This is how oneitis usually develops

[swaggyp1]

men/boys will scan their environment for a girl that is mildly attractive, but not too beautiful

this way, she’s pretty enough to be attracted to, but is still safely in the attainable range

Oneitis is rarely the most beautiful lady, she’s usually hovering around the 5-6.5/10 range

As men become more aware of hypergamy in college, men often select a oneitis that is slightly below their looksmatch, since oneitis needs to have some sort of realism

And once the boy/man has identified this lady, they will make up fantasies in their head and idealize her.. basically giving her a character she is not

The is is how oneitis forms

 

[Clqs]

If you say so

 

[McSkziofren]

Where is tje sex part

 

[NoExit]

that is mildly attractive,

this. oneitis is always a girl who is more on the cute/girl next door area in terms of looks

 

[LTNUser]

If you say so

This is OP's oneitis