whats even point of living?

[fanqari]

i always been told that i must live study become successful have happy life, but why? why do i have to put in so much work to first of all escape ltn-mtn hell and then become successful? why do i have to spend years trying to achive what im *suppost* to do when i can just stop everything once and for all. sure i do have people who will get effected negatively but after couple years they will be fine and live normally. i dont even believe in religion to make me fear hell or something like that i really do want to find reason to do all that dont get me wrong but i js cant. if i dont do things that im suppost to do i wont be happy, without changing my appearance i will forever be alone and who wants onesome life right? i have no idea why im talking abt this here maybe i js wanted to hear peoples opinions maybe i js wanted to talk abt it, idk. js if anybody been in my shoes in past and found reason to do all this please help me.

 

[SilvioMoltisantiDan]

You need to find your own goal, there's no meaning in this life, you are in search of purpose

i always been told that i must live study become successful have happy life, but why? why do i have to put in so much work to first of all escape ltn-mtn hell and then become successful? why do i have to spend years trying to achive what im *suppost* to do when i can just stop everything once and for all. sure i do have people who will get effected negatively but after couple years they will be fine and live normally. i dont even believe in religion to make me fear hell or something like that i really do want to find reason to do all that dont get me wrong but i js cant. if i dont do things that im suppost to do i wont be happy, without changing my appearance i will forever be alone and who wants onesome life right? i have no idea why im talking abt this here maybe i js wanted to hear peoples opinions maybe i js wanted to talk abt it, idk. js if anybody been in my shoes in past and found reason to do all this please help me.

 

[fanqari]

You need to find your own goal, there's no meaning in this life, you are in search of purpose

i do have goals for example to reach htn have money and so on but all that work for what i js cant find reason to do all that work js to have chance of *good life*

 

[User28823]

there is no point

so live to fulfill comfort

seek comfort

this requires non-comfort for a few years but then u can live in comfort

 

[SilvioMoltisantiDan]

i do have goals for example to reach htn have money and so on but all that work for what i js cant find reason to do all that work js to have chance of *good life*

it seems like you are not motivated enough, you're overthinking the goal and the process in a strictly logical way, which is normal. Enjoy the process regardless of the outcome, I'd say.

 

[Acquiescence]

Pain avoidance and pleasure seeking both individually and collectively

 

[iamaincel]

i always been told that i must live study become successful have happy life, but why? why do i have to put in so much work to first of all escape ltn-mtn hell and then become successful? why do i have to spend years trying to achive what im *suppost* to do when i can just stop everything once and for all. sure i do have people who will get effected negatively but after couple years they will be fine and live normally. i dont even believe in religion to make me fear hell or something like that i really do want to find reason to do all that dont get me wrong but i js cant. if i dont do things that im suppost to do i wont be happy, without changing my appearance i will forever be alone and who wants onesome life right? i have no idea why im talking abt this here maybe i js wanted to hear peoples opinions maybe i js wanted to talk abt it, idk. js if anybody been in my shoes in past and found reason to do all this please help me.

make your own goals for most its the gym