Upcoming Meet-Up with Petite Latina - Need Advice on Handling the Social Game

[zerotohero]

Alright, boys, here’s the situation: I’m meeting up in December with this petite Latina (Christian, 19, solid 7/10) I’ve been talking to for a while. We’ve been building up rapport with deep chats on life and psychology, and things took a turn when I hinted we should try being more than just friends. She’s open to it, so we’re making moves.

Now here’s the kicker – she wants me to meet her friends, too. As a non-NT guy, group dynamics can get dicey. I need to show up looking top-tier and in control, but without trying too hard or looking like I’m fronting.

How do I approach this so I maintain my frame while making a killer first impression?

 

[Daddy's Home]

looking top-tier and in control, but without trying too hard or looking like I’m fronting.

I think you may be overthinking this. She's 19, so her friends are the same age after all, so mentally they're kids, who just want to have fun. You just need to look as NT as possible (hairstyle and clothes as popular as possible, without anything weird or different standing out), and answering questions when asked, and just opening topics / asking random and irrelevant questions when an awkward silence occurs

You guys are not close enough to need some fancy interactions. You can keep everything very standard, but without seeming very intimidating or awkward. All you can do extra to make a good impression is to use less common words and explain / verbalize things in a way that you seem more above their general level of intelligence, all so you don't at least look like the dumbest one in that group

Apart from that, you need to focus as much of your attention as possible on her and let everyone else see this..

 

[zerotohero]

I want to avoid the dreaded awkward silences. I’ve already gotten to know her a bit through text, but I’m running out of things to talk about. Any tips on conversation topics or strategies to keep the conversation flowing smoothly? I don’t want to be the quiet guy and end up with a boring date.

 

[zerotohero]

Bump.

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

tell her you are acquitances with Latino Looksmaxxer

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

I think you may be overthinking this. She's 19, so her friends are the same age after all, so mentally they're kids, who just want to have fun. You just need to look as NT as possible (hairstyle and clothes as popular as possible, without anything weird or different standing out), and answering questions when asked, and just opening topics / asking random and irrelevant questions when an awkward silence occurs

You guys are not close enough to need some fancy interactions. You can keep everything very standard, but without seeming very intimidating or awkward. All you can do extra to make a good impression is to use less common words and explain / verbalize things in a way that you seem more above their general level of intelligence, all so you don't at least look like the dumbest one in that group

Apart from that, you need to focus as much of your attention as possible on her and let everyone else see this..

im 30 and i just want to have fun too