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Dude, she's keeping you in the friendzone. That's all she's doing. Put yourself in her shoes. What would you do if you were a girl and wanted to keep a guy wrapped around your little finger, just for your entertainment/ego trip? You'd intentionally confuse him. You'd be sometimes hot, and sometimes cold.@Monk @16tyo @OOGABOOGA
I simply don’t fucking understand it. One moment the girl friendzones me, today she wants to hang out, we did hang out, she told me we are splitting half a fucking 12 pack of beer in my room and a bottle of vodka, she wants to play video games in my room, drive places, do shit.
what the fuck. I can’t understand her rational. I asked her straight up (because I’m tired of fucking miscommunication and beating around the bush), I said “why are you nice some days and mean others, be honest with me” and then she wanted to change the topic so I said straight up “alright you won’t tell me, there’s a reason but i can’t figure it out”.
I’m tired of beating around the bush and shit like that. It’s fucked. But now she wants to hang out and drink? I’m so fucking confused.
the other day I was looking good asf and she was insulting me telling me to put a sweater on since it was cold and I was wearing a tight shirt whilst paintballing instead of being all covered up like everyone else. Every time she insulted me I held frame (jfl I know it sounds autistic), but basically every time she insulted me I acted like I didn’t give a fuck and kept a super positive, playful attitude with everyone around me.
idk if that had to do with it but I didn’t let her actions affect me. Definitely the right move I have zero clue if that’s what worked or what. I legit fucking asked her and she wouldn’t tell me. I’m making a move next time I’m drunk rest assured. I’m not pulling it like last time. I’m ascending.
She's probably not attracted to you anymore because you didn't have the balls to make a move when you had the chance. You botta be bold. Everybody admires the bold, nobody admires the weak. She knows you were too scared to make a move. Now she's just keeping you tethered to her, and in a state of constant confusion, to compliment her narcissism. She knows how much you're thinking about her. Do you think she'd be surprised at all if she found out you were on a site like this, talking about her non stop, and trying to figure out from other guys about what makes her tick?
You're all over the place Native. I'm really pulling for you though. I'd like to see you stick a fork in this girl's ass and deflate her ego. Forget about her and move on.
It'll all be over soon enough. Don't continue to make the same mistakes whenever you get to the next chapter of your life.