What the absolute fuck the girl is back into me

[Deleted member 12002]

@Monk @16tyo @OOGABOOGA

I simply don’t fucking understand it. One moment the girl friendzones me, today she wants to hang out, we did hang out, she told me we are splitting half a fucking 12 pack of beer in my room and a bottle of vodka, she wants to play video games in my room, drive places, do shit.

what the fuck. I can’t understand her rational. I asked her straight up (because I’m tired of fucking miscommunication and beating around the bush), I said “why are you nice some days and mean others, be honest with me” and then she wanted to change the topic so I said straight up “alright you won’t tell me, there’s a reason but i can’t figure it out”.

I’m tired of beating around the bush and shit like that. It’s fucked. But now she wants to hang out and drink? I’m so fucking confused.

the other day I was looking good asf and she was insulting me telling me to put a sweater on since it was cold and I was wearing a tight shirt whilst paintballing instead of being all covered up like everyone else. Every time she insulted me I held frame (jfl I know it sounds autistic), but basically every time she insulted me I acted like I didn’t give a fuck and kept a super positive, playful attitude with everyone around me.

idk if that had to do with it but I didn’t let her actions affect me. Definitely the right move I have zero clue if that’s what worked or what. I legit fucking asked her and she wouldn’t tell me. I’m making a move next time I’m drunk rest assured. I’m not pulling it like last time. I’m ascending.

Dude, she's keeping you in the friendzone. That's all she's doing. Put yourself in her shoes. What would you do if you were a girl and wanted to keep a guy wrapped around your little finger, just for your entertainment/ego trip? You'd intentionally confuse him. You'd be sometimes hot, and sometimes cold.

She's probably not attracted to you anymore because you didn't have the balls to make a move when you had the chance. You botta be bold. Everybody admires the bold, nobody admires the weak. She knows you were too scared to make a move. Now she's just keeping you tethered to her, and in a state of constant confusion, to compliment her narcissism. She knows how much you're thinking about her. Do you think she'd be surprised at all if she found out you were on a site like this, talking about her non stop, and trying to figure out from other guys about what makes her tick?

You're all over the place Native. I'm really pulling for you though. I'd like to see you stick a fork in this girl's ass and deflate her ego. Forget about her and move on.

It'll all be over soon enough. Don't continue to make the same mistakes whenever you get to the next chapter of your life.

 

[Deleted member 5927]

It’s ok bro you’re still young & learning. Mistakes will happen.

Next time be straight forward with your intentions from the jump or they’ll take every chance to waste your time. Never assume

I know now. I was clear this time around but the thing is I think I’m too late as you say. Dude we talked about our horrible first date and it’s almost like she interprets it completely different. Like I straight up went out of the casual friend zone and started talking about how she wanted to chill with me and then she said no I only wanted you to bring me to the store to get food. I was like wtf lmao quit lying you wanted to hang out (it’s a fucking fact) but she went into pure denial. Idk how she convinced herself she never liked me I’m so fucking confused. It was so obvious before. She wore makeup to hang out with me and everything lmao.

 

[Deleted member 5927]

Dude, she's keeping you in the friendzone. That's all she's doing. Put yourself in her shoes. What would you do if you were a girl and wanted to keep a guy wrapped around your little finger, just for your entertainment/ego trip? You'd intentionally confuse him. You'd be sometimes hot, and sometimes cold.

She's probably not attracted to you anymore because you didn't have the balls to make a move when you had the chance. You botta be bold. Everybody admires the bold, nobody admires the weak. She knows you were too scared to make a move. Now she's just keeping you tethered to her, and in a state of constant confusion, to compliment her narcissism. She knows how much you're thinking about her. Do you think she'd be surprised at all if she found out you were on a site like this, talking about her non stop, and trying to figure out from other guys about what makes her tick?

You're all over the place Native. I'm really pulling for you though. I'd like to see you stick a fork in this girl's ass and deflate her ego. Forget about her and move on.

It'll all be over soon enough. Don't continue to make the same mistakes whenever you get to the next chapter of your life.

Ugh. You’re right man, I gotta admit it. I just didn’t know any better. Are all girls like this bro? Holy shit they are so fucking manipulative and use you so well. You’re right, I admit it. It hurts though.

 

[RAITEIII]

@Monk @16tyo @OOGABOOGA

I simply don’t fucking understand it. One moment the girl friendzones me, today she wants to hang out, we did hang out, she told me we are splitting half a fucking 12 pack of beer in my room and a bottle of vodka, she wants to play video games in my room, drive places, do shit.

what the fuck. I can’t understand her rational. I asked her straight up (because I’m tired of fucking miscommunication and beating around the bush), I said “why are you nice some days and mean others, be honest with me” and then she wanted to change the topic so I said straight up “alright you won’t tell me, there’s a reason but i can’t figure it out”.

I’m tired of beating around the bush and shit like that. It’s fucked. But now she wants to hang out and drink? I’m so fucking confused.

the other day I was looking good asf and she was insulting me telling me to put a sweater on since it was cold and I was wearing a tight shirt whilst paintballing instead of being all covered up like everyone else. Every time she insulted me I held frame (jfl I know it sounds autistic), but basically every time she insulted me I acted like I didn’t give a fuck and kept a super positive, playful attitude with everyone around me.

idk if that had to do with it but I didn’t let her actions affect me. Definitely the right move I have zero clue if that’s what worked or what. I legit fucking asked her and she wouldn’t tell me. I’m making a move next time I’m drunk rest assured. I’m not pulling it like last time. I’m ascending.

Just fuck her already

 

[Deleted member 4887]

miscommunication and beating around the bush), I said “why are you nice some days and mean others, be honest with me” and then she wanted to change the topic so I said straight up “alright you won’t tell me, there’s a reason but i can’t figure it out”.


This is so cringy it was difficult to read

 

[Vitruvian]

Its obvious ur raging t levels are getting in the way of rational thought. She had u next in the rotation now that chad found another. Dont do this to yourself man..

 

[Deleted member 5393]

Idk why you are doing so bad with women, something is wrong

 

[Deleted]

I cant give advice bcuz khhv but just try to be lower inhib or something. Good luck bro you got this.

 

[Deleted member 5927]

Idk why you are doing so bad with women, something is wrong

It’s over lmao it’s because I’m an autist it’s no longer my looks also this girl is retarded kinda too jfl

 

[Deleted]

miscommunication and beating around the bush), I said “why are you nice some days and mean others, be honest with me” and then she wanted to change the topic so I said straight up “alright you won’t tell me, there’s a reason but i can’t figure it out”.


This is so cringy it was difficult to read

Jfl my friend accidentally sent to our group chat some of his cringy texts twice.

"You have to be honest with me, i like that "

"I wish i could invent a time machine so we could meet earlier"

 

[Deleted member 5927]

Jfl my friend accidentally sent to our group chat some of his cringy texts twice.

"You have to be honest with me, i like that "

"I wish i could invent a time machine so we could meet earlier"

bro imma be honest I’m running blue pill game at the moment it’s easier to talk to girls doing it jfl

like I text back fast and be honest and open lmao. either way I think now you guys may be right, she’s leading me on and just using me for my resources and entertainment. I’m so fucking thankful for you guys tbh.

it hurts that this is the reality I live in though.

 

[Deleted]

bro imma be honest I’m running blue pill game at the moment it’s easier to talk to girls doing it jfl

like I text back fast and be honest and open lmao. either way I think now you guys may be right, she’s leading me on and just using me for my resources and entertainment. I’m so fucking thankful for you guys tbh.

it hurts that this is the reality I live in though.

The art whore i'm trying to bag, I'm trying to give some and take some basically. Always make sure my replies are lower effort and last night for example i left her on read for 9 hours.

You need to act superior and like you have many options.

 

[Deleted member 4887]

Jfl my friend accidentally sent to our group chat some of his cringy texts twice.

"You have to be honest with me, i like that "

"I wish i could invent a time machine so we could meet earlier"

 

[Deleted member 5927]

The art whore i'm trying to bag, I'm trying to give some and take some basically. Always make sure my replies are lower effort and last night for example i left her on read for 9 hours.

You need to act superior and like you have many options.

I tried that at first and then eventually just quit playing games. If the girl actually gets to know you really well she will eventually just find out from knowing you and your social circle that you don’t actually have as many options as it seems, and are purposely waiting to answer her (a lot of guys do this and girls already know about it) so you literally just look autistic.

I cut the games because the girl knows I’m a virgin and never been in a relationship and that I don’t have infinite options so I just answer back realistically and don’t play mind fuck games.

 

[Deleted member 5927]

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Bro wtf im supposed to say idk I’m a giga virgin. Also it didn’t come out awkward at all like thru all this shit she got more open and chill with me and we laughed the entire time. I’m probably friend zoned harder now though. At least she knows I know exactly what’s going on tho. Is what it is.

 

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Why is this actually funny

 

[Deleted]

I tried that at first and then eventually just quit playing games. If the girl actually gets to know you really well she will eventually just find out from knowing you and your social circle that you don’t actually have as many options as it seems, and are purposely waiting to answer her (a lot of guys do this and girls already know about it) so you literally just look autistic.

I cut the games because the girl knows I’m a virgin and never been in a relationship and that I don’t have infinite options so I just answer back realistically and don’t play mind fuck games.

Native my friend, You see thats the beauty of it. The art whore i just want to use to make my onities envious and then leave her. The plan isnt for her to get to know my social circle or anything.

 

[Deleted member 4887]

Bro wtf im supposed to say idk I’m a giga virgin

Before you write it down imagine yourself saying it to her irl that will guide you

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Ugh. You’re right man, I gotta admit it. I just didn’t know any better. Are all girls like this bro? Holy shit they are so fucking manipulative and use you so well. You’re right, I admit it. It hurts though.

No dude, not all girls are like that. All girls will try to control you if they can, but not all of them are narcissistic and broken. Not all of them play games. Little games yeah, when they're angry, but not the type of games that'll have you feeling confused. You're not in the best environment to find the type of girl who isn't a sl*t. Young sl*ts will always try to confuse you if they know you lack experience. It's because they're immature and lack a certain kind of self esteem.

 

[Deleted member 5927]

Native my friend, You see thats the beauty of it. The art whore i just want to use to make my onities envious and then leave her. The plan isnt for her to get to know my social circle or anything.

Yeah bro the whole wait to seem like you got crazy options shit is just so predictable though and I hate when girls do it. Like everyone does it and it immediately lets me think bad things of them. When a girl does it to me I already know she’s not some super interesting high value chick so I just think she’s a retarded bitch who wants to play games. I feel like smart girls will see right fucking through your bullshit redpill games that you might try and play with them. Honestly there’s no issue with just replying back at a normal fucking rate jfl. Just reply like you would a regular bro of yours. Whenever you can and genuinely without mind games. I’d much rather openly communicate with a girl so we are on the same page quickly than play games and beat around the bush and a lot of miscommunication. That’s what I learned from this girl anyway.

 

[Deleted member 5927]

Before you write it down imagine yourself saying it to her irl that will guide you

I dude I DID say all this to her in real life I didn’t text it she was with me in my car. That’s probably why you guys think it’s so autistic. Holy Shit I would never text that lmao. No dude I was chilling with this girl and I was trying to slowly get more than casual bullshit talk so I got personal.

 

[Deleted member 5927]

No dude, not all girls are like that. All girls will try to control you if they can, but not all of them are narcissistic and broken. Not all of them play games. Little games yeah, when they're angry, but not the type of games that'll have you feeling confused. You're not in the best environment to find the type of girl who isn't a sl*t. Young sl*ts will always try to confuse you if they know you lack experience. It's because they're immature and lack a certain kind of self esteem.

Damn. Thanks fucking brocel for clearing that up for me. I’m really glad I got niggas like you to help a man out. Fuck.

 

[Deleted]

Yeah bro the whole wait to seem like you got crazy options shit is just so predictable though and I hate when girls do it. Like everyone does it and it immediately lets me think bad things of them. When a girl does it to me I already know she’s not some super interesting high value chick so I just think she’s a retarded bitch who wants to play games. I feel like smart girls will see right fucking through your bullshit redpill games that you might try and play with them. Honestly there’s no issue with just replying back at a normal fucking rate jfl. Just reply like you would a regular bro of yours. Whenever you can and genuinely without mind games. I’d much rather openly communicate with a girl so we are on the same page quickly than play games and beat around the bush and a lot of miscommunication. That’s what I learned from this girl anyway.

Yet again Native my friend, This art whore literarly started a convo yesterday by saying was watching FUCKING WINX CLUB WTF I HATE HER SO MUCH BUT I NEED HER FOR MY PLAN.

 

[Deleted member 5927]

Yet again Native my friend, This art whore literarly started a convo yesterday by saying was watching FUCKING WINX CLUB WTF I HATE HER SO MUCH BUT I NEED HER FOR MY PLAN.
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Ya bro the thing is the little games we play girls play too like there’s only a few things u can socially manipulate the dating market with and they are pretty fucking obvious real quick. Like trying to make another girl jealous is super fucking obvious and girls do it all the time. I just hadn’t had experience with being led on before so I didn’t recognize that one before. I’m glad u niggas did though. And yes dude I’m learning girls are literally like adult children they like cute shit and boring hats and stuff I’m like wtf bruh I’m tryna leave this store let’s not look at boring bland hats

 

[Deleted member 4887]

I dude I DID say all this to her in real life I didn’t text it she was with me in my car. That’s probably why you guys think it’s so autistic. Holy Shit I would never text that lmao. No dude I was chilling with this girl and I was trying to slowly get more than casual bullshit talk so I got personal.

It still is a bit autistic, dont question what she does thats for her to do. The fact that she was mean one time and not the other shouldnt faze you, and you shouldn't show her your sensitivities that early

I've made the same mistake so many times with women particularly the first impression pill, I meet with a girl she doesnt like how I look but grows to like me, but me being the high inhib cuck I am still feels angry at them for not reacting well to my first impression

We have to be stoic and to be a man thats what people are missing on this website. Letting emotions control us

 

[Deleted]

Ya bro the thing is the little games we play girls play too like there’s only a few things u can socially manipulate the dating market with and they are pretty fucking obvious real quick. Like trying to make another girl jealous is super fucking obvious and girls do it all the time. I just hadn’t had experience with being led on before so I didn’t recognize that one before. I’m glad u niggas did though. And yes dude I’m learning girls are literally like adult children they like cute shit and boring hats and stuff I’m like wtf bruh I’m tryna leave this store let’s not look at boring bland hats

Indeed son thats why i need my perma rotting onities instead of this bat shit crazy bitch while the art hoe arguably mogs my onities.

 

[Deleted member 4301]

Do you still talk to her? Ignore her cold turkey for at least 2 days.

 

[Deleted member 5927]

It still is a bit autistic, dont question what she does thats for her to do. The fact that she was mean one time and not the other shouldnt faze you, and you shouldn't show her that your sensitivities that early

I've made the same mistake so many times with women particularly the first impression pill, I meet with a girl she doesnt like how I look but grows to like me, but me being the high inhib cuck I am still feels angry at them for not reacting well to my first impression

We have to be stoic and to be a man thats what people are missing on this website. Letting emotions control us

It’s really difficult man. I’m tryna learn how to act around women for both my own pleasure, as well as to gain the most amount of success with women. I couldn’t easily play all the little redpill games without looking autistic so at a certain point I gave up. But yeah I definitely can work on some shit for sure, like being stoic and whatnot. No amount of attitude change is gonna save me rn though this bitch is determined to have me in the friend zone I’m assuming.

 

[Deleted member 5927]

Do you still talk to her? Ignore her cold turkey for at least 2 days.

I did for a bit she came back acting this way.
Probably wants to use me for shit by showing interest just to chill with me and get me to simp for her. The thing is I KNOW she did or still does like me. Like I’m one of the best looking dudes here and the tallest one here and she creams over my height even as friends . Like we were walking yesterday and I almost had to hide in public because she was saying shit about my height so the whole world could hear lmao. Like basically screaming “YOU SHOULD WEAR FLASHY CLOTHES BECAUSE YOU ARE SIX FOUUUR” and I deadass wanted to hide lmao.

 

[Deleted member 5393]

It’s over lmao it’s because I’m an autist it’s no longer my looks also this girl is retarded kinda too jfl

You need to meet up with @tyronelite he will coach you

it will be like the movie 40 year old virgin

 

[Deleted member 6164]

She wants your money, cuckold.

 

[Deleted member 4301]

I did for a bit she came back acting this way.
Probably wants to use me for shit by showing interest just to chill with me and get me to simp for her. The thing is I KNOW she did or still does like me. Like I’m one of the best looking dudes here and the tallest one here and she creams over my height even as friends . Like we were walking yesterday and I almost had to hide in public because she was saying shit about my height so the whole world could hear lmao. Like basically screaming “YOU SHOULD WEAR FLASHY CLOTHES BECAUSE YOU ARE SIX FOUUUR” and I deadass wanted to hide lmao.

Ded srs though if you ignore her completely and cold shoulder in person she will probably want you...

 

[Deleted member 5927]

Ded srs though if you ignore her completely and cold shoulder in person she will probably want you...

What’s wrong with women dude there’s something seriously wrong with them