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Went out with a couple of friends of mine today. Im at uni and we went to some society social event in a bar in town. The event was with the finance society so I didn't expect it to be very good. I was expecting it to be full of nerdy men but I went anyway with a couple of friends anyway because I'm just trying to do as much socialising as possible to improve my social skills.
We get there and there was about 50 people in the whole bar. There were maybe about 4 pretty good looking girls. I get drunk and go to the toilet. I come back and my closest friend was talking to one of the hot girls. She's giving me pretty strong signals that my friend picked up on so he left me and her together. I start talking to her, introduce myself etc. and after a minute she kinda the conversation just fades out and she leaves to see a friend. Possibly she was just put off by my drunkness. I'm just so bad at conversation and I feel like girls can just tell from your face whether your NT or not. When I'm drunk I'm far too socially anxious to talk to people and when I'm drunk girls are put off by it and don't want to interact. I cant seem to find a balance
Anyways, my friend who is a 5'6 HTN who is less facially attractive than me but very NT. He seems to get on with everyone and has no problem with girls. He isn't very outgoing but people gravitate towards him and he easily makes friends. He has a certain vibe to him that makes him super likeable. Honestly, if he was 6'+ he would be the biggest slayer I know.
Anyways, we get back from the bar and we are just smoking outside our student flat when this guy comes over who is a friend of both of us. We start talking to him about how his evening was etc. And then my close friend and him start making plans for tomorrow right in front of my face. They were planning on seeing each other and how they are both going to meet up with girls and smoke weed together. Bare in mind i'm standing right next to both of them and he is just making plans that completely exclude me, it made me feel awful. I felt like this guy was jealous that I'm friends with this guy and he's trying to exclude me because he doesn't want me to be friends with him.
I'm also starting to realise the importance of FWHR. My close friend has a wide face (FWHR of roughly 2) whilst I have a fairly narrow face (FWHR of 1.7). He's less attractive than me but slays more. I feel like the whole pretty boy appeal is a meme in real life. Girls will 9 times out of 10 pick the more masculine guy.
Anyways, i feel as if, if you are non NT you have to psl 5.5+ in order to have good success with women. Your personality is literally printed on your face and girls can tell just be looking at you what you are like.
We get there and there was about 50 people in the whole bar. There were maybe about 4 pretty good looking girls. I get drunk and go to the toilet. I come back and my closest friend was talking to one of the hot girls. She's giving me pretty strong signals that my friend picked up on so he left me and her together. I start talking to her, introduce myself etc. and after a minute she kinda the conversation just fades out and she leaves to see a friend. Possibly she was just put off by my drunkness. I'm just so bad at conversation and I feel like girls can just tell from your face whether your NT or not. When I'm drunk I'm far too socially anxious to talk to people and when I'm drunk girls are put off by it and don't want to interact. I cant seem to find a balance
Anyways, my friend who is a 5'6 HTN who is less facially attractive than me but very NT. He seems to get on with everyone and has no problem with girls. He isn't very outgoing but people gravitate towards him and he easily makes friends. He has a certain vibe to him that makes him super likeable. Honestly, if he was 6'+ he would be the biggest slayer I know.
Anyways, we get back from the bar and we are just smoking outside our student flat when this guy comes over who is a friend of both of us. We start talking to him about how his evening was etc. And then my close friend and him start making plans for tomorrow right in front of my face. They were planning on seeing each other and how they are both going to meet up with girls and smoke weed together. Bare in mind i'm standing right next to both of them and he is just making plans that completely exclude me, it made me feel awful. I felt like this guy was jealous that I'm friends with this guy and he's trying to exclude me because he doesn't want me to be friends with him.
I'm also starting to realise the importance of FWHR. My close friend has a wide face (FWHR of roughly 2) whilst I have a fairly narrow face (FWHR of 1.7). He's less attractive than me but slays more. I feel like the whole pretty boy appeal is a meme in real life. Girls will 9 times out of 10 pick the more masculine guy.
Anyways, i feel as if, if you are non NT you have to psl 5.5+ in order to have good success with women. Your personality is literally printed on your face and girls can tell just be looking at you what you are like.
