What do you guys think about gradually building up emotional connection/sexual tension

[Deleted member 7192]

Is this thread by @Effortless legit? Something about doing what he says feels so good for the soul. Reminds me of when I was a kid and shit was just more natural and innocent when it came to girls

TL; DR he says
Light play full flirting > kissing > hugging > cuddling > foreplay > sex

Over vice versa because
"For women to think or care one bit about you need to build up, emotional connection is a thing and it makes sex and general interactions feel so much more natural and fun."

https://looksmax.org/threads/responding-to-amnesia.267134/

 

[Slayer]

 

[Deleted member 7192]

I wanna slay bitches but every once in a while I'm just trynna vibe with a bitch

Simp at heart I guess

 

[fukmylyf]

that's how it's supposed to be, but girls are fast these days.

 

[Deleted member 4562]

This is how all human interactions work and are the most meaningful, the problem is

1. Not everyone is in the mood for meaning, some people just want a quick fuck, like you said here:

I wanna slay bitches but every once in a while I'm just trynna vibe with a bitch

You can cope and say its because women are degenerate or muh jews or whatever, but the fact is 99% of you want a quick fuck on tinder as well. You can't rely on this exclusively, or rather you can't really force it, these things happen spontaneously typically.

2. Analyzing it is this way could make it more difficult for you to actually act it out in real life, when you start hyper-analyzing things you can get caught up in a picture-perfect description which reality doesn't always match, and you start to lose out on actually being in the moment because you are too stuck in your own head.

 

[Gonthar]

Yeah, you don't go directly for sex, like pulling immediately your dick out when you're with a girl, I did this once and it didn't go too good, you start gradually

 

[Deleted member 4887]

Too fucking complicated