NitoRump
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I know people here think personality is cope.
Well listen motherfuckers of course looks are the fundamental aspect of life, but your personality NEEDS to match that.
The thing with a guy who was total Chad since the start of puberty is that even if he was shy/dorkish, life experiences at an early age would shape his personality day by day slowly.
So when he is an adult, he would effortlessly have all qualities people expect of chads, funny, talkative, charming, fun to be around etc.
Whereas if you are an adult or close to being one and you did not have these experiences, and you somehow manage to ascend to a htn or chadlite lets say, your personality would not match how you look and people will look at you weirdly.
People expect you to ACT how you LOOK.
Think of a black guy who gets educated and gets a Phd and shit, people who do not know him don't expect him to act all smart and educated, and would be off-putted by his behaviour.
The same goes for a white scrawny kid who acts all gangster and touch, nobody would take him serioulsly.
So when/if you ascend, you need to also learn how to behave accordingly. And that is quite a hard part that is untalked in this community.
Spare the "chad slays when autistic crap".
Sure he can attract women and still smash, but attraction would be heavily lowered.
And all of you aren't Chads anyway so that argument doesn't apply on you.
You don't have to put up a Hollywood level acting with women where every word you utter is on point, but generally how you portray yourself and your mannerisms will really improve attraction with women, PROVIDED she is attracted to you in the first place.
Austin Dunham made a good video on this.
You need to be HTN+ for that to apply, but if you are, its complete facts
Well listen motherfuckers of course looks are the fundamental aspect of life, but your personality NEEDS to match that.
The thing with a guy who was total Chad since the start of puberty is that even if he was shy/dorkish, life experiences at an early age would shape his personality day by day slowly.
So when he is an adult, he would effortlessly have all qualities people expect of chads, funny, talkative, charming, fun to be around etc.
Whereas if you are an adult or close to being one and you did not have these experiences, and you somehow manage to ascend to a htn or chadlite lets say, your personality would not match how you look and people will look at you weirdly.
People expect you to ACT how you LOOK.
Think of a black guy who gets educated and gets a Phd and shit, people who do not know him don't expect him to act all smart and educated, and would be off-putted by his behaviour.
The same goes for a white scrawny kid who acts all gangster and touch, nobody would take him serioulsly.
So when/if you ascend, you need to also learn how to behave accordingly. And that is quite a hard part that is untalked in this community.
Spare the "chad slays when autistic crap".
Sure he can attract women and still smash, but attraction would be heavily lowered.
And all of you aren't Chads anyway so that argument doesn't apply on you.
You don't have to put up a Hollywood level acting with women where every word you utter is on point, but generally how you portray yourself and your mannerisms will really improve attraction with women, PROVIDED she is attracted to you in the first place.
Austin Dunham made a good video on this.
You need to be HTN+ for that to apply, but if you are, its complete facts
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