way.

Over the years we started making more personal conversations. We talked about relationships, job interviews, made jokes etc.

Anyways, on her final day of work, I asked if she wanted to grab lunch sometimes as friends . It was a cold “no I’m busy.” I kind of expected her to say “ no, but we can stay in touch” or “no but we can grab lunch some other times. “ or at least maybe she could come back and share numbers and text sometimes. Pretty clear she never cared to see me again after nearly 4 yrs of knowing her. Never even bothered to stop by at my cubicle to say bye.

Thoughts? How to get over this? It felt like a form of disrespect.

 

[Orion]

she was probably tired of the job and didnt gaf abt anyone there, doesnt seem like a rejection she probably did the same to everyone else who works there

 

[supergoat972]

she was probably tired of the job and didnt gaf abt anyone there, doesnt seem like a rejection she probably did the same to everyone else who works there

True. But i've had lunch with other former co workers and texted them sometimes.

 

[indian_alpha]

Sorry to hear this bhai… typical foid behavior, throw mixed signals at men for attention then crush them once you’re no longer needed…

Only way to get back at her is to jerk off to her pictures and imagine raping her?

 

[Orion]

True. But i've had lunch with other former co workers and texted them sometimes.

everyone is different and has different views over co workers, she probably just wanted to leave
dont blame urself honestly if i was in her position and i was leaving the job especially if its an office job i would just gtfo of that building as fast as i could

 

[shandingo]

I know this roastie at the office. She is in her 40s, has multiple kids, an ex husband. I was never interested in having a relationship with her, but I knew her for about 3.5 years. We would talk about 1-2 times a week, see each other in the hall way.

Over the years we started making more personal conversations. We talked about relationships, job interviews, made jokes etc.

Anyways, on her final day of work, I asked if she wanted to grab lunch sometimes as friends . It was a cold “no I’m busy.” I kind of expected her to say “ no, but we can stay in touch” or “no but we can grab lunch some other times. “ or at least maybe she could come back and share numbers and text sometimes. Pretty clear she never cared to see me again after nearly 4 yrs of knowing her. Never even bothered to stop by at my cubicle to say bye.

Thoughts? How to get over this? It felt like a form of disrespect

Your co-workers are not your friends , do not treat them as such.

 

[ØUROBOROS]

I know this roastie at the office. She is in her 40s, has multiple kids, an ex husband. I was never interested in having a relationship with her, but I knew her for about 3.5 years. We would talk about 1-2 times a week, see each other in the hall way.

Over the years we started making more personal conversations. We talked about relationships, job interviews, made jokes etc.

Anyways, on her final day of work, I asked if she wanted to grab lunch sometimes as friends . It was a cold “no I’m busy.” I kind of expected her to say “ no, but we can stay in touch” or “no but we can grab lunch some other times. “ or at least maybe she could come back and share numbers and text sometimes. Pretty clear she never cared to see me again after nearly 4 yrs of knowing her. Never even bothered to stop by at my cubicle to say bye.

Thoughts? How to get over this? It felt like a form of disrespect.

Sad af sounds like a betrayal

 

[ChadThundercøck]

 

[supergoat972]

Sorry to hear this bhai… typical foid behavior, throw mixed signals at men for attention then crush them once you’re no longer needed…

Only way to get back at her is to jerk off to her pictures and imagine raping her?

Thanks man.

I was never interested in the roastie to begin with anyways. I don't have $$$ and time to deal with multiple kids, a mortgage and an ex. I just wanted to stay in contact after almost 4 years of knowing her. Like as friendly acquaintances.

Really mean of her. Hope she never finds a husband.

 

[supergoat972]

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Hope she never finds a husband.

 

[indian_alpha]

Thanks man.

I was never interested in the roastie to begin with anyways. I don't have $$$ and time to deal with multiple kids, a mortgage and an ex. I just wanted to stay in contact after almost 4 years of knowing her. Like as friendly acquaintances.

Really mean of her. Hope she never finds a husband.

Now you know why the roasted bitch is single… the older they get the more ruthless they become…

 

[supergoat972]

Your co-workers are not your friends , do not treat them as such.

True. But i've had lunch with other former co workers and texted them sometimes.

Costs close nothing to have lunch with a former co worker occasionally (like 1-2 every 2 months)

 

[supergoat972]

Sad af sounds like a betrayal
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Correct. It was a betrayal