Vain feeling

[Hopecel123]

Hi guys, this is my first post. I have a question for you. Do any of you feel odd after ascending and getting attention? I spent a majority of my life completely unnoticed by women and kinda just never really thought about getting into a relationship as I was really short and skinny so I had zero chance of garnering female attraction. Somewhere around junior year of hs I discovered lm and started to just softmaxx and employ better habits. As I ascended, I finally got noticed by others and was able to pull. Even now as a sophomore in college, I am able to pull and do occasionally get the odd female cold approaching me, but I have zero desire to actually take anything further or accept any offers of number exchange or anything of the sort. It all just feels so empty, knowing that the only reason why these people are even taking a liking to me or my interests is that im attractive. Is there any fix to this, or will I just remain a volcel for life?

 

[crewe]

make the most of it and take advantage of it just remember when you were ugly and could never do it be grateful you got there

 

[Hopecel123]

make the most of it and take advantage of it just remember when you were ugly and could never do it be grateful you got there

its weird though after all those years of involuntary celibacy I no longer have any real romantic desire. The feeling of being loved is great and I have been in a relationship (I was the one pursued) but I can't myself to try and chase it

 

[crewe]

its weird though after all those years of involuntary celibacy I no longer have any real romantic desire. The feeling of being loved is great and I have been in a relationship (I was the one pursued) but I can't myself to try and chase it

you dont have to feel obligated to be in a rls; some ppl just don't have it in them and i mean just its one of those things a lot of times it sounds hard to start but long term it gets a lot easier and can bring you benefits but a lot of cons at that