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Something in your childhood that still follows you to this day? Something that couldve been avoided easily?

i looked at my life and used to think that i regret many things, but in reality only some had big impact.

1) Not starting a sport in my childhood. This was the root cause of my social anxiety and lonely youth. Everyone were telling me i have excellent proportions to become an athlete, but instead computer found me at a very young age and i chose it, i stopped going out playing with friends outside. And im really mad that my parents didnt push me away from the PC. Only reason i chose video games over going outside was due to comfort. All my friends were older than me, so naturally them growing faster made them stronger and able to beat me, that instead of competition turned me into a coward, refusing to participate in team games. And well due to that i didnt train my coordination at all, i became really clumsy and all, digging the anxiety and avoidance hole even deeper.

Almost all the mfs who participated in team sports since young age have developed good social skills and had a really good life during their teenage years.

2) Drug addiction. Couldve been easily avoided, i got into it out of boredom and to get attention, because i thought it is cool. Instead i lost lots of time, lots of progress, made connections with many wrong people, ruined my both physical and mental health. Im not even mentioning the money.

I keep regretting this and have been combating that for the past few months. Sadly, i keep relapsing. But i have a plan, to get out of this hole, and im almost sure that will work.

Realised im an addict when i switched from doing drugs only when going out to just doing them alone at home, on a sunday night, because i felt bored.
 
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Something in your childhood that still follows you to this day? Something that couldve been avoided easily?

i looked at my life and used to think that i regret many things, but in reality only some had big impact.

1) Not starting a sport in my childhood. This was the root cause of my social anxiety and lonely youth. Everyone were telling me i have excellent proportions to become an athlete, but instead computer found me at a very young age and i chose it, i stopped going out playing with friends outside. And im really mad that my parents didnt push me away from the PC. Only reason i chose video games over going outside was due to comfort. All my friends were older than me, so naturally them growing faster made them stronger and able to beat me, that instead of competition turned me into a coward, refusing to participate in team games. And well due to that i didnt train my coordination at all, i became really clumsy and all, digging the anxiety and avoidance hole even deeper.

Almost all the mfs who participated in team sports since young age have developed good social skills and had a really good life during their teenage years.

2) Drug addiction. Couldve been easily avoided, i got into it out of boredom and to get attention, because i thought it is cool. Instead i lost lots of time, lots of progress, made connections with many wrong people, ruined my both physical and mental health. Im not even mentioning the money.

I keep regretting this and have been combating that for the past few months. Sadly, i keep relapsing. But i have a plan, to get out of this hole, and im almost sure that will work.

Realised im an addict when i switched from doing drugs only when going out to just doing them alone at home, on a sunday night, because i felt bored.
Im 17 rn, so I haven't done any mistake bad enough which cannot be fixed. Only regret is not being good looking.:guraWave:
 
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bruh i thought ill get people discussing atleast about the drug addiction regret

afaik, many looksmaxxers at one point do fall into drug addiction phase.
 
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Not taking test during hs and not approaching more foids in hs and even now lol
 
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I obvs would have a lot more but who doesn’t, it’s the game of life, we just gotta learn and move on
 
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Do you still do drugs? Have you ever been caught for doing drugs?
yup, although i really stopped the complete abuse of them, things are much better.

during the worst period of addiction, i was using strong stims, that are really unhealthy and considered extreme even. there was once a month where i legit was sober for only 3 days. i moved to a less bad alternative if you can say so, i mean it still does damage but much less - coke. if comparing with drugs ive been using before, it mogs them in every way. maybe less strong, but less harsh on body, less brain damage and a good thing is that its more expensive, so it kinda becomes sort of an obstacle when trying to abuse it.

ive been caught yes, by my own parents. didnt really hide that from my close friends who were/been drug addicts or non-addicted users. but a great wake up call was getting told by ex addicts that i am really looking bad and that i should start changing myself. but my parents were really i dont even know how to describe, they were really really disappointed at me, my mother started crying when she confronted me about my use. and for the first time they threatened on kicking me out if i keep doing drugs everyday. good thing is that both of these events - getting shamed by friends and caught by parents, happened at the same time.
 
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Something in your childhood that still follows you to this day? Something that couldve been avoided easily?

i looked at my life and used to think that i regret many things, but in reality only some had big impact.

1) Not starting a sport in my childhood. This was the root cause of my social anxiety and lonely youth. Everyone were telling me i have excellent proportions to become an athlete, but instead computer found me at a very young age and i chose it, i stopped going out playing with friends outside. And im really mad that my parents didnt push me away from the PC. Only reason i chose video games over going outside was due to comfort. All my friends were older than me, so naturally them growing faster made them stronger and able to beat me, that instead of competition turned me into a coward, refusing to participate in team games. And well due to that i didnt train my coordination at all, i became really clumsy and all, digging the anxiety and avoidance hole even deeper.

Almost all the mfs who participated in team sports since young age have developed good social skills and had a really good life during their teenage years.

2) Drug addiction. Couldve been easily avoided, i got into it out of boredom and to get attention, because i thought it is cool. Instead i lost lots of time, lots of progress, made connections with many wrong people, ruined my both physical and mental health. Im not even mentioning the money.

I keep regretting this and have been combating that for the past few months. Sadly, i keep relapsing. But i have a plan, to get out of this hole, and im almost sure that will work.

Realised im an addict when i switched from doing drugs only when going out to just doing them alone at home, on a sunday night, because i felt bored.
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I obvs would have a lot more but who doesn’t, it’s the game of life, we just gotta learn and move on
yup the thing you mentioned regretting, i thought about it also, but realised its not that big of a deal. most people only have few real regrets in their lives.
 

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