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lilhorizontal32
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I was at a party talking to a girl that liked me and had a pretty big crush on me (it was pretty obvious by that point). I wasn't making great conversation though tbh because I was incredibly nervous, but she was doing her best to accommodate for my lack of NTness
however, the girl that I was talking to was quite attractive and sooner or later more and more guys would try to join our conversation, and stand either next to me, her, or in between us and hope to join
I let anyone and everyone join in because I didn't wanna seem like I was insecure and mate guarding but eventually a guy came along who NTmogged me and steered the conversation away from what I wanted, and our dynamic sorta got worse from that point on ngl
looking back I'm not too sure what the best option would've been: should I have just ignored him? let him in and keep the conversation going?
and mind you all of these guys are friendly acquaintances at best, and this one guy in particular definitely didn't want to be my friend as I saw him at another party and we said hi to each other, shook hands, and he excused himself quite quickly to go talk to someone else before we could have a proper conversation jfl
however, the girl that I was talking to was quite attractive and sooner or later more and more guys would try to join our conversation, and stand either next to me, her, or in between us and hope to join
I let anyone and everyone join in because I didn't wanna seem like I was insecure and mate guarding but eventually a guy came along who NTmogged me and steered the conversation away from what I wanted, and our dynamic sorta got worse from that point on ngl
looking back I'm not too sure what the best option would've been: should I have just ignored him? let him in and keep the conversation going?
and mind you all of these guys are friendly acquaintances at best, and this one guy in particular definitely didn't want to be my friend as I saw him at another party and we said hi to each other, shook hands, and he excused himself quite quickly to go talk to someone else before we could have a proper conversation jfl