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So, I've come to a very profound realization. And I've always kind of inherently known this, but the more things that I go through in life, the more things that I experience, all of these unexpected outcomes that happen, all of these things that unfold, it all kind of goes back to the same thing, the same central idea. And I think all of the greatest people throughout history have preached this idea. And that idea is to remain indifferent regardless of the outcome, regardless of any of the external circumstances, regardless of all of these things that you truly cannot control. You have to remain indifferent. You have to not be affected. No matter how much pain you're feeling deep down inside from something that happened to you that is truly traumatic, you have to remain indifferent. You can feel these emotions, but you cannot allow them to cloud your judgment. So to win at the game of life, you must remain indifferent."
I'm going to apply that phrase to a few different scenarios so that you can essentially understand what I actually mean when I say this. So, hypothetically, let's say you are in a relationship with a girl and everything seems to be going pretty well, but one day she cheats on you. May it be emotionally or physically just goes and sleeps with someone else. Now you can choose to scream at her, call her names, essentially sink to her level, cheat back on her, cheat on her with someone else, try to talk things out or interrogate her about it. You know, like the memes where it's like the guys, he's like, "Oh, how did it feel?" Like, was he bigger than me? How long did he last? Did you enjoy it? Like, dude, what the Fuck are you doing? You're just like opening the wound more. So, the proper way to deal with this, even if you truly have your heart broken from this scenario, is to just walk away. She has already shown you that she does not respect you. She has already shown you that she is emotionally opening up to someone else while closing off to you. Because the second that she opens her legs for another man, the relationship is over. That's what you need to understand. So there is no trying to put the wine glass back together. It's broken. Sweep it up and throw it in the trash. Walk away.
But paradoxically, if you remain indifferent from the start of a relationship and all the way through that relationship, it is very likely that she's not going to cheat on you. Now, I can't speak for every single situation, every single scenario, every person. Some people are just pieces of shit Regardless of how well you treat them, regardless of how you act, regardless of how masculine you are, how much money you have, sometimes you just don't do it for that woman and she goes and cheats. I can't speak for every situation. There are outliers to what I'm saying, but in general, if you don't allow your emotions towards her to cloud your judgment and you don't become clingy, you don't lose yourself within the relationship, then it will actually be very easy for you to maintain that relationship.
You see, because a woman may fantasize about having some like emotionally available man, some guy that's always catering to all of her feelings, some guy that's always available, always texting, that'll just do anything with her at at any time. She may fantasize about this and think that she wants it, but when she actually has that kind of man, she feels like she's with another woman. It is, let's say you're with a girl. It is her girlfriend's jobs to take her out and do all of this stuff with her and listen to her shit Now, I'm not saying you shouldn't communicate with your girl. I'm not saying that you shouldn't ever take her out, but your main duty as a man within the relationship is to simply focus on yourself. You see, you have to be selfish in order to provide for her. You have to be self selfish with your time because in this world that we live in with this devaluing fiat currency and everything going to fuck you need to be as physically capable as possible. You need to make as much money as possible and you need to be as focused as possible on building a future that will be able to provide for her in the children that you may have with her. Because even if she doesn't realize it, on a subconscious level, she cannot feel safe with a man that isn't focused on his goals. She wants all of his attention. But when she sees that he is giving all of his attention to her, she will lose respect for him and no longer love him. And that's where the cheating comes into play because a woman just needs to feel safe and she can feel safe when you remain indifferent to the outcome.
Now the truth is we can't predict what will happen in the future for all of humanity. We can't predict if there will be World War II and everyone gets drafted and a civil war breaks out in the United States. We can't predict that. We can't predict if there will be famines and droughts, but what we can do is we can control how we react to these situations and we can prepare ourselves accordingly. So regardless of what's going on around you, you simply just need to stay the course. You as a man deep down know what you want to do with your life. You know what kind of career you want to take on. You know what kind of personality you want to have. You know what group what groups in society that you want to be respected in. You know where you fit in in society, if you even fit in at all to be honest. I feel like I don't fit in.
Now, I have personally made so many mistakes within relationships with women because I thought that I had to be that emotionally available feminine guy or she was going to leave. Like I literally felt that if I did not text her enough, if I did not cater to her emotions enough, then she would find another man that would. And some women do that. But the thing is, you should never change who you are as a man for another woman. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Now, not every woman is the same. Some women are very hard to come by. It's very easy to find many attractive women. But finding a truly loving woman that loves you for who you are and respects you and will help you on your mission. Now, that's hard. That's hard to find in this day and age. But regardless, you need not to you can't just be yourself. You can't just not try and lay around and give into all of your lazy habits and just not try. But you have to know who you want to be. You have to know the man that you want to become in the future. You have to become someone that you can be truly proud of. And you have to essentially be the man that you needed when growing up. And that takes effort. That takes continuous effort. That takes trial and error. That takes taking care of your body. Because the truth is if you are not healthy, you won't have the energy to do anything else.
I'm going to apply that phrase to a few different scenarios so that you can essentially understand what I actually mean when I say this. So, hypothetically, let's say you are in a relationship with a girl and everything seems to be going pretty well, but one day she cheats on you. May it be emotionally or physically just goes and sleeps with someone else. Now you can choose to scream at her, call her names, essentially sink to her level, cheat back on her, cheat on her with someone else, try to talk things out or interrogate her about it. You know, like the memes where it's like the guys, he's like, "Oh, how did it feel?" Like, was he bigger than me? How long did he last? Did you enjoy it? Like, dude, what the Fuck are you doing? You're just like opening the wound more. So, the proper way to deal with this, even if you truly have your heart broken from this scenario, is to just walk away. She has already shown you that she does not respect you. She has already shown you that she is emotionally opening up to someone else while closing off to you. Because the second that she opens her legs for another man, the relationship is over. That's what you need to understand. So there is no trying to put the wine glass back together. It's broken. Sweep it up and throw it in the trash. Walk away.
But paradoxically, if you remain indifferent from the start of a relationship and all the way through that relationship, it is very likely that she's not going to cheat on you. Now, I can't speak for every single situation, every single scenario, every person. Some people are just pieces of shit Regardless of how well you treat them, regardless of how you act, regardless of how masculine you are, how much money you have, sometimes you just don't do it for that woman and she goes and cheats. I can't speak for every situation. There are outliers to what I'm saying, but in general, if you don't allow your emotions towards her to cloud your judgment and you don't become clingy, you don't lose yourself within the relationship, then it will actually be very easy for you to maintain that relationship.
You see, because a woman may fantasize about having some like emotionally available man, some guy that's always catering to all of her feelings, some guy that's always available, always texting, that'll just do anything with her at at any time. She may fantasize about this and think that she wants it, but when she actually has that kind of man, she feels like she's with another woman. It is, let's say you're with a girl. It is her girlfriend's jobs to take her out and do all of this stuff with her and listen to her shit Now, I'm not saying you shouldn't communicate with your girl. I'm not saying that you shouldn't ever take her out, but your main duty as a man within the relationship is to simply focus on yourself. You see, you have to be selfish in order to provide for her. You have to be self selfish with your time because in this world that we live in with this devaluing fiat currency and everything going to fuck you need to be as physically capable as possible. You need to make as much money as possible and you need to be as focused as possible on building a future that will be able to provide for her in the children that you may have with her. Because even if she doesn't realize it, on a subconscious level, she cannot feel safe with a man that isn't focused on his goals. She wants all of his attention. But when she sees that he is giving all of his attention to her, she will lose respect for him and no longer love him. And that's where the cheating comes into play because a woman just needs to feel safe and she can feel safe when you remain indifferent to the outcome.
Now the truth is we can't predict what will happen in the future for all of humanity. We can't predict if there will be World War II and everyone gets drafted and a civil war breaks out in the United States. We can't predict that. We can't predict if there will be famines and droughts, but what we can do is we can control how we react to these situations and we can prepare ourselves accordingly. So regardless of what's going on around you, you simply just need to stay the course. You as a man deep down know what you want to do with your life. You know what kind of career you want to take on. You know what kind of personality you want to have. You know what group what groups in society that you want to be respected in. You know where you fit in in society, if you even fit in at all to be honest. I feel like I don't fit in.
Now, I have personally made so many mistakes within relationships with women because I thought that I had to be that emotionally available feminine guy or she was going to leave. Like I literally felt that if I did not text her enough, if I did not cater to her emotions enough, then she would find another man that would. And some women do that. But the thing is, you should never change who you are as a man for another woman. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Now, not every woman is the same. Some women are very hard to come by. It's very easy to find many attractive women. But finding a truly loving woman that loves you for who you are and respects you and will help you on your mission. Now, that's hard. That's hard to find in this day and age. But regardless, you need not to you can't just be yourself. You can't just not try and lay around and give into all of your lazy habits and just not try. But you have to know who you want to be. You have to know the man that you want to become in the future. You have to become someone that you can be truly proud of. And you have to essentially be the man that you needed when growing up. And that takes effort. That takes continuous effort. That takes trial and error. That takes taking care of your body. Because the truth is if you are not healthy, you won't have the energy to do anything else.
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