What doesn't kill you, makes you much, much weaker.

[Deleted member 14693]

When I look back on my life, all the tribulations and hardships I've endured I've come to the conclusion that every single one of them destroyed my soul a little bit inside. I never gained anything from being called ugly, I never gained anything from being socially excluded, I never gained anything from being awkward. I've only missed out on teenage life, on college life, on friendships, on relationships. I had a hard life and I'm 10000x weaker now than I was when I was 16, Back then I got teased in hs and had no friends, but was strong enough to endure and to say that I'm gonna come out of it alive and not let it get to me. Right now when I'm teased at anyplace, after years of the same bullshit, I don't even have the courage to even react. I overthink shit and think about suicide all the time. I cant stand hardships anymore. I can't... I will chimp out and/or sui.I'm not even a shadow of my former self anymore, I just don't care anymore.

I've noticed similar things with different people I knew. Guys who were bullied, excluded, made fun of never really achieved anything later in life. They were much, much worse as adults. Depressed, empty, suicidal. I do not know one exception to this rule. Meanwhile the Chads and Stacies are doing just as well as they did before. Some less so than others, but in general, the lucky and beautiful and dominant are lucky and beautiful and dominant now. And stronger as well, cause if something bad happens, they know they lived through decades of joy and fun so they would endure it.

So if you ever here the "Hardships makes you a stronger person" you should automatically know that it's just a cope, sadly.

 

[NoCope]

You need to do some deep introspection. You either grow from trauma, or die from it. Anxiety and depression is your brain signaling to you that there is an unresolved issue, but you can't really find out what issue it is because it's suppressed

From what I can tell, u dont have much to lose. Smoke some weed, put on music, close your eyes, and try to rewind your life back to when you were 16. I am against drugs, but marijuana is one of few easily accessible ones which can help you look at the problem from another perspective

 

[Deleted member 14693]

Bump for this brutal reality

 

[Deleted member 18086]

bad experiences accumulate and destroy you from the inside. there is no way this would somehow make you stronger lol

 

[Incellectually_Shy]

Mental resilience isn't equivalent to adapting to society...

 

[TsarTsar444]

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

You need to do some deep introspection. You either grow from trauma, or die from it. Anxiety and depression is your brain signaling to you that there is an unresolved issue, but you can't really find out what issue it is because it's suppressed

From what I can tell, u dont have much to lose. Smoke some weed, put on music, close your eyes, and try to rewind your life back to when you were 16. I am against drugs, but marijuana is one of few easily accessible ones which can help you look at the problem from another perspective

You sound like a promoter for the marijuana industry. How much are you invested?

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

I usually say, "What doesn't kill you will eventually. You can mark my words on that."

 

[NoCope]

You sound like a promoter for the marijuana industry. How much are you invested?

Weed is bad if you use it more than once a week

 

[TITUS]

You need to revenge on the world, don't just off yourself without showing those normies who is boss.

 

[Deleted member 14693]

bump

 

[comfortably dumb]

some people do react positively and exert additional energy to overcome hardships, but it's not the case for most

just another bullshit platitude overall

 

[betrayed by 5‘8]

it brings out the strong in strong people and the weak in weak people u seem to be weak

 

[betrayed by 5‘8]

some people do react positively and exert additional energy to overcome hardships, but it's not the case for most

just another bullshit platitude overall

you don't even understand Nietzsches philosophy behind it lol

 

[Deleted member 14693]

it brings out the strong in strong people and the weak in weak people u seem to be weak

cope I transformed to chad now

you don't even understand Nietzsches philosophy behind it lol

Nietzsche was a coper

 

[comfortably dumb]

you don't even understand Nietzsches philosophy behind it lol

never read a letter from him, schopenhauer or freud. huge frauds from what i gathered by reading summaries of their work

 

[betrayed by 5‘8]

cope I transformed to chad now

Nietzsche was a coper

yes but with that cope he arguably became the ,most read philosopher in the 20th and 21th century, people like u that claim everything is cope is so stupid just rope than living is cope , having fun is cope etc

 

[betrayed by 5‘8]

never read a letter from him, schopenhauer or freud. huge frauds from what i gathered by reading summaries of their work

eloberate how they are frauds especially niettzsche

 

[comfortably dumb]

eloberate how they are frauds especially niettzsche

just 0 contribution to constructive philosophical thought. can't bother going into details here

guys like him, schopenhauer, freud (and orwell and bukowski, for example) only appeal to midwits. 4 german idealists (kant, hegel, fichte, schelling) had so much more valuable writings it's embarrassing

 

[betrayed by 5‘8]

just 0 contribution to constructive philosophical thought. guys like him, schopenhauer, freud (and orwell and bukowski, for example) only appeal to midwits

he has a maxime armor fati , which is build on the stoics ideas but kinda different he also basically founded psychology

 

[comfortably dumb]

he has a maxime armor fati , which is build on the stoics ideas but kinda different he also basically founded psychology

sapienti sat.

i mean obviously they are still top tier intellectuals, but i'm not impressed. there are 15-20 guys in the 20th century with more relevant and valuable thoughts. here is the list if you insist: https://looksmax.org/threads/what-philosophers-should-i-read.528542/post-8681703

 

[betrayed by 5‘8]

sapienti sat.

i mean obviously they are still top tier intellectuals, but i'm not impressed. there are 15-20 guys in the 20th century with more relevant and valuable thoughts. here is the list if you insist: https://looksmax.org/threads/what-philosophers-should-i-read.528542/post-8681703

haven't heard of half of them , its subjective after all what ever

 

[comfortably dumb]

haven't heard of half of them , its subjective after all what ever

that's on you

 

[Deleted member 18603]

just 0 contribution to constructive philosophical thought. can't bother going into details here

guys like him, schopenhauer, freud (and orwell and bukowski, for example) only appeal to midwits. 4 german idealists (kant, hegel, fichte, schelling) had so much more valuable writings it's embarrassing

Nietzsche was the first schizoposter

 

[GetShrekt]

Demons demons demons demons

 

[Marsik]

 

[Deleted member 28270]

Go ER faggot

 

[RAITEIII]

How are u doing nowdays @Beastimmung

 

[Marsik]

@MoggerGaston

 

[MoggerGaston]

@MoggerGaston

Yes it's true.

Any traumatic events make you weaker, especially when they happen in your childhood.

Even if this traumatic event somehow makes you perform a certain act of self-improvement. Like a fat guy losing weight after being bullied.

He will still carry that self-esteem damage and insecurity with him as a lean guy. And probably is mental-mogged by his former fat self even though he 'self improved'.