Xangsane
^ Sheboons consider these lot white
- Joined
- Jun 11, 2021
- Posts
- 152,224
- Reputation
- 129,466
https://www.quora.com/What-is-the-brutal-truth-about-being-an-attractive-manBrutal truth :
• YOU GET ADVANTAGE IN SCHOOL DAYS
I remember in my school day all the lady teachers use to give me a lot of lease. They use to take my side in any situation in school. Which helped me a lot in my school days. But hey not just good looks you need have a good behaviour.
• PRECEPTION OF BEING “WOMANISER”
I remember most of my friends ask the first thing as we became friend is that “ kitni hai”, “how manys girlfriend do you have”. I am like dude none i am single.
• Objectification
People tend to objectify handsome or good looking guys. They tend to define you by only your superficial attributes and fail to read you as a person, because they miss to see anything in you besides your looks.
• ENVY
Sometimes people tend to get envious at you for no reason. Some get jealous by mere looking at you. You’ll have your friends whom are less good looking than you being insecure whenever you are around them. They wouldn’t let you follow them whenever they want to meet their girlfriend. You try to be nice and they accuse you of trying to snatch their girlfriends.
• LONELINESS
It is a very surprising Fact that some,,if not most good looking guys are lonely. Except maybe the extroverts who defy the odds to make friends themselves. Most people conclude that guys who are handsome already have so many people clustered around them. A girl would see a good looking guy but she will choose to ignore him because she feels he already has a lot of girls at his beck and call,,therefore it would be a waste of time getting to know him. When this keeps happening,,you discover that most handsome guys have little or few friends while some are even single without a girlfriend to call their own.
• HIGH EXPECTATIONS
Some times people give a lot of high expectations to good looking guys. Most times they expect you to be the head or leader. They feel since you are good looking you should be able to make decisions and be charismatic. They would want to follow your every step. While this can be very difficult for the guys who aren’t outspoken/introverted,,it could work out well for the confident ones. So it’s a bit of an advantage and disadvantage. But the problem comes when you do something out of what your followers expect of you. There will now be a crisis between pleasing yourself and pleasing the people that expect so much from you.
• HARDLIY FIND TRUE LOVE AND GENUINE LOVERS
The danger here is that you attract more women who flock around you with reckless abandon and who have no genuine love for you. And with the quantity come a drop in quality. It becomes much more difficult when you want to choose a life partner. It’ll take extraordinary grace and carefulness to avoid making the wrong choice because you’ll have a lot of superficial women with no substance pretending to the core to be angels just to win you over for life. Ironically, the ones with substance are not fazed or impressed by your looks.
Thank you
9.9K views
View 84 upvotes
Upvote
84
4
Sol Roth
·
Follow
Updated 2y
