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Conquer your fear and you will conquer death
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Do you acknowledge your thoughts and go deeper into them or do you try to push them away and ignore them?
Is it better to validate these feelings or invalidate them? Because when I do validate them by acknowledging them, I can’t stop myself from dwelling on them and suddenly Im staying in bed all day and crying in between sleep. But when I try to avoid validating them by drowning myself in distractions, they just fester and become stronger and more bitter and my heart slowly Rots in the background of my life until things boil over.
Is it better to validate these feelings or invalidate them? Because when I do validate them by acknowledging them, I can’t stop myself from dwelling on them and suddenly Im staying in bed all day and crying in between sleep. But when I try to avoid validating them by drowning myself in distractions, they just fester and become stronger and more bitter and my heart slowly Rots in the background of my life until things boil over.