Tips for faking extroversion?

[Deleted member 1209]

I honestly don’t care about anyone and feel mentally drained by even the most basic social courtesies/small talk. I could go my entire life without interacting with people that aren’t hot or exceptionally charismatic

 

[Deleted member 15099]

Pretend your in a movie

 

[MaxillaMaxing]

I honestly don’t care about anyone and feel mentally drained by even the most basic social courtesies/small talk

Fake it till you make it . Worked for me

 

[spongebob]

Just have a good attitude and start asking random people questions

 

[Deleted member 12217]

I honestly don’t care about anyone and feel mentally drained by even the most basic social courtesies/small talk

What helped me is.


Look down on everyone.

Makes you more confident and say what you want to say.

if you speak your mind it’s so muuuch easier trust me. Also people like people who speak their mind. Trust me on that. I yelled at my professor ones and he liked me for that In the end.


Also realizing most people suck at convos combined with a bit of confidence helps. You will realize if a convo fails the other person is most likely more aspie then you. But that enlightenment requires you to be confident in your own ability to interact with others.
Otherwise you blame it all on yourself. Ones you realized it’s not you who suck but the other person or at worst both you stop caring that much.

 

[Deleted member 12217]

What helped me is.


Look down on everyone.

Makes you more confident and say what you want to say.

if you speak your mind it’s so muuuch easier trust me. Also people like people who speak their mind. Trust me on that. I yelled at my professor ones and he liked me for that In the end.


Also realizing most people suck at convos combined with a bit of confidence helps. You will realize if a convo fails the other person is most likely more aspie then you. But that enlightenment requires you to be confident in your own ability to interact with others.
Otherwise you blame it all on yourself. Ones you realized it’s not you who suck but the other person or at worst both you stop caring that much.

If you’re however interacting with a girl then


Either the girl likes you. She will carry the convo. Or the girl doesn’t like you. You could be fckin author of Harry Potter Tier story teller she won’t care.


Sometimes they are actually to aspie but rarely.




Also interactions are often just about telling cool stuff about your life. Boring life equals hard interactions. Interesting life and much to tell is easy interactions.

So the easiest way is to just get a cool life ngl

 

[Birdcell]

Fruit diet for copule days

 

[Deleted member 1209]

What helped me is.


Look down on everyone.

Makes you more confident and say what you want to say.

if you speak your mind it’s so muuuch easier trust me. Also people like people who speak their mind. Trust me on that. I yelled at my professor ones and he liked me for that In the end.


Also realizing most people suck at convos combined with a bit of confidence helps. You will realize if a convo fails the other person is most likely more aspie then you. But that enlightenment requires you to be confident in your own ability to interact with others.
Otherwise you blame it all on yourself. Ones you realized it’s not you who suck but the other person or at worst both you stop caring that much.

What if you're interacting people that are clearly better than you? I'm mainly trying to develop this skill for job interviews at high end firms

 

[Deleted member 12217]

What if you're interacting people that are clearly better than you? I'm mainly trying to develop this skill for job interviews at high end firms

What do you mean better? Experience ?

I don’t see anyone better than me. If someone worked 10 years in a field I worked for a couple months ofc he knows more. But give me 2 years and I’m on his level. I’ve always been a super fast learner.

And if someone is such a crack that he is actually better than me than those are most likely super nerds who have no normal life. So I look down on them for that.


But for job interviews I would say dont listen to anyone what ppl tell you. I never listened to how to write up a company or anything. People like authentic people.

If someone asks me stuff about things I don’t know just plain say that. Be upfront. But also be confident in yourself. Like if I don’t know something give me some time and I’m very good at it.


People like that non bullshit combined with confidence. I also have skills to back it up ofc. Confidence builds on success. How do you expect to be confident in yourself when all you did in life was losing?

But once you know what you bring and just be yourself it all becomes easier.



Unless youre a loser who doesn’t get shit done. Then idk. Lie

 

[Deleted member 12217]

What if you're interacting people that are clearly better than you? I'm mainly trying to develop this skill for job interviews at high end firms