Validation is the end goal, men.

[Amnesia]

All that matters in life is having a fulfilling childhood that leaves nostalgic memories you can re capture from time to time

 

[𝐀𝐬𝐬𝐲𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐧 𝐖𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐨𝐫]

All that matters in life is having a fulfilling childhood that leaves nostalgic memories you can re capture from time to time

What can one do if his childhood was bad?

 

[Amnesia]

What can one do if his childhood was bad?

dunno, u will never have a full life

a good childhood is the only thing that brings good memories and a sense that I experienced happiness for a short amount of time in my life

 

[𝐀𝐬𝐬𝐲𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐧 𝐖𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐨𝐫]

dunno, u will never have a full life

a good childhood is the only thing that brings good memories and a sense that I experienced happiness for a short amount of time in my life

I had alot of misfortune in my childhood and teenage years
My understanding of happiness is very vague and superficial

I didnt really have a good beginning to start with

It's not over just very vague and a lost type of feeling

 

[Deleted member 9801]

Spoken like someone who never had validation…

Validation gets old quickly, unless you’re a giga narc and can’t live without being praised every second

 

[Deleted member 9801]

What you need for happiness is to be truly loved

 

[𝐀𝐬𝐬𝐲𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐧 𝐖𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐨𝐫]

What you need for happiness is to be truly loved

can you give a thorough example?

 

[Deleted member 9801]

can you give a thorough example?

For eg if you find a girl who actually loves you, and you can tell that not only through words but through actions too. To a normal human (i.e no personality disorders) this will feel much more meaningful than getting validation from a lot of strangers (that’s a narc’s wet dream tho)

Tbh it doesn’t have to always be romantic love either. For eg, those who grew up feeling loved by their families, they crave less validation as adults because they are content with themselves deep down. Love heals, and many people with personality disorders ended up that way because of shitty childhood and families

 

[𝐀𝐬𝐬𝐲𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐧 𝐖𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐨𝐫]

shitty childhood and families

Unfortunetly very true

I've a close girl that writes to me semi daily and we went out a few times

but I don't want to do anything long term with her
not because of any particular reason I just don't have an interest in her after my meds
and I can't function without it well

Bad childhood is a prison you can't escape from
it is essentialy your life unfortunetly
I'm also ADHDcel

 

[IncelsBraincels]

kill yourself

 

[Deleted member 9801]

Unfortunetly very true

I've a close girl that writes to me semi daily and we went out a few times

but I don't want to do anything long term with her
not because of any particular reason I just don't have an interest in her after my meds
and I can't function without it well

Bad childhood is a prison you can't escape from
it is essentialy your life unfortunetly
I'm also ADHDcel

if she’s a good person, make an effort to get closer to her despite the lack of drive

Hope it gets better for you bro. You never know when things can take an unexpected turn

 

[𝐀𝐬𝐬𝐲𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐧 𝐖𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐨𝐫]

if she’s a good person, make an effort to get closer to her despite the lack of drive

Hope it gets better for you bro. You never know when things can take an unexpected turn

Link me any advice for
Childoodcels and ADHDcels

If you find anything
Your help is much appreciated bruv

 

[Lars]

1000% agree on this, vallidation is more addicting than drugs

and relationship if you like that girl moggs slaying

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

All that matters in life is having a fulfilling childhood that leaves nostalgic memories you can re capture from time to time

Eh not really, childhood strikes me as a very limited, very little actual freedom but freedom from responsibility.

 

[TyroneIncoming]

weak mindset: your purpose as a man is to coooom in young fertile women. do you think the ancients cared whether they were desired or not? furthermore-women don't know what they want-if you base your existence on being desired by sub 80 IQ teenage sluts you're in for trouble.

 

[TyroneIncoming]

weak mindset: your purpose as a man is to coooom in young fertile women. do you think the ancients cared whether they were desired or not? furthermore-women don't know what they want-if you base your existence on being desired by sub 80 IQ teenage sluts you're in for trouble.

I would be very satisfied if I was invisbile to women but could smash prime 10/10s without anyone knowing.

 

[Deleted member 16474]

I disagree with op reproduction is the end goal, you are a survival machine essentially, a vessel body building replicator

Validation is whatever, ultimately you only care about validiation from certain good genetics people

people with good genetics = good at building body and best chance for your offspring to succeed and continue your lineage

as a living organism you are a prisoner in your body and guided by your self preservation genes at all times


end goal is to reproduce and teach your offspring valuable information do's and dont's for them to succeed and survive and pass your genetic code to the next generation, in that way you will be immortal



This validation end goal post u made makes you look young, naive and narcy who wants to feed their ego



water is wet post to me but might be new for you

 

[Deleted member 16474]

All that matters in life is having a fulfilling childhood that leaves nostalgic memories you can re capture from time to time

 

[6’1cel]

The gift of being goodlooking is not ideal because you get sex. It's ideal because you get validation.

Cumming in/on/around a female body is not the point. The point is to inspire awe and admiration in desirable people just by existing. This is why prostitutes or "being settled for" should not be acceptable to you. If a person wants to experience an orgasm they can jack off in the corner whenever it pleases them. Anyone with an intact clit or dick can have that kind of pleasure.

Knowing that people value you above most others before you even speak. Knowing that people others desire, desire you instead. Knowing that you can be yourself, however strange, weak, or evil, truly and fully without consequence. Knowing that you live in the wildest fantasies of people you cannot even remember. Knowing that you are art in human form. That's true pleasure.

Knowing that I have power over someone, that someone thinks and fantasizes about me, someone who lusts over me and changes her actions to please me. Thats worth more than the pleasure of fucking a stacy.

I want to be adored by females and you should too.

i read this in patrick bateman's voice

 

[.*my*.]

The gift of being goodlooking is not ideal because you get sex. It's ideal because you get validation.

Cumming in/on/around a female body is not the point. The point is to inspire awe and admiration in desirable people just by existing. This is why prostitutes or "being settled for" should not be acceptable to you. If a person wants to experience an orgasm they can jack off in the corner whenever it pleases them. Anyone with an intact clit or dick can have that kind of pleasure.

Knowing that people value you above most others before you even speak. Knowing that people others desire, desire you instead. Knowing that you can be yourself, however strange, weak, or evil, truly and fully without consequence. Knowing that you live in the wildest fantasies of people you cannot even remember. Knowing that you are art in human form. That's true pleasure.

Knowing that I have power over someone, that someone thinks and fantasizes about me, someone who lusts over me and changes her actions to please me. Thats worth more than the pleasure of fucking a stacy.

I want to be adored by females and you should too.

Who is the beta male that wrote this? Let me see a picture of that boy

 

[LipstickAlley]

I don't want any of these, I wanna be the op side character hidden in the shadows, doing their own thing. Like Itachi

Like yoshikage Kira?

 

[Deleted member 1209]

Not everyone is a narcissist

 

[sevensources]

Tbh the meaning of your life depends on who you are personally.

- The meaning of a farmer is to have kids and raise his farm
- The meaning of a musician is to make a #1 album
- The meaning of an aspie is to survive with as little serious trauma as possible

You can't just say that validation is the goal, or women are the goal, or money is the goal. YOU DECIDE YOUR OWN GOALS FOR LIFE.

 

[EasternRightWinger15]

greycel with pinned thread, mirin @Alexanderr

 

[BrettyBoy]

Just want my cock wet and that is it for me.

 

[goldensoul]

Narcy high estrogenic post. It's over for op it's over

 

[Ottoman Janissary]

cope
I want to die without bringing pain and shame to my family

 

[Alexanderr]

Bumo

 

[Deleted member 17872]

Bumo

Extremely low T thread. Expected better from you.

 

[Deleted member 24186]

I agree. Same for sex - Sex itself was never just the "heaven" the good looking guys deserve.
It's about getting her sucking your dick, have her moaning - BECAUSE of you.

 

[Alexanderr]

Extremely low T thread. Expected better from you.

Alright. Let's have a conversation, why are you looksmaxing? If you looksmax at all.

 

[Deleted member 17872]

Alright. Let's have a conversation, why are you looksmaxing? If you looksmax at all.

To have a decent dating and social life. To have some leverage in relationships.

While i do care a bit about validation, it’s not the end goal for me.

Suppose if i became a billionaire tomorrow i would stop giving a fuck about validation

 

[Alexanderr]

To have a decent dating and social life. To have some leverage in relationships.

Most of those would go hand-in-hand with increased validation.
Your dating life is predicated on the appreciation people have for your appearance.
Your improved appearance and appreciation for it will make it all that more likely people will genuinely listen and respect what you have to say- giving you leverage in relationships. Socially or even business-wise.

Suppose if i became a billionaire tomorrow i would stop giving a fuck about validation

Because you wouldn't have to, your wealth validates you already.

 

[Primalsplit]

ye true.

but that's not the only thing I wish to do. there's an entire world out there that I want to influence and gift my ideas to. I want to write and hopefully at least one person will read it.

but maybe that's just my dumb idea.

What do you want to write about? Why not write something here honestly.

 

[Deleted member 25193]

Validation comes after sex before if a woman was asked out she know she had to give the poosi now they don’t so I’d say it’s the opposite

 

[Deleted member 17872]

Most of those would go hand-in-hand with increased validation.
Your dating life is predicated on the appreciation people have for your appearance.
Your improved appearance and appreciation for it will make it all that more likely people will genuinely listen and respect what you have to say- giving you leverage in relationships. Socially or even business-wise.

Never said i don't care about validation at all. But after a certain point, i don't care much. Yes i would like to be a gigachad like Delon who gets treated like a king by women but i'm happy being a charismatic above average guy who has a decent ltr.

I would rather be some ugly Rothschild than Delon even though Delo gets way more validation than him.

Because you wouldn't have to, your wealth validates you already.

Yeah but i don't want wealth for validation. I want wealth for power and freedom.

I do value validation but it's not the most important think for me.

Knowing that I have power over someone, that someone thinks and fantasizes about me, someone who lusts over me and changes her actions to please me. That's worth more than the pleasure of fucking a Stacy.

I would rather fuck a stacy.

 

[RecessedChinCel]

I disagree with op reproduction is the end goal, you are a survival machine essentially, a vessel body building replicator

Validation is whatever, ultimately you only care about validiation from certain good genetics people

people with good genetics = good at building body and best chance for your offspring to succeed and continue your lineage

as a living organism you are a prisoner in your body and guided by your self preservation genes at all times


end goal is to reproduce and teach your offspring valuable information do's and dont's for them to succeed and survive and pass your genetic code to the next generation, in that way you will be immortal



This validation end goal post u made makes you look young, naive and narcy who wants to feed their ego



water is wet post to me but might be new for you

Yes scientifically we’re just throwaway survival machines meant to pass on their genes.

But as far as I’m concerned really why should you care whether you pass on your genes or not?

Would you rather be born infertile Chad who gets worshipped his entire life, endless validation, sex with beautiful women etc, or abused dog truecel who managed to pass on his genes through rape/surrogate mother? You would argue on an evolutionary level the Trucel was more successful but WHO HAD A BETTER LIFE? WHO ENJOYED LIFE MORE? IS IT WORTH CUCKING YOUR OWN QUALITY OF LIFE JUST TO PASS ON YOUR GENES?

Why shouldn’t you just maximize your own personal life satisfaction? In the grand scheme of things whether you pass on your genes or not is irrelevant. The human race will inevitably go extinct. You could then argue that there was no point to it at all.

Tbh I just want to fuck hot women, get validation for existing, make easy money in life (modeling etc).

 

[Deleted member 16474]

Yes scientifically we’re just throwaway survival machines meant to pass on their genes.

But as far as I’m concerned really why should you care whether you pass on your genes or not?

Would you rather be born infertile Chad who gets worshipped his entire life, endless validation, sex with beautiful women etc, or abused dog truecel who managed to pass on his genes through rape/surrogate mother? You would argue on an evolutionary level the Trucel was more successful but WHO HAD A BETTER LIFE? WHO ENJOYED LIFE MORE? IS IT WORTH CUCKING YOUR OWN QUALITY OF LIFE JUST TO PASS ON YOUR GENES?

Why shouldn’t you just maximize your own personal life satisfaction? In the grand scheme of things whether you pass on your genes or not is irrelevant. The human race will inevitably go extinct. You could then argue that there was no point to it at all.

Tbh I just want to fuck hot women, get validation for existing, make easy money in life (modeling etc).

have hope or you rope

 

[RecessedChinCel]

have hope or you rope

 

[Amexmaxx]

Literally just described the life of any mtb+

 

[XtrovertNTnormalfag]

I dream about being hunk all day all night.
My youth, my life is passing by and there is nothing I can do about it.

 

[GetShrekt]

LowT thread

 

[HighClassMaxing]

 

[HighClassMaxing]

narcymax org

 

[Gus17]

All that matters in life is having a fulfilling childhood that leaves nostalgic memories you can re capture from time to time

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[Mousei]

Just give yourself validation tf is this bullshit

 

[Deleted member 19036]

The gift of being good-looking is not ideal because you get sex. It's ideal because you get validation.

Cumming in/on/around a female body is not the point. The point is to inspire awe and admiration in desirable people just by existing. This is why prostitutes or "being settled for" should not be acceptable to you. If a person wants to experience an orgasm they can jack off in the corner whenever it pleases them. Anyone with an intact clit or dick can have that kind of pleasure.

Knowing that people value you above most others before you even speak. Knowing that people others desire, desire you instead. Knowing that you can be yourself, however strange, weak, or evil, truly and fully without consequence. Knowing that you live in the wildest fantasies of people you cannot even remember. Knowing that you are art in human form. That's true pleasure.

Knowing that I have power over someone, that someone thinks and fantasizes about me, someone who lusts over me and changes her actions to please me. That's worth more than the pleasure of fucking a Stacy.

I want to be adored by people, and you should too.

water
men get admired because of things they achieve
women get admited because of simply anything

 

[Lihito]

The gift of being good-looking is not ideal because you get sex. It's ideal because you get validation.

Cumming in/on/around a female body is not the point. The point is to inspire awe and admiration in desirable people just by existing. This is why prostitutes or "being settled for" should not be acceptable to you. If a person wants to experience an orgasm they can jack off in the corner whenever it pleases them. Anyone with an intact clit or dick can have that kind of pleasure.

Knowing that people value you above most others before you even speak. Knowing that people others desire, desire you instead. Knowing that you can be yourself, however strange, weak, or evil, truly and fully without consequence. Knowing that you live in the wildest fantasies of people you cannot even remember. Knowing that you are art in human form. That's true pleasure.

Knowing that I have power over someone, that someone thinks and fantasizes about me, someone who lusts over me and changes her actions to please me. That's worth more than the pleasure of fucking a Stacy.

I want to be adored by people, and you should too.

Water but good For greycels and bluepillers that want to use us For philosophy/sociology videos

 

[Lihito]

JFL at this feminine-ass attitude

This forum is a sociology goldmine

I can make a carier out of this

 

[WhoAmIReally]

Absolutely, also being desired by women and rejecting them feels godly.