
trench
We are living in each other's paranoia
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its not a follow, its shitty adviceIt’s literally just a follow, I’m not sure what your logic is. You’d rather cold approach then to just follow on a social media platform. To be honest I’d rather not get a follow back than to be laughed at IRL just me though.
my logic is he never talked to her, went to the same class for 2 years, she switches majors, he walks past her multiple times ... still doesnt say anything to her
he has zero mutuals with her meaning he cant possibly find her ig without stalking (which he did) or just searching up her name .
both come off as creepy, cold approaching isnt creepy, stalking/following her ig out of nowhere trying to talk to her is
the best and only way is to just approach her and spark up a convo, or just ask for her socials
if she rejects him and laughs, so what ? he tried
and literally no one is gonna laugh in your face after rejecting you, definitely not her in the way he described her (shy etc)
a follow up would be approaching>>asking for socials or start a convo and then ask for socials>>text her and go on from there
him randomly following her w zero mutuals after never talking to her for years is coming off as creepy, approaching isnt
approach, get her socials and just say you are scared/shy when it comes to approaching, thats a convo starter
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