What made hypergamy worse?

[Bitch]

Just started thinking about this. My grandma got married at 17 to a 27 year old man. They lived in a small town. They’ve met and spent the rest of their lives together.

People normally didn’t look for partners outside their town, they just married someone who lived very close and was the opposite gender. Sometimes even their neighbour. They had no other options and it felt normal.

I also watched some movies from this era and women seemed to have much more respect for men, let’s say in the 50s and 60s than women do today. They also acted much more mature and weren’t so degenerate.

What ruined this? Is it the invention of the internet to be blamed for this?

Liberals giving “equal rights” to women, and this way “women gained more respect from men” as some article has stated?

 

[Deleted member 13495]

social media? how is this not obvious

 

[gamma]

No more traditional values
No more religion
And social medias that boosted all

 

[Bitch]

social media? how is this not obvious

It is that’s why I said the internet

But I think the feminist movement could be to blame as well

 

[gamma]

But I think the feminist movement could be to blame as well

Yeah women was already acting like sluts in 1980 and 1990, before Internet

The feminism is to blame

 

[Deleted member 13094]

Yeah women was already acting like sluts in 1980 and 1990, before Internet

how would you know

 

[Bitch]

Yeah women was already acting like sluts in 1980 and 1990, before Internet

This tbh

 

[Deleted member 4054]

Social media, slut culture, and weak fathers

 

[gamma]

how would you know

Films and tales from older people

 

[Rabbi]

Increased population
Monogamy no longer enforced
Dating apps

 

[goat2x]

it was men more exclusively probably conservative men who gave women equal rights

women didnt want to accept it at first

interms of law ofc.

 

[Growth Plate]

Yeah women was already acting like sluts in 1980 and 1990, before Internet

The feminism is to blame

Roschach's Journal: October 12th, 1985

Dog carcass in alley this morning, tire tread on burst stomach. This city is afraid of me. I have seen its true face.

The streets are extended gutters and the gutters are full of blood and when the drains finally scab over, all the vermin will drown.

The accumulated filth of all their sex and murder will foam up about their waists and all the whores and politicians will look up and shout "Save us!"... and I'll look down and whisper "No."

 

[Deleted member 6403]

jews

 

[Gargantuan]

Everything has already been said by other people itt, but I feel like women entering the workforce is often overlooked and definitely a major contributor.

Back when men made up the vast bulk of the workforce, they offered something unique to the women out there: an income to provide a household and a family.

Relationships were basically a transaction, at the time: A man would provide for a woman, by having an income, and in exchange, a woman would give a man a family/establish a household.

Having a solid job/income was usually the bare minimum you needed, in order to settle down and start a family, at the time. But nowadays, women have the same options as men do in the workforce so simply having a job isn't gonna cut it anymore.

 

[Deleted member 7901]

Lack of traditional rules and nihilism and total abandonment of believing in God

I am not trying to sound like a religious boomer, not even trying to advocate that God is real, but rather, that religion and its rules, always provided the best rules for a stable society objectively, including marriage (in a form of arranged marriage, which was backed by social shame and perhaps total boycott if divorce happened) and hyper-gamy (no need to explain how religion oppress the dirty nature of women, and even men), even if it might be based on things which are not real

 

[AlexAP]

I don't think it's worse. It's just different. You needed money to have a wife in the old days, and spouses still often cheated on each other. It was not a good time imo.

Most Normies today do fine, and the bad things that exist today always existed in other forms.

 

[Bitch]

it was men more exclusively probably conservative men who gave women equal rights

women didnt want to accept it at first

interms of law ofc.

So there’s where I was wrong? It was conservative men, not liberals?

I always thought left-wing politics supported social equality more

Everything has already been said by other people itt, but I feel like women entering the workforce is often overlooked and definitely a major contributor.

Back when men made up the vast bulk of the workforce, they offered something unique to the women out there: an income to provide a household and a family.

Relationships were basically a transaction, at the time: A man would provide for a woman, by having an income, and in exchange, a woman would give a man a family/establish a household.

Having a solid job/income was usually the bare minimum you needed, in order to settle down and start a family, at the time. But nowadays, women have the same options as men do in the workforce so simply having a job isn't gonna cut it anymore.

Very good and detailed answer, my grandma also didn’t have a job, so it makes sense

 

[Deleted member 12344]

Just started thinking about this. My grandma got married at 17 to a 27 year old man. They lived in a small town. They’ve met and spent the rest of their lives together.

People normally didn’t look for partners outside their town, they just married someone who lived very close and was the opposite gender. Sometimes even their neighbour. They had no other options and it felt normal.

I also watched some movies from this era and women seemed to have much more respect for men, let’s say in the 50s and 60s than women do today. They also acted much more mature and weren’t so degenerate.

What ruined this? Is it the invention of the internet to be blamed for this?

Liberals giving “equal rights” to women, and this way “women gained more respect from men” as some article has stated?

You are here since 1 year and didnt figure this ?

 

[Bitch]

You are here since 1 year and didnt figure this ?

People can discuss things and state their opinion on this

Also mirin

Posts3,075 Reputation2,846

 

[Deleted member 12344]

People can discuss things and state their opinion on this

Also mirin

Posts3,075 Reputation2,846

Well rep maxxing is easy if you are a forum jester like @MyAssStinksLikeShit

 

[Hozay]

social media? how is this not obvious

this use your brain op, social media is the biggest reason

 

[Bitch]

Well rep maxxing is easy if you are a forum jester like @MyAssStinksLikeShit

@MyAssStinksLikeShit is one of the best users on this site hands down

 

[Deleted member 12344]

@MyAssStinksLikeShit is one of the best users on this site hands down

Yeah he funny