What are some geniune IOI (Indication Of Intrest)?

[iambarrett]

I have a lot of personal life experiences when now that I look back and think about it I feel I could have done a lot better if I actually knew how that girl felt towards or If I fumbled any girl that was into me, So I wanna know what do you guys think are some geniuine ioi's that women usually give, and don't spam the common internet normie bullshit that she plays with her hair or some other retarded shi

 

[Orka]

When they have sex with you

 

[202]

i notice that when a girl likes you usually she'll stare at you randomly and/or you'll lock eyes a lot even when you're across the room from each other. idk if good advice or not but this is one of the first things i notice about every girl i've dated

 

[iambarrett]

When they have sex with you

That comes after

 

[tunisianropemaxxer]

I have a lot of personal life experiences when now that I look back and think about it I feel I could have done a lot better if I actually knew how that girl felt towards or If I fumbled any girl that was into me, So I wanna know what do you guys think are some geniuine ioi's that women usually give, and don't spam the common internet normie bullshit that she plays with her hair or some other retarded shi

When they grope you

 

[Deleted member 228717]

maybe the only ones not cope they start touch you and stare at you but piv is probably the only ioi

 

[zharupodrugu]

Smile a lot
High inhib: cant look in the eyes, let u grope them silently
Low inhib: touchy, pervy, say something sex related, put ur hand on them

 

[Mythical Chadpreet]

If she touches your back, arms, legs frequently
for example you crack an unfunny joke or something and she pats your back saying how funny you are.
If she orders the same food as you. This means she trusts your choices and is comfortable with you and probably looks at you as a LTR option.
If she likes to know your opinion on different things. This may be because she hasn't formed her opinion or something or isn't sure about it so she wants your opinion so she can make it as her own.

Spoiler

Something I forgot to add if you are subhtn none of it matters as she may be too low inhib and behaves the same with everyone.

 

[clashroyaleking]

I have a lot of personal life experiences when now that I look back and think about it I feel I could have done a lot better if I actually knew how that girl felt towards or If I fumbled any girl that was into me, So I wanna know what do you guys think are some geniuine ioi's that women usually give, and don't spam the common internet normie bullshit that she plays with her hair or some other retarded shi

When they say ”i love you”

 

[King_Schnitzel]

When they say ”i love you”

Trust me, words don't mean anything anymore.

 

[HarmonyHunter]

i notice that when a girl likes you usually she'll stare at you randomly and/or you'll lock eyes a lot even when you're across the room from each other. idk if good advice or not but this is one of the first things i notice about every girl i've dated

Hmm but what if she stares at you a lot then you finally show interest by measaging her but she replys and you reply back then you get left on opened?
And she speaks to you often cause im in the same form group as her and we always speak on the way to next lesson

 

[202]

Hmm but what if she stares at you a lot then you finally show interest by measaging her but she replys and you reply back then you get left on opened?
And she speaks to you often cause im in the same form group as her and we always speak on the way to next lesson

niggas in a pickle

 

[llane9]

I have a lot of personal life experiences when now that I look back and think about it I feel I could have done a lot better if I actually knew how that girl felt towards or If I fumbled any girl that was into me, So I wanna know what do you guys think are some geniuine ioi's that women usually give, and don't spam the common internet normie bullshit that she plays with her hair or some other retarded shi

brutal ND pill

 

[HarmonyHunter]

niggas in a pickle

Ive sorta ruled her out and been talking to another girl recently

 

[gigacumster3000]

stfu noob, typical basic advice from a virgin beta. women don't give IOIs like some retarded pickup script. if she actually likes you, it's obvious as fuck - confident body language, initiating contact, talking to you instead of her friends, etc

 

[enchanted_elixir]

I have a lot of personal life experiences when now that I look back and think about it I feel I could have done a lot better if I actually knew how that girl felt towards or If I fumbled any girl that was into me, So I wanna know what do you guys think are some geniuine ioi's that women usually give, and don't spam the common internet normie bullshit that she plays with her hair or some other retarded shi

Repeated staring
Noticing she's putting herself closer to you (proximity)
Her giving you undue positive treatment (over a long period of time)
Nervousness + niceness
Inviting you to hang out with her
body and attention oriented towards you (non-coincidentally, especially when repeated over time)

just some i can think of on the top of my head

 

[appealisLAW]

When they have sex with you

still can't tell

 

[HarmonyHunter]

@BadLuck7892

still can't tell

never could tell

 

[appealisLAW]

Repeated staring
Noticing she's putting herself closer to you (proximity)
Her giving you undue positive treatment (over a long period of time)
Nervousness + niceness
Inviting you to hang out with her

just some i can think of on the top of my head

give this man a solution, the only thing he forgot to add is her body always pointing your way and her always sitting next to you whenever in groups.

 

[enchanted_elixir]

give this man a solution, the only thing he forgot to add is her body always pointing your way and her always sitting next to you whenever in groups.

I'll add that, that's a great one. Thank you.

 

[enchanted_elixir]

give this man a solution, the only thing he forgot to add is her body always pointing your way and her always sitting next to you whenever in groups.

This isn't the looksmaxing solution section btw so I can't get a solution for it...

 

[appealisLAW]

This isn't the looksmaxing solution section btw so I can't get a solution for it...

didn't notice

 

[HarmonyHunter]

Repeated staring
Noticing she's putting herself closer to you (proximity)
Her giving you undue positive treatment (over a long period of time)
Nervousness + niceness
Inviting you to hang out with her
body and attention oriented towards you (non-coincidentally, especially when repeated over time)

just some i can think of on the top of my head

all your observations?

 

[enchanted_elixir]

all your observations?

There are more but most of them fall under these broad classes of IOIs
Tagging those i can think will benefit because this is the framework I use personally, thought it through and i think it's pretty good.

@chadisbeingmade @SlayerJonas @Alexanderr @registerfasterusing @Jason Voorhees @iblamexyz @Mogsgymmaxx @frayed @Arzenic @imontheloose @Daddy's Home

Because I have a crush on you (state) -> I want you to be mine (goal)

Thus,

I Want To… (incentive)​

1. Be around you — Propuinquity Seeking
2. Be alone with you — Isolation Opportunity Creation
3. Stare at you — Visual Attention
4. Make you like me — Favorability Building
5. Know if you like me back — Reciprocity Testing
6. Learn about you — Information Gathering

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Especially When… (catalysts)​

• Natural opportunities arise — group projects, shared spaces, mutual friends
• Competition is present — other women show interest
• I perceive reciprocal interest — positive signals from you
• Context allows plausible deniability — actions can appear non-romantic
• We’re already nearby — proximity costs are low
• You’re not looking at me — safer to observe
• I can display my strengths — builds favorability
• Groups thin out naturally — chance for isolation
• Mutual friends provide intel — indirect information flow
• Signals are ambiguous — safe to test reciprocity

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While Minimizing… (constraints)​

• Social risk — rejection, embarrassment, reputation damage
• Effort and opportunity costs — time, energy, competing priorities
• Obvious following behavior — avoid looking desperate
• Awkward staring — prevent detection
• Invasiveness — avoid seeming stalkerish
• Overcompensation — avoid trying too hard or appearing inauthentic
• Definitive rejection — maintain ambiguity buffer
• Over-aggression — avoid violating social norms
• Self-esteem loss — protect emotional integrity
• Exposure without deniability — maintain narrative safety

 

[BadLuck7892]

@BadLuck7892

never could tell

If I could read/successfully act on IOIs, I wouldn't be on here at 34