What % of your Tinder matches message first?

[EverythingMattersCel]

I've had like 75 matches total (including the 15 or so that have unmatched me after matching). Only 2 have ever messaged first (a femcel tier 3/10 that I matched with by accident) and a 5/10 regular becky that unmatched me before I even had the chance to reply (what's up with that?).

This is after a month btw with Tinder platinum in a big city. I haven't swiped much though tbh. I assumed 10-20% would message first, but it seems to barely happen.

I just wanted a situation like @Over where a girl was genuinely interested and hit me up first. All the matches I message blank me after 1 or 2 messages. I don't write any stupid crap... just "hi", "what's up?" and tried a few Tinder openers from a YT video. There's just too many hoops for a normie to jump through: 1) match 2) jester-maxx on Tinder for a few messages 3) move over to snap/whatsapp/insta 4) escalate to date 5) don't get flaked on date 6) get laid / get gf / 2nd date or whatever.

It's impossible for the average male to get anything from online dating in 2021. It's over.

 

[Vermilioncore]

I’m ugly and left to die in a furnace

 

[Deleted member 14677]

tinder in Australia is shit man

either get trannies or landwhales popping up and all of the decent looking accounts are pretty much inactive.

 

[Deleted member 9670]

hardly any girls message first and if they do they expect you to carry conversation anywayy

 

[Beetlejuice]

I made a fake account with a good looking guy once.
Like 75 matches and less than 5 messages,which means less than 5%

 

[Wallenberg]

Dunno but probably less than 20%.

 

[Deleted member 8904]

I clicked 5-10% instinctively but I’m looking through my tinder screenshots from when I was 15 and it says I had 12 matches with 4 messages (I never messaged first) so thats about 33%.

More accurately tho is my Yubo and if I had to guess probably about 15-20% of people message me first and I message first about 10% of people so thats like 70% of people that I will never message or be messaged from.

That checks out cause I have chats with 226 ppl (I counted them all) and 721 friends.

 

[Over]

hardly any girls message first and if they do they expect you to carry conversation anywayy

Not really. Girls who messaged me first carried convo when I didn’t know what to type.

 

[Deleted member 9670]

Not really. Girls who messaged me first carried convo when I didn’t know what to type.

ok chad

 

[Xangsane]

I made a fake account with a good looking guy once.
Like 75 matches and less than 5 messages,which means less than 5%

I made a chadfish who had a 5% match rate

 

[fogdart]

I've had like 75 matches total (including the 15 or so that have unmatched me after matching). Only 2 have ever messaged first (a femcel tier 3/10 that I matched with by accident) and a 5/10 regular becky that unmatched me before I even had the chance to reply (what's up with that?).

This is after a month btw with Tinder platinum in a big city. I haven't swiped much though tbh. I assumed 10-20% would message first, but it seems to barely happen.

I just wanted a situation like @Over where a girl was genuinely interested and hit me up first. All the matches I message blank me after 1 or 2 messages. I don't write any stupid crap... just "hi", "what's up?" and tried a few Tinder openers from a YT video. There's just too many hoops for a normie to jump through: 1) match 2) jester-maxx on Tinder for a few messages 3) move over to snap/whatsapp/insta 4) escalate to date 5) don't get flaked on date 6) get laid / get gf / 2nd date or whatever.

It's impossible for the average male to get anything from online dating in 2021. It's over.

Most girls do not message first - even Chads don't get a lot of first messages. I've done experiments with A LOT of chads - including amnesia, salludon, tyler maher and co. Gigachads like Maher will have at most 5 - 10% message first, the rest are usually 5% or lower.

 

[EverythingMattersCel]

JFL boyos...

A girl finally messaged me...

It's over.

@fogdart @MarkCorrigan @Vermilioncore

 

[fogdart]

JFL boyos...

A girl finally messaged me...


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@fogdart @MarkCorrigan @Vermilioncore

I don't know whether I should be happy for you. What does she mean?

 

[EverythingMattersCel]

I don't know whether I should be happy for you. What does she mean?

I think she's mocking me jfl.

 

[fogdart]

I think she's mocking me jfl.

Bro I've seen your pics and from what I remember you're not that bad looking I doubt she would mock you. Pm me your pics again

 

[Deleted member 9670]

I had a jewish girl message me first the other day she wanted to go the the beach I didn't respond and she unmatched

 

[Vermilioncore]

JFL boyos...

A girl finally messaged me...


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@fogdart @MarkCorrigan @Vermilioncore

At least she messaged first. Go and fuck her