This year I will lose my virginity at 41.

[reborn]

I am serious guys. I mean I could handle getting 40 as a virgin. But getting 41 soon I realize it is now or never. If I do not fuck this year I will be 50, 60 soon and my life will just end with my dick never having seen the insides of a vagina.

So I have started to lose weight from 135 down to 124 kg. I am 11 kg down at this point. I am disciplined and dedicated as I have never been before in my life. I am doing at least 15 km a day on my ergometer plus some body weight training. Soon as I am down to 110 kg or so I will start walking again.

The goal is not an LTR anymore. I just want to fuck. I am 41 yo virgin soon so let's cut the bullshit and get straight to the point (or to the hole).

 

[BrendioEEE]

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[Gonthar]

At this point just visit some escorts.

 

[Deleted member 16501]

good for you dude, I mean it

 

[Baldingman1998]

Bro you need to be 70-80 kg realistically and gymmac but you're probably bald with bad teeth already (unless you take care of yourself) just pay escorts tbh probably have 0 collagen 2. You might look decent but you are fat so it's already rip unless pity sex or pay some escorts

 

[Deleted member 24940]

How do people get to this point? Like what went wrong in your life that you were too beta to even fucking escortmaxx before age 40? Did your uncle rape you as a child?

 

[Deleted member 25059]

Jim, is that you?

So I have started to lose weight from 135 down to 124 kg

 

[reborn]

How do people get to this point? Like what went wrong in your life that you were too beta to even fucking escortmaxx before age 40? Did your uncle rape you as a child?

If he did I wouldn't be a virgin bro. But a lot of things went really bad. Drug addicted parents. Been homeless. Whole family dying of drug addictions. Everything.

 

[Deleted member 24940]

If he did I wouldn't be a virgin bro. But a lot of things went really bad. Drug addicted parents. Been homeless. Whole family dying of drug addictions. Everything.

Oh shit that brutal. Are you white or black?

 

[vanillaicecream]

Not sure why you'd even try to change that at this point, I'm 26 and I've accepted it's never going to happen

 

[reborn]

Oh shit that brutal. Are you white or black?

white

Not sure why you'd even try to change that at this point, I'm 26 and I've accepted it's never going to happen

Bro you need to be 70-80 kg realistically and gymmac but you're probably bald with bad teeth already (unless you take care of yourself) just pay escorts tbh probably have 0 collagen 2. You might look decent but you are fat so it's already rip unless pity sex or pay some escorts

At this point just visit some escorts.

I will actually go for escorts because wanting to avoid escorts is what turned me into a 40yo virgin. I first need to lose weight though because currently fucking would be physically difficult tbh and I would be ashamed of my fat body.

 

[Alexanderr]

I am serious guys. I mean I could handle getting 40 as a virgin. But getting 41 soon I realize it is now or never. If I do not fuck this year I will be 50, 60 soon and my life will just end with my dick never having seen the insides of a vagina.

So I have started to lose weight from 135 down to 124 kg. I am 11 kg down at this point. I am disciplined and dedicated as I have never been before in my life. I am doing at least 15 km a day on my ergometer plus some body weight training. Soon as I am down to 110 kg or so I will start walking again.

The goal is not an LTR anymore. I just want to fuck. I am 41 yo virgin soon so let's cut the bullshit and get straight to the point (or to the hole).

Godspeed bro, we'll all make it. Inshallah this year I will post a thread describing my first sexual encounter

 

[Gonthar]

I will actually go for escorts because wanting to avoid escorts is what turned me into a 40yo virgin. I first need to lose weight though because currently fucking would be physically difficult tbh and I would be ashamed of my fat body.

After your mid 20s or so, it just doesn't make sense to avoid escorts, even if you would somehow get a girlfriend and eventually sleep with her, sex will simply feel underwhelming after waiting for so long, you will feel like you've been tricked by society, thinking that sex will be an amazing, life changing experience and regret not going earlier to an escort...

 

[reborn]

Godspeed bro, we'll all make it. Inshallah this year I will post a thread describing my first sexual encounter

You'll make it bro!

 

[Splinter901]

I don't understand why u never went with a whore, I don't understand how u can be almost 30 a virgin and think: ''yep, my youth is almost over and it didn't happened it the last 15 fucking years but it's definitively going to happen any time now''.

 

[reborn]

After your mid 20s or so, it just doesn't make sense to avoid escorts, even if you would somehow get a girlfriend and eventually sleep with her, sex will simply feel underwhelming after waiting for so long, you will feel like you've been tricked by society, thinking that sex will be an amazing, life changing experience and regret not going earlier to an escort...

True I totally advice any incel who is in his mid20s to get it over with ASAP.

I don't understand why u never went with a whore, I don't understand how u can be almost 30 a virgin and think: ''yep, my youth is almost over and it didn't happened it the last 15 fucking years but it's definitively going to happen any time now''.

It wasn't like that. I knew it was over when I was like 13. And I would have gone to a whore. But I had the wrong mindset tbh. I had a loser mindset. I might make a thread about it.

 

[reborn]

After your mid 20s or so, it just doesn't make sense to avoid escorts, even if you would somehow get a girlfriend and eventually sleep with her, sex will simply feel underwhelming after waiting for so long, you will feel like you've been tricked by society, thinking that sex will be an amazing, life changing experience and regret not going earlier to an escort...

I disagree with you on one thing though. I think it will be life changing for me. Not because I expect sex with a whore to be super awesome...I actually don't expect it to be this good at all. But because I means I have finally overcome my fear and moved out of my comfort zone. Like when I travelled to a different continent alone for the first time - which I was always kinda scared to do - it was a huge deal for me and opened my life up to a whole set of new possibilities.

 

[Deleted member 9003]

Dawg…

 

[Deleted member 2130]

I disagree with you on one thing though. I think it will be life changing for me. Not because I expect sex with a whore to be super awesome...I actually don't expect it to be this good at all. But because I means I have finally overcome my fear and moved out of my comfort zone. Like when I travelled to a different continent alone for the first time - which I was always kinda scared to do - it was a huge deal for me and opened my life up to a whole set of new possibilities.

Make sure you take viagra / cialis or PT-141 before that because at this point there is a good chance your dick won't work.

 

[Tusseleif]

Mirin for still having hope at 41, how can I be like you

 

[reborn]

Make sure you take viagra / cialis or PT-141 before that because at this point there is a good chance your dick won't work.

4-5 days of nofap should suffice. LOL

 

[reborn]

Mirin for still having hope at 41, how can I be like you

For real though...Most other guys would have killed themselves about 100 times at this point. I am actually quite a robust motherfucker. LOL

 

[Chinacurry]

I am serious guys. I mean I could handle getting 40 as a virgin. But getting 41 soon I realize it is now or never. If I do not fuck this year I will be 50, 60 soon and my life will just end with my dick never having seen the insides of a vagina.

So I have started to lose weight from 135 down to 124 kg. I am 11 kg down at this point. I am disciplined and dedicated as I have never been before in my life. I am doing at least 15 km a day on my ergometer plus some body weight training. Soon as I am down to 110 kg or so I will start walking again.

The goal is not an LTR anymore. I just want to fuck. I am 41 yo virgin soon so let's cut the bullshit and get straight to the point (or to the hole).

Damn man am happy for you but how did that happen?? I'm also in a bad place and nearly as old as u, and I've had terrible luck all my life.

Are you NT? Also 135kg is a lot, do u not have any health issues being that big? Or are you like 6'5"??

Are u at least white?

 

[reborn]

Damn man am happy for you but how did that happen?? I'm also in a bad place and nearly as old as u, and I've had terrible luck all my life.

Are you NT? Also 135kg is a lot, do u not have any health issues being that big? Or are you like 6'5"??

Are u at least white?

It didn't happen yet bro But it will. I will fuck an escort.

I have tons of health issues like high blood pressure and water in the legs. My esophagus hurt a lot before I started the diet. Now it's good. I also have some trouble with my back. All of those issues go away when I lose weight and have already gotten better.

Yeah white.

 

[Deleted member 2130]

4-5 days of nofap should suffice. LOL

No it shouldn't. You will feel awkward and anxious having to do something you neved did with a female you never met before. There is a very good chance your dick won't work, that is the fate of almost all men who lose their virginity late. Listen to me and take viagra if you don't want to waste your time paying for nothing.

 

[Gonthar]

I disagree with you on one thing though. I think it will be life changing for me. Not because I expect sex with a whore to be super awesome...I actually don't expect it to be this good at all. But because I means I have finally overcome my fear and moved out of my comfort zone. Like when I travelled to a different continent alone for the first time - which I was always kinda scared to do - it was a huge deal for me and opened my life up to a whole set of new possibilities.

It's very unlikely you will feel somehow elated by this experience, it just doesn't happen after a certain age and after you waited for so long, it didn't happen to me and it didn't happen to plenty of other people who had sex later in life.
It's even less likely to happen in this day and age, when porn is so widespread and you probably masturbated countless of times to lots of hardcore scenes that make simple, vanilla sex with one woman look very basic and just boring.

 

[reborn]

No it shouldn't. You will feel awkward and anxious having to do something you neved did with a female you never met before. There is a very good chance your dick won't work, that is the fate of almost all men who lose their virginity late. Listen to me and take viagra if you don't want to waste your time paying for nothing.

Hm you might have a point there...

 

[Chinacurry]

It didn't happen yet bro But it will. I will fuck an escort.

I have tons of health issues like high blood pressure and water in the legs. My esophagus hurt a lot before I started the diet. Now it's good. I also have some trouble with my back. All of those issues go away when I lose weight and have already gotten better.

Yeah white.

Good for you man, crazy we are similar age and similar lives (but my bodycount is a bit higher, around 40 something).

If you're white can't u just go to an area with decent asuan chicks, like a Korean club or a Chinese hotpot place and get a 9/10 noodle? Or just one if the hot young noodles working in footlocker or something?

 

[reborn]

It's very unlikely you will feel somehow elated by this experience, it just doesn't happen after a certain age and after you waited for so long, it didn't happen to me and it didn't happen to plenty of other people who had sex later in life.
It's even less likely to happen in this day and age, when porn is so widespread and you probably masturbated countless of times to lots of hardcore scenes that make simple, vanilla sex with one woman look very basic and just boring.

Of course it is not like when you do it at 16. But it's still something I always wanted to do and never did. So merely the fact that I finally had the balls to do something I was always scared of is going to be big for me. I did a lot of things I was too scared of recently and it always feels great just to overcome your fear.

Do you think I should stop watching porn for a while? I guess I should.

 

[Deleted member 24186]

nah

 

[reborn]

Good for you man, crazy we are similar age and similar lives (but my bodycount is a bit higher, around 40 something).

If you're white can't u just go to an area with decent asuan chicks, like a Korean club or a Chinese hotpot place and get a 9/10 noodle? Or just one if the hot young noodles working in footlocker or something?

I remember when I was 19 we went into an asian brothel here in the bigger city. One of the noddle Stacies grabbed my arm. I could fucking beat myself senseless for not just fucking her then. I should have told my buddies to give me 15 minutes.

 

[reborn]

nah

why?

 

[Chinacurry]

I remember when I was 19 we went into an asian brothel here in the bigger city. One of the noddle Stacies grabbed my arm. I could fucking beat myself senseless for not just fucking her then. I should have told my buddies to give me 15 minutes.

Legit

 

[Deleted member 21735]

You wil fail

 

[Deleted member 24940]

4-5 days of nofap should suffice. LOL

You should use Viagra first time. My first time with an escort I couldn't get hard because I was so nervous. The second time though I was rock hard since I wasn't afraid anymore and I fucked the shit out of her. Also the people saying sex isn't good are lying, it's incredible.

 

[reborn]

You should use Viagra first time. My first time with an escort I couldn't get hard because I was so nervous. The second time though I was rock hard since I wasn't afraid anymore and I fucked the shit out of her. Also the people saying sex isn't good are lying, it's incredible.

I will probably fly to some other town 1000 miles away or something so I can fuck a whore I will never meet again.

 

[Deleted member 16275]

but my bodycount is a bit higher, around 40 something

yeah, just a little teeny weeny bit higher than 0

 

[reborn]

yeah, just a little teeny weeny bit higher than 0

In 2023 I will lose my virginity. In 2024 I will exceed his bodycount. LOL In 2025 I will exceed Ron Jeremy's bodycount (ok, this won't happen)

 

[Deleted member 16275]

In 2023 I will lose my virginity. In 2024 I will exceed his bodycount. LOL In 2025 I will exceed Ron Jeremy's bodycount (ok, this won't happen)

Were you close to roping at some point til now?

 

[reborn]

Were you close to roping at some point til now?

Until I was 32 I wanted to kill myself all the time.

 

[Deleted member 21044]

It's over.

 

[Deleted member 24586]

Good luck, I too hope to lose my virginity some time

 

[Deleted member 16275]

Until I was 32 I wanted to kill myself all the time.

What changed at 32

 

[Deleted member 20848]

I am serious guys. I mean I could handle getting 40 as a virgin. But getting 41 soon I realize it is now or never. If I do not fuck this year I will be 50, 60 soon and my life will just end with my dick never having seen the insides of a vagina.

So I have started to lose weight from 135 down to 124 kg. I am 11 kg down at this point. I am disciplined and dedicated as I have never been before in my life. I am doing at least 15 km a day on my ergometer plus some body weight training. Soon as I am down to 110 kg or so I will start walking again.

The goal is not an LTR anymore. I just want to fuck. I am 41 yo virgin soon so let's cut the bullshit and get straight to the point (or to the hole).

Fuck just fuck an escort already I lost mine at 18 to a whore

 

[reborn]

It's over.

Not yet bro.

Good luck, I too hope to lose my virginity some time

How old are you?

What changed at 32

I got a job and found friends. I was isolated before.

 

[reborn]

Fuck just fuck an escort already I lost mine at 18 to a whore

Bro I swear to god if I could travel back in time and wake up as my 18 yo self I'd fuck a whore the same day.

 

[Deleted member 20848]

Bro I swear to god if I could travel back in time and wake up as my 18 yo self I'd fuck a whore the same day.

Haven’t you done it already?

 

[reborn]

Haven’t you done it already?

I don't have a time machine.

 

[Deleted member 24586]

How old are you?

21 and I'm a subhuman curry so it's an uphill battle

 

[Deleted member 24940]

I will probably fly to some other town 1000 miles away or something so I can fuck a whore I will never meet again.

Your overthinking, they won't remember you even if you do fail. The escort I saw the first time I failed to get hard forgot who I was when I came back to her 1 month later.

Also another advice is to go to an Asian escort or massage place since it's relaxing to get a massage before sex, and since Asians follow JBW they will be more enthusiastic to fuck you.