Tinder (and IG) falsely inflate women's ego

[Shahnameh]

Recently I've been hearing from numerous instances the opinion that online dating is on a decline. And honestly, I am happy about this.

In my opinion, apps like Tinder (and IG) falsely inflate women's ego and create in them the illusion of abundance of options. And as a result, you have 6s entitled and thinking they are 8s.

Plus from what I've seen, you (as a man) thrive on dating apps only if you can display high status. Even if all the glamour is fake.

Most men struggle to get followers on IG, either with their private or public profiles. It's far easier for women to get IG followers.

Most men don't have an IG profile that is going to generate the kind of following necessary to utilize IG well for finding dates and sexual partners.

I think cold approach is the real deal. It might not be that convenient as swiping on your phone to "meet" a new woman, but easy routes often lead to nowhere.

 

[Xangsane]

Recently I've been hearing from numerous instances the opinion that online dating is on a decline. And honestly, I am happy about this.

how come it’s in the decline?

 

[Samiscool234]

how come it’s in the decline?

Because

 

[Shahnameh]

how come it’s in the decline?

https://edition.cnn.com/2024/02/14/business/dating-apps-2024-hinge-tinder-dg/index.html

Tinder struggles to attract younger users as Gen Z singles look to new apps

World’s dominant dating app seeks new ways to achieve growth as rivals such as Bumble and Thursday thrive

www.ft.com

Young people are moving away, everyone knows how shit they are

Because

 

[lurking truecel]

how come it’s in the decline?

Because this guy is sub Chad and he is coping. But it's true, woman are more pickiöy now than before because lookmaxxing etc is spreading. They want genetic giftedness and the jawlines they see on Instagram reels. The selection pressure is higher than ever before. It's over for 99% of men

 

[Deleted member 101809]

keep coping, women's options are certainly NOT fake, hot women get what they want, you're just not it. Even post prime 35+ year old women have hoards of options of men just like you

 

[Shahnameh]

keep coping, women's options are certainly NOT fake, hot women get what they want, you're just not it. Even post prime 35+ year old women have hoards of options of men just like you

Ok GreyCel

Because this guy is sub Chad and he is coping. But it's true, woman are more pickiöy now than before because lookmaxxing etc is spreading. They want genetic giftedness and the jawlines they see on Instagram reels. The selection pressure is higher than ever before. It's over for 99% of men

I've been on OLD for years but every year, my results from it seem to be getting worst and worst...

Of all the OLD apps, Bumble seemed like the golden goose.

This was because Bumble integrated well with our RP understanding at one point. What do I mean by this?

Most girls on swipe apps are only just looking for their own 1% man but enjoying endless attention from 99% of men.

When girls have so many options, it's very hard to gauge their interest level, especially when most swipe apps put the burden on us to initiate and sustain the conversation. You almost start at a lower ground in trying to gauge the IL from girls to find the ones that are worthy.

Bumble was different. Bumble put the burden on the girls to send the first message in the conversation, and this really helped us (men) with weeding out who truly had IL and those who were just looking for attention.

Guess what? This has changed. Bumble has recently introduced a feature where girls don't have to start the conversation.

Suddenly, Bumble is no different from Tinder, CMB or Hinge.

Since this feature, my results from Bumble has really taken a nose dive. The flakey and pointless matches have gone up.

Are there any of you now who are still killing it on OLD?

 

[lurking truecel]

keep coping, women's options are certainly NOT fake, hot women get what they want, you're just not it. Even post prime 35+ year old women have hoards of options of men just like you

Yes this is true, even fucking 55+ year old woman have exceptionally more option then a MTN had in his hole life

 

[Shahnameh]

Yes this is true, even fucking 55+ year old woman have exceptionally more option then a MTN had in his hole life

Human attraction is not based on seeing a heavily-filtered and photoshopped picture and reading a self-penned 2% truthful bio.

Go out and talk with women.

 

[Deleted member 101809]

Are there any of you now who are still killing it on OLD?

whatever the algorithm shows them is thriving which is the same type of men who are shown in the media

 

[lurking truecel]

Ok GreyCel



I've been on OLD for years but every year, my results from it seem to be getting worst and worst...

Of all the OLD apps, Bumble seemed like the golden goose.

This was because Bumble integrated well with our RP understanding at one point. What do I mean by this?

Most girls on swipe apps are only just looking for their own 1% man but enjoying endless attention from 99% of men.

When girls have so many options, it's very hard to gauge their interest level, especially when most swipe apps put the burden on us to initiate and sustain the conversation. You almost start at a lower ground in trying to gauge the IL from girls to find the ones that are worthy.

Bumble was different. Bumble put the burden on the girls to send the first message in the conversation, and this really helped us (men) with weeding out who truly had IL and those who were just looking for attention.

Guess what? This has changed. Bumble has recently introduced a feature where girls don't have to start the conversation.

Suddenly, Bumble is no different from Tinder, CMB or Hinge.

Since this feature, my results from Bumble has really taken a nose dive. The flakey and pointless matches have gone up.

Are there any of you now who are still killing it on OLD?

I never did, but yea it has gotten worse. It's actually over for the average man, the rope is no longer cope. It's the only real solution. But yes nt Maxx is def the one can do and then moneymaxx. Else I don't really so no hope. Be happy with yourself and by being alone because that is how life will be for 80% of all men. I just hope society will pay for it somehow

 

[Shahnameh]

I never did, but yea it has gotten worse. It's actually over for the average man, the rope is no longer cope. It's the only real solution. But yes nt Maxx is def the one can do and then moneymaxx. Else I don't really so no hope. Be happy with yourself and by being alone because that is how life will be for 80% of all men. I just hope society will pay for it somehow

You ( and any man including myself) will feel its actually UNNATURAL to abstain from women. That's why you are here looking for answers.

When women go online, they have to use the logical portion of their brain to find a mate. “Tall, dark and handsome + rich”. Why? Because there are no time constraints or the feeling like they are losing something.

Suppose a guy online was average height, average look, ok money, and did some exciting stuff. He would like a very limited amount of responses online from women.

Take the same guy and have him meet the same woman in an elevator. He’s got 2 min to spit game and ask her out. There’s a good chance he could do it and she would say yes. Why? Because her emotional brian kicks in, she has no time to reason or think about or he’s gone.

 

[lurking truecel]

Human attraction is not based on seeing a heavily-filtered and photoshopped picture and reading a self-penned 2% truthful bio.

Go out and talk with women.

Most woman are the same in real life, this is. Ot s new phenomena. It has always been. Even my subhuman mom got slayed by chads in her youth. Then my betabuxxing dad took her, he does everything for her. Litteraly everything and he is atleast MTN. He is getting disrespected still. A man has nothing in this life, only the very good looking man who carry genes woman want are of some sort of value, everyone else is dog shit

 

[Sprinkles]

Most men struggle to get followers on IG, either with their private or public profiles. It's far easier for women to get IG followers.

Most men don't have an IG profile that is going to generate the kind of following necessary to utilize IG well for finding dates and sexual partners.

ig is a rigged app and rigged algorithm like all the others

 

[mrdouchebag]

The bigger their egos, the harder reality eventually hits them. I love seeing Beckies thinking they are Stacies.
Imagine some Becky getting porked by Chads from 15 to 29 and thinking she's hot shit, and then at 30 due to her rapidly melting face she is forced to settle down with some average joe because she wants family and kids.
Fucking brutal for them.
Fucking funny for me.

 

[Xangsane]

The bigger their egos, the harder reality eventually hits them. I love seeing Beckies thinking they are Stacies.
Imagine some Becky getting porked by Chads from 15 to 29 and thinking she's hot shit, and then at 30 due to her rapidly melting face she is forced to settle down with some average joe because she wants family and kids.
Fucking brutal for them.
Fucking funny for me.

Blackpilled VS bluepilled foids on a group chat arguing about dating dynamics

Overview Jova shares her high standards, focusing on dating only "Chadlites" or "Chads" (top-tier attractive men), believing it reflects confidence rather than settling for less. Fernanda, Debora, Norma, and Hilary push back, arguing that her standards may be unrealistic and could lead to...

looksmax.org

 

[Whatever]

Especially Insta not only inflates their egos, it also makes them deeply insecure because of how competitive it is. So even if they have let’s say 1,500 followers, they’re looking at the girl with 15,000 and getting jealous. Or in some low because the one Chad out of many that they wanted left them on read.

 

[Defeatist]

People don’t realize how worthless and unimportant they are

Especially women, they think they have to be perfect for what? So retarded

TikTok is really evolving the youth in a weird way, I’ve noticed people have become smarter just because of the tiktok comments,

Usually they’d be dowsed with ignorance now not so much

Social media is accelerating the social dynamics and it’ll continue to get even weirder lol

 

[Xangsane]

Especially Insta not only inflates their egos, it also makes them deeply insecure because of how competitive it is. So even if they have let’s say 1,500 followers, they’re looking at the girl with 15,000 and getting jealous. Or in some low because the one Chad out of many that they wanted left them on read.

Some women ideally even say they want a gl guy with fewer than 500 followers on ig on TikTok comments