What do you think marriage dynamics like this?

[Jason Voorhees]

Title. I know a couple that got married a few years back. The wife is decent looking but from a lower middle class family and comes from a background where marriage is seen as a lifelong commitment from the outside, their marriage looks stable. The husband genuinely loves her and he's caring in many ways, provides for her, and treats her well in public.

But behind closed doors it is very one sided. He is very dominating egoistic person doesn't allow her to speak up or disagree freely. He is also apparently a sex addict and demands sex from her every single day regardless of whether she's in the mood, tired, or whatever.

In the beginning she went along with this dominant dynamic and didn't mind it much. But over time it started to wear her down When they disagree, he doesn't raise his hand or yell but completely shuts her out ignores her for days and treats her like a stranger in her own home Lately she's been hiding in the bathroom when he comes home from work because she dreads the pressure and emotional distance.

She's confided in one of my mum's kitty parties she is starting to hate this marriage but still cares for him on some level.

 

[Jason Voorhees]

@Chadeep

 

[Jason Voorhees]

@Swarthy Knight

 

[Stalker]

i have yet to see ONE good marriage

 

[PeaceAndLove4ever]

unhealthy unless hes chad

 

[small_solomon]

i have yet to see ONE good marriage

Marry me and I’ll show you a good one

 

[ProBono]

everyone has a bit of control freak or bitch in them, this isn't just marriage dynamics it's everything

 

[small_solomon]

Title. I know a couple that got married a few years back. The wife is decent looking but from a lower middle class family and comes from a background where marriage is seen as a lifelong commitment from the outside, their marriage looks stable. The husband genuinely loves her and he's caring in many ways, provides for her, and treats her well in public.

But behind closed doors it is very one sided. He is very dominating egoistic person doesn't allow her to speak up or disagree freely. He is also apparently a sex addict and demands sex from her every single day regardless of whether she's in the mood, tired, or whatever.

In the beginning she went along with this dominant dynamic and didn't mind it much. But over time it started to wear her down When they disagree, he doesn't raise his hand or yell but completely shuts her out ignores her for days and treats her like a stranger in her own home Lately she's been hiding in the bathroom when he comes home from work because she dreads the pressure and emotional distance.

She's confided in one of my mum's kitty parties she is starting to hate this marriage but still cares for him on some level.

This is how most marriages used to be like before women entered the work force

 

[Nodal]

Title. I know a couple that got married a few years back. The wife is decent looking but from a lower middle class family and comes from a background where marriage is seen as a lifelong commitment from the outside, their marriage looks stable. The husband genuinely loves her and he's caring in many ways, provides for her, and treats her well in public.

But behind closed doors it is very one sided. He is very dominating egoistic person doesn't allow her to speak up or disagree freely. He is also apparently a sex addict and demands sex from her every single day regardless of whether she's in the mood, tired, or whatever.

In the beginning she went along with this dominant dynamic and didn't mind it much. But over time it started to wear her down When they disagree, he doesn't raise his hand or yell but completely shuts her out ignores her for days and treats her like a stranger in her own home Lately she's been hiding in the bathroom when he comes home from work because she dreads the pressure and emotional distance.

She's confided in one of my mum's kitty parties she is starting to hate this marriage but still cares for him on some level.

what type of question is this?
its obvsly bad

 

[small_solomon]

what type of question is this?
its obvsly bad

Low T detected

 

[Swarthy Knight]

Isn’t this low key the average deathnik marriage dynamic?

 

[Chadeep]

Despite this being shitty. Having a dominant wife is way worse

 

[Mob Boss]

Wow that is a very shit marriage dynamic

 

[Mob Boss]

Despite this being shitty. Having a dominant wife is way worse

True

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Despite this being shitty. Having a dominant wife is way worse

Wow that is a very shit marriage dynamic

don't think I would want a dynamic like that with my gf tbh. That's literally like having a sex doll. I want her to be able to freely express herself but still respect me and allow me to lead but I also want her to have her voice

 

[Chadeep]

don't think I would want a dynamic like that with my gf tbh. That's literally like having a sex doll. I want her to be able to freely express herself but still respect me and allow me to lead but I also want her to have her voice

I don't want a dynamic like this too. But I absolutely can't tolerate foids trying to be dominant. It's very off putting. Would rather have this than boss bitch.

 

[Jason Voorhees]

@AverageCurryEnjoyer

 

[AverageCurryEnjoyer]

@AverageCurryEnjoyer

idk what to say, Sounds like he doesnt treat her well and they need to change a bit or go talk it out

 

[Pickletoil]

Marry me and I’ll show you a good one

MOOOOOOODSSSSSS

 

[munnabhai]

imagine your wife hiding in the bathroom cause you’re that insufferable

Niggas definitely a sex addict gooner too

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Bump

 

[Jason Voorhees]

@Lefty Rankin

 

[LXR]

Beauty of a society that pushes marriage down everyone's throat

 

[Seth Walsh]

Title. I know a couple that got married a few years back. The wife is decent looking but from a lower middle class family and comes from a background where marriage is seen as a lifelong commitment from the outside, their marriage looks stable. The husband genuinely loves her and he's caring in many ways, provides for her, and treats her well in public.

But behind closed doors it is very one sided. He is very dominating egoistic person doesn't allow her to speak up or disagree freely. He is also apparently a sex addict and demands sex from her every single day regardless of whether she's in the mood, tired, or whatever.

In the beginning she went along with this dominant dynamic and didn't mind it much. But over time it started to wear her down When they disagree, he doesn't raise his hand or yell but completely shuts her out ignores her for days and treats her like a stranger in her own home Lately she's been hiding in the bathroom when he comes home from work because she dreads the pressure and emotional distance.

She's confided in one of my mum's kitty parties she is starting to hate this marriage but still cares for him on some level.

She doesn't want to be with him but most likely endures it due to (class) power dynamics. So she puts up with it, and the longer she lets it run, the more she loses self trust.

He knows for sure the marriage is dysfunctional but is doing anything to give up control while keeping up image management externally ("muh my wife and I love each other as partners").

Wild card guess too. She does not find him good looking, inspiring, funny or charming, and is intimidated by him.

 

[Mob Boss]

don't think I would want a dynamic like that with my gf tbh. That's literally like having a sex doll. I want her to be able to freely express herself but still respect me and allow me to lead but I also want her to have her voice

Yea I would be the same I want some/most control but I want her to still be vocal