What can I do to lose my virginity? M/22

[Thadi]

I kind of accepted that I won't get girls the normal way. In my whole life I've only had dates with two women, both were unattractive and I didn't go further, also because of my fears of intimacy, humiliation and general body dysmorphia. I also struggle with social anxiety, so my life is doomed to loneliness and sexual starvation. Which I have accepted.
So now being in the acceptance phase, I've been looking for women who do Escort services as a hobby for money. I've had one who lives 10 minutes away text me, she was nice and asked for a picture. I sent her one and I got ghosted.
I can understand being ghosted on dating sites, but come one. By a fat prostitute who I would pay a lot of money just for licking her pussy? Fucking wasn't even in the question. I'm pretty down right now.

I'll send you pictures and you can tell me how to increase my chances of losing my virginity. That's all I'm asking for rn.

 

[bigjuicy]

pretty easy honestly, long as u dont look subhuman like me

 

[Hipcel]

Pay hookers

 

[Deleted member 16371]

Are you by any chance Dravidian ?

 

[Deleted member 16346]

if you have social anxiety you wont be able to move onto having sex yet imo, I suggest therapy to get over your fear of intimacy ten either lose your virginity to an ugly girl or a prostitute

 

[Thadi]

Pay hookers

I would have paid her 150 euros for licking her pussy. But guess I was too off putting so she ghosted me.

 

[Thadi]

if you have social anxiety you wont be able to move onto having sex yet imo, I suggest therapy to get over your fear of intimacy ten either lose your virginity to an ugly girl or a prostitute

But what's the chance of a prostitute in a sex house to reject me when hobby prostitutes always reject me or ghost me after I send a photo?

 

[Deleted member 16346]

But what's the chance of a prostitute in a sex house to reject me when hobby prostitutes always reject me or ghost me after I send a photo?

dm me a pic if you want, im a good rater and I dont leak. I could maybe give u some advice on improving your looks or your demeanor in pics

 

[jfcage]

How tf do you get ghosted by an escort? Also who the hell would want to see a hooker just to lick her pussy that was fucked by 5 different guys that day already. Sounds like you are LARPing

 

[Deleted member 2729]

No pics no care

 

[Thadi]

How tf do you get ghosted by an escort? Also who the hell would want to see a hooker just to lick her pussy that was fucked by 5 different guys that day already. Sounds like you are LARPing

She's a hobby prostitute. I don't think she fucks that many guys especially when she ghosts guys.

 

[EverythingMattersCel]

I kind of accepted that I won't get girls the normal way. In my whole life I've only had dates with two women, both were unattractive and I didn't go further, also because of my fears of intimacy, humiliation and general body dysmorphia. I also struggle with social anxiety, so my life is doomed to loneliness and sexual starvation. Which I have accepted.
So now being in the acceptance phase, I've been looking for women who do Escort services as a hobby for money. I've had one who lives 10 minutes away text me, she was nice and asked for a picture. I sent her one and I got ghosted.
I can understand being ghosted on dating sites, but come one. By a fat prostitute who I would pay a lot of money just for licking her pussy? Fucking wasn't even in the question. I'm pretty down right now.

I'll send you pictures and you can tell me how to increase my chances of losing my virginity. That's all I'm asking for rn.

Escorts have standards now. You need to be at least normie tier for a lot of escorts. It's because the demand is so high, and there's only so much time in the day to be a human fleshlight.

A lot of hookers could make a 4 figure monthly income from OnlyFans. They can afford to be picky with their clients nowadays.

 

[fauxfox]

Completely depends on what you look like. Post pic or describe yourself

 

[qwertz]

Escorts have standards now. You need to be at least normie tier for a lot of escorts. It's because the demand is so high, and there's only so much time in the day to be a human fleshlight.

A lot of hookers could make a 4 figure monthly income from OnlyFans. They can afford to be picky with their clients nowadays.

and if you're black don't bother. escorts reject blacks no matter what they look like

 

[Momolooksmax]

and if you're black don't bother. escorts reject blacks no matter what they look like

or if you have a big dick. i got rejected because of my dick

 

[qwertz]

or if you have a big dick. i got rejected because of my dick

yeah, most girls don't like big dicks.

 

[exeight]

Blackpill What can I do to lose my virginity? M/22​

you can have sex with a woman

 

[Deleted member 2729]

or if you have a big dick. i got rejected because of my dick

how big

 

[0kami123]

Are you short?

 

[Deleted member 1901]

Trannymaxxing

 

[Sigmamale]

pm

 

[Deleted member 19301]

Pm pics

 

[Deprived]

You can prolly get a slay on tinder if you swipe yes in everything and wait for a couple of weeks

 

[Momolooksmax]

how big

6,8x6

 

[jfcage]

6,8x6

Escorts don't get aroused during sex with their clients, so a big dick would hurt them in that case. They don't want to see clients with large cocks, even though they might prefer above average size in their private life.

 

[Johnnybegood]

I kind of accepted that I won't get girls the normal way. In my whole life I've only had dates with two women, both were unattractive and I didn't go further, also because of my fears of intimacy, humiliation and general body dysmorphia. I also struggle with social anxiety, so my life is doomed to loneliness and sexual starvation. Which I have accepted.
So now being in the acceptance phase, I've been looking for women who do Escort services as a hobby for money. I've had one who lives 10 minutes away text me, she was nice and asked for a picture. I sent her one and I got ghosted.
I can understand being ghosted on dating sites, but come one. By a fat prostitute who I would pay a lot of money just for licking her pussy? Fucking wasn't even in the question. I'm pretty down right now.

I'll send you pictures and you can tell me how to increase my chances of losing my virginity. That's all I'm asking for rn.

Send pictures. Full privacy bro, i'll tell you the truth.

 

[Gandy]

Escorts don't get aroused during sex with their clients, so a big dick would hurt them in that case. They don't want to see clients with large cocks, even though they might prefer above average size in their private life.

They have standards in 2022. It is completely expectable for hookers to reject ugly guys in this day and age or even pre-screen clients for their appearance so they don't get traumatized by fucking really ugly guys.

 

[coolguy1]

if you have social anxiety you wont be able to move onto having sex yet imo, I suggest therapy to get over your fear of intimacy ten either lose your virginity to an ugly girl or a prostitute

DOnt listen to this guy. Just drink alcohol before going on dates.

 

[jfcage]

They have standards in 2022. It is completely expectable for hookers to reject ugly guys in this day and age or even pre-screen clients for their appearance so they don't get traumatized by fucking really ugly guys.

I know. Escorts do that even in my EE country. Except they don't ask for photos before the meetup, because photos can be fake or frauded. They just look at the client through their window when he arrives, and if he looks repulsive they don't give him the gate code and their room number. But they mostly reject old fat men and ethnics. One has to be very ugly as a young white dude to get even rejected by escorts. That is "it's over" tier

 

[Koroshiya]

if you have social anxiety you wont be able to move onto having sex yet imo, I suggest therapy to get over your fear of intimacy ten either lose your virginity to an ugly girl or a prostitute

i also have social anxiety but therapy will do absolutely nothing, there is no fear of intimacy.

the only way to get over social anxiety is:
1. drugs
2. near death/life changing experience
3. fixing a major unbalance in your body (if social anxiety stems from this)
4. exposure

even then, once you're "over it" you'll still have issues with doing so many things for the first time and not understanding social conventions, which can make you even more scared regardless of social anxiety.

it's a rough cycle and even the smallest things can completely disregard weeks or months of work.

 

[Deleted member 16346]

i also have social anxiety but therapy will do absolutely nothing, there is no fear of intimacy.

the only way to get over social anxiety is:
1. drugs
2. near death/life changing experience
3. fixing a major unbalance in your body (if social anxiety stems from this)
4. exposure

even then, once you're "over it" you'll still have issues with doing so many things for the first time and not understanding social conventions, which can make you even more scared regardless of social anxiety.

it's a rough cycle and even the smallest things can completely disregard weeks or months of work.

Yeah ill take your word for it, i dont have it im just basing my advice over stuff iveheard from ppl who do

 

[germanlooks]

fat prostitute who I would pay a lot of money just for licking her pussy

 

[Gerardwayfan]

I kind of accepted that I won't get girls the normal way. In my whole life I've only had dates with two women, both were unattractive and I didn't go further, also because of my fears of intimacy, humiliation and general body dysmorphia. I also struggle with social anxiety, so my life is doomed to loneliness and sexual starvation. Which I have accepted.
So now being in the acceptance phase, I've been looking for women who do Escort services as a hobby for money. I've had one who lives 10 minutes away text me, she was nice and asked for a picture. I sent her one and I got ghosted.
I can understand being ghosted on dating sites, but come one. By a fat prostitute who I would pay a lot of money just for licking her pussy? Fucking wasn't even in the question. I'm pretty down right now.

I'll send you pictures and you can tell me how to increase my chances of losing my virginity. That's all I'm asking foin

in 2022 even fat whores have become picky, cause hordes of sub5 lust for them and are willing to pay a lot. the whoremaxxer on youtube explains this phenomenom quite well, which i was completely unaware. send me pic if u want to

 

[disillusioned]

Virgin at 22 in 2022 = Permavirgin unless you pay hookers.

 

[Thadi]

Virgin at 22 in 2022 = Permavirgin unless you pay hookers.

No shit, Sherlock

 

[AlexBrown84]

Post what you look like lol

 

[Cidre enjoyer]

Escorts have standards now. You need to be at least normie tier for a lot of escorts. It's because the demand is so high, and there's only so much time in the day to be a human fleshlight.

A lot of hookers could make a 4 figure monthly income from OnlyFans. They can afford to be picky with their clients nowadays.

only a poorcel problem
if an escort rejects you and you have money you ask her to give her more until she says yes
everyone has a price
a 1PSL guy could get laid if he gave 10k to the escort
but of course most people don't have this kind of money

 

[Doesn'tNeedSurgery]

I kind of accepted that I won't get girls the normal way. In my whole life I've only had dates with two women, both were unattractive and I didn't go further, also because of my fears of intimacy, humiliation and general body dysmorphia. I also struggle with social anxiety, so my life is doomed to loneliness and sexual starvation. Which I have accepted.
So now being in the acceptance phase, I've been looking for women who do Escort services as a hobby for money. I've had one who lives 10 minutes away text me, she was nice and asked for a picture. I sent her one and I got ghosted.
I can understand being ghosted on dating sites, but come one. By a fat prostitute who I would pay a lot of money just for licking her pussy? Fucking wasn't even in the question. I'm pretty down right now.

I'll send you pictures and you can tell me how to increase my chances of losing my virginity. That's all I'm asking for rn.

dm face

 

[NFA PB]

Any massage parlor near you with Asians in it?
Go and ask for any "extra services". Most likely they fronting for prostitution. Use a rubber, don't jerk off for at least 1 week. Don't kiss, go down on them and only suck their titties if they don't have any wounds or something.

 

[Asocial]

In which country do you live? Are you white or ethnic? Have you a true deformity or you are just ugly?

 

[Thadi]

In which country do you live? Are you white or ethnic? Have you a true deformity or you are just ugly?

Germany. White. No deformity and not even ridiculously ugly

 

[Asocial]

Germany. White. No deformity and not even ridiculously ugly

Germany is literally the European center of prostitution. You are the luckiest incel in this forum, really: just imagine if you lived in France with its terrible laws, or even Italy. Don't go to "semi-profs": often they are just scammers or stupid foids who don't want to admit that they are bitches. Instead go to an FKK (if you are ashamed, you can keep a towel on you, of course) or a brothel, and choose the girl you prefer. You will be in front of her, if ever she will refuse you (quite impossibile) she will have not only to have the guts to do it in person, but also she may have problems with the management. If you live close to Switzerland, go to Zürich, it is even better then Germany, but, again, in your country you have plenty of options.
Before going to a prostitute, maybe you should read some forums about bitches in Germany, I am sure there are some of them, so that you will be prepared about this world.

Anyway, I guess yours is more a psychological rather than physical problem. But the mere fact that you have chosen to go to prostitutes is a good point, because it's a difficult first decision (especially for a virgin; but take into account that whole generations of European men lost their virginity to prostitutes) and, once you wil have been with several bitches, you will understand to be more calm and to approach fiods in a better and more confident way. Of course, nobody (included male friends, unless they go to brothels with you and are super-trusted) should know about your hobby.

Good luck and good fuck!

 

[Thadi]

Germany is literally the European center of prostitution. You are the luckiest incel in this forum, really: just imagine if you lived in France with its terrible laws, or even Italy. Don't go to "semi-profs": often they are just scammers or stupid foids who don't want to admit that they are bitches. Instead go to an FKK (if you are ashamed, you can keep a towel on you, of course) or a brothel, and choose the girl you prefer. You will be in front of her, if ever she will refuse you (quite impossibile) she will have not only to have the guts to do it in person, but also she may have problems with the management. If you live close to Switzerland, go to Zürich, it is even better then Germany, but, again, in your country you have plenty of options.
Before going to a prostitute, maybe you should read some forums about bitches in Germany, I am sure there are some of them, so that you will be prepared about this world.

Anyway, I guess yours is more a psychological rather than physical problem. But the mere fact that you have chosen to go to prostitutes is a good point, because it's a difficult first decision (especially for a virgin; but take into account that whole generations of European men lost their virginity to prostitutes) and, once you wil have been with several bitches, you will understand to be more calm and to approach fiods in a better and more confident way. Of course, nobody (included male friends, unless they go to brothels with you and are super-trusted) should know about your hobby.

Good luck and good fuck!

Thanks man. That's my goal.. to fuck prostitutes and eventually be more calm around women in general. I'll try to do it this summer

 

[Asocial]

Thanks man. That's my goal.. to fuck prostitutes and eventually be more calm around women in general. I'll try to do it this summer

If sex - alone - is not your main goal, you might try also to go to night clubs (as we call them in Italy: I am not talking about discos, but about those clubs with entreneuses) or even to pole dance clubs. You pay a drink to a girl and she must chat with you for some minutes (usually 10-15 minutes). The cost is lower than with prostitutes (around 1 Euro per minute, drink included), but of course you cannot have sex. The usual goal is to take them out of the club and fuck them in a hotel, but it is needlessly expensive (prostitutes are way cheaper). Instead you may try a different approach: use them as a gym to improve your social skills with women (if foreign, maybe you can also improve your English or other languages), always remembering that you must not fall in love (or even feel any genuine sympathy) with them, even if they tell you the saddest stories about their life and family (but if they do this, change woman: you are there to enjoy yourself and you are paying). Just learn how to chat with a stacy without feeling shy. It is easy: follow the "stream of consciousness" (quoting Joyce) and jump from one topic to the next one, according to where the chat is going. If you cannot stand the sight of her eyes, point your stare to the space between them (she won't notice it). You will become calmer and more confident within a few nights spent in this way. Remember never to become their friend, never to meet them outside the club, never give them your number (or buy a second phone, specifically for bitches, i.e. the bitchphone), nor tell them your true name or important details of your life. It's better to keep in mind a parallel life, nearly identical to yours, but with a few relevant details modified (i.e.: maybe you study Engineering? Tell her you study Physics or Architecture. Your name is Mark? Tell her your name is Matthew, etc.). And, if possible, change clubs without going always to the same, so you won't get too close to a specific foid.

 

[Thadi]

If sex - alone - is not your main goal, you might try also to go to night clubs (as we call them in Italy: I am not talking about discos, but about those clubs with entreneuses) or even to pole dance clubs. You pay a drink to a girl and she must chat with you for some minutes (usually 10-15 minutes). The cost is lower than with prostitutes (around 1 Euro per minute, drink included), but of course you cannot have sex. The usual goal is to take them out of the club and fuck them in a hotel, but it is needlessly expensive (prostitutes are way cheaper). Instead you may try a different approach: use them as a gym to improve your social skills with women (if foreign, maybe you can also improve your English or other languages), always remembering that you must not fall in love (or even feel any genuine sympathy) with them, even if they tell you the saddest stories about their life and family (but if they do this, change woman: you are there to enjoy yourself and you are paying). Just learn how to chat with a stacy without feeling shy. It is easy: follow the "stream of consciousness" (quoting Joyce) and jump from one topic to the next one, according to where the chat is going. If you cannot stand the sight of her eyes, point your stare to the space between them (she won't notice it). You will become calmer and more confident within a few nights spent in this way. Remember never to become their friend, never to meet them outside the club, never give them your number (or buy a second phone, specifically for bitches, i.e. the bitchphone), nor tell them your true name or important details of your life. It's better to keep in mind a parallel life, nearly identical to yours, but with a few relevant details modified (i.e.: maybe you study Engineering? Tell her you study Physics or Architecture. Your name is Mark? Tell her your name is Matthew, etc.). And, if possible, change clubs without going always to the same, so you won't get too close to a specific foid.

I just need drugs. I have a problem with blushing and bad teeth, so I never smile or talk openly. Once I have this fixed, I'll probably be more open and normal with girls. For now it's all about losing the fear of intimacy, so I'm going to jump into the cold water by going to a prostitute. Hope the investment will be worth it. I wanted to go 3 years ago lol. Time passes so fast.

 

[Orbeck of Vinheim]

I kind of accepted that I won't get girls the normal way. In my whole life I've only had dates with two women, both were unattractive and I didn't go further, also because of my fears of intimacy, humiliation and general body dysmorphia. I also struggle with social anxiety, so my life is doomed to loneliness and sexual starvation. Which I have accepted.
So now being in the acceptance phase, I've been looking for women who do Escort services as a hobby for money. I've had one who lives 10 minutes away text me, she was nice and asked for a picture. I sent her one and I got ghosted.
I can understand being ghosted on dating sites, but come one. By a fat prostitute who I would pay a lot of money just for licking her pussy? Fucking wasn't even in the question. I'm pretty down right now.

I'll send you pictures and you can tell me how to increase my chances of losing my virginity. That's all I'm asking for rn.

IMO: If you're gonna find an escort, find a hot one, as rare as they may be. Fat bitches are too easy to fuck for free.

 

[Tenshi]

Don't take it too personally bro, it happens. In my journey to lose my virginity many bad things happened as well which made me doubt my own worth, it's a tough mission for sure.

First things first, you'll have to deal with your social anxiety. Idk how serious it is, whether it will require medical treatment or basic exposition, you'll need to find out and fix it.

Eventually, you'll have to put yourself out there and actually try to get a girl. When it comes to girls, only two things are required: 1) be decent looking and 2) talk to them.

Idk how you look like, don't think you need to be a giga chad to get laid. That's not true. If you're good looking you'll get laid easier and with better looking girls though.

So looksmaxxing is necessary, but you might be enough as you are rn, so you can put in the work needed.

two methods here: cold approach and online dating. In my experience, cold approach gives you more and better results on a short term, but it's also hard af, especially for someone with anxiety.

Online dating is "easier", but you'll have to jump more hoops to get there, and possibly lower your standards for a while.

I'd recommend that for now, you stick with online dating. Take some real nice pictures, professionally if possible, buy tinder gold and some boosts. You'll get at least a few matches.

Invite those girls to go out, asap, a few should agree, a few may flake on you, one eventually will meet up. Once you meet her, make a move, kiss her and eventually invite her to come back with you to your place. Asap (if not on the first date, it's fine, just keep going out with her on dates until she agrees). If she's not interested, square one, keep trying to find that girl who's available (I call it the "n+ girl"). Once she agrees to go home with you, you know what to do.

Just keep in mind that this is a numbers game. You don't need to be chad, you don't need to be NT, you don't need game. All these things matter and can help you, but they're not mandatory. Just look decent+talk to girls

 

[Mouthbreath]

R*pe max if you're high T. One of the most life affirming actions you can take

 

[Max Frauder]

2nd priority get any dental repairs done & braces fitted. Implants or a bridge fitted if you're missing any teeth. Being able to proudly flash a huge shit eating grin will give you a big confidence boost.

1st priority obviously stop fapping. #nofapforlife

If you really have to, go into the city and strut past the local immigrant street walkers. Those who aren't junkie skanks will be surprisingly clean. If they offer business, you're in business .

 

[Thadi]

Don't take it too personally bro, it happens. In my journey to lose my virginity many bad things happened as well which made me doubt my own worth, it's a tough mission for sure.

First things first, you'll have to deal with your social anxiety. Idk how serious it is, whether it will require medical treatment or basic exposition, you'll need to find out and fix it.

Eventually, you'll have to put yourself out there and actually try to get a girl. When it comes to girls, only two things are required: 1) be decent looking and 2) talk to them.

Idk how you look like, don't think you need to be a giga chad to get laid. That's not true. If you're good looking you'll get laid easier and with better looking girls though.

So looksmaxxing is necessary, but you might be enough as you are rn, so you can put in the work needed.

two methods here: cold approach and online dating. In my experience, cold approach gives you more and better results on a short term, but it's also hard af, especially for someone with anxiety.

Online dating is "easier", but you'll have to jump more hoops to get there, and possibly lower your standards for a while.

I'd recommend that for now, you stick with online dating. Take some real nice pictures, professionally if possible, buy tinder gold and some boosts. You'll get at least a few matches.

Invite those girls to go out, asap, a few should agree, a few may flake on you, one eventually will meet up. Once you meet her, make a move, kiss her and eventually invite her to come back with you to your place. Asap (if not on the first date, it's fine, just keep going out with her on dates until she agrees). If she's not interested, square one, keep trying to find that girl who's available (I call it the "n+ girl"). Once she agrees to go home with you, you know what to do.

Just keep in mind that this is a numbers game. You don't need to be chad, you don't need to be NT, you don't need game. All these things matter and can help you, but they're not mandatory. Just look decent+talk to girls

Thanks for the response. I think my anxiety is my biggest issue. I always turn red and sometimes even without a reason, which makes even the simple "The weather is nice" talk awkward.
I'm not good looking either, with a face that looks quite grotesque, but not disgustingly ugly, but I don't think that's the reason I am virgin.
Back in school I felt like some girls were into me and 3 of them asked me out to go on dates, but I rejected them because I was in complete fear.

2nd priority get any dental repairs done & braces fitted. Implants or a bridge fitted if you're missing any teeth. Being able to proudly flash a huge shit eating grin will give you a big confidence boost.

1st priority obviously stop fapping. #nofapforlife

If you really have to, go into the city and strut past the local immigrant street walkers. Those who aren't junkie skanks will be surprisingly clean. If they offer business, you're in business .

I've had braces for over 4 years, had a facepuller and some maxillary expansion. The thing is, they just look a little less shitty now. I'll get my braces off this year. The shape of my teeth is shitty. They look like some parts were broken off. I need to get them shaped, if that's even possible?? But I think it is. After that I'll get teeth whitening. This will help so much. I've had yellow teeth my whole life despite brushig a lot.