when did you start obsessing over your looks and why?

[swt]

when i hit 14 i started developing OCD tendencies and along with that came with the obsession / overall hyperfixation on my looks naturally. back then i didnt know i could change my face nor was i overthinking it so i was focussed on how my hair looked and how i dressed and if i didnt feel like i looked good a specific day i didnt even wanna go outside, and id frequently fake being sick to skip school when my hair didnt look good enough according to my standards

wbu

 

[swt]

its crazy how everyone just has their own lore

 

[TheAncientMacedonia]

 

[TheAncientMacedonia]

feel the mog

 

[Hunterlt]

when i hit 15 i started developing OCD tendencies and along with that came with the obsession / overall hyperfixation on my looks naturally. back then i didnt know i could change my face nor was i overthinking it so i was focussed on how my hair looked and how i dressed and if i didnt feel like i looked good a specific day i didnt even wanna go outside, and id frequently fake being sick to skip school when my hair didnt look good enough according to my standards

wbu

When I was 13 and realize there was a reason no one ever talked to me, why I rarely talked to girls. I hated every time I looked into the mirror and I still did up until this summer when I had a slight glow up when I buzzed and tanned and hit the gym. Still hate what I see but insecure 13 year old me got me into looksmaxing and I would try sooo many cope methods

 

[swt]

feel the mog
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brutal

 

[Thief]

I never obsessed over looks I knew it was over from the jump as a mulatto mongrel subhuman

 

[Deleted member 162234]

got called fat in early middle school maybe sooner

 

[Arbuscular]

Since I was 7 because im ugly truecel nd

 

[Tigermoggerlol]

when i hit 14 i started developing OCD tendencies and along with that came with the obsession / overall hyperfixation on my looks naturally. back then i didnt know i could change my face nor was i overthinking it so i was focussed on how my hair looked and how i dressed and if i didnt feel like i looked good a specific day i didnt even wanna go outside, and id frequently fake being sick to skip school when my hair didnt look good enough according to my standards

wbu

Was one of the few ugly brown dudes in my school decided to join redpill and self improvement only to not ascend at all bc of genetics. Then I hardmaxxed and fell into blackpill and been obsessed ever since

 

[registerfasterusing]

when i hit 14 i started developing OCD tendencies and along with that came with the obsession / overall hyperfixation on my looks naturally. back then i didnt know i could change my face nor was i overthinking it so i was focussed on how my hair looked and how i dressed and if i didnt feel like i looked good a specific day i didnt even wanna go outside, and id frequently fake being sick to skip school when my hair didnt look good enough according to my standards

wbu

@oscar patel

 

[Terrortheplug]

when i was very young like 11 or 12

 

[RXnd]

Mane idgaf I always look Chadly

 

[Its0ver_r0pe$]

when i hit 14 i started developing OCD tendencies and along with that came with the obsession / overall hyperfixation on my looks naturally. back then i didnt know i could change my face nor was i overthinking it so i was focussed on how my hair looked and how i dressed and if i didnt feel like i looked good a specific day i didnt even wanna go outside, and id frequently fake being sick to skip school when my hair didnt look good enough according to my standards

wbu

When i realized im ugly asf

 

[swt]

Mane idgaf I always look Chadly

wyll

 

[yussimania]

I used to watch Hamza and he had a debate with Wheat Waffles back in like 2021 and that was my introduction to black pill from red pill

 

[Tigermoggerlol]

@oscar patel

Oscar Patel was a descension he just edits his before and after pics JFL

 

[RXnd]

wyll

Chad

 

[GynoGladiator]

14yo when i wanted to cope with being stuttercel akwardcel nonsocialcel

 

[Sith]

when i hit 14 i started developing OCD tendencies and along with that came with the obsession / overall hyperfixation on my looks naturally. back then i didnt know i could change my face nor was i overthinking it so i was focussed on how my hair looked and how i dressed and if i didnt feel like i looked good a specific day i didnt even wanna go outside, and id frequently fake being sick to skip school when my hair didnt look good enough according to my standards

wbu

When I was a child, I got called fat and made fun of by my own dad, and I remember my older sister laughing as he made fun of me. Also during that time my stepbrother would make comments on my looks saying how ugly and fat I was. Now I'm insecure as shit because of all the years of bullying by everyone.

 

[Yliaster]

Grew up with 2 Sisters who would always watch Romcoms and other series like Sex&TheCity etc which were
most of the times centered around girls crushing over a guy/s which I always felt intrigued by and soo started
grooming myself similar to the guys I noticed in those shows.

This was during the earlier 2000's before Blackpill was even discovered I knew that looks were important

 

[CookieGuy]

“Friend” group getting into women and me not having any so I felt pier pressure to get one and noticed nobody liked me and assumed it was how I looked then I found BP and realized it was EXACTLY the reason

 

[justlurkingaround]

When i was 10 i started realizing my lower third was always chubby as fuck even though i was "lean" (i wasnt), i started perma jutting and when i was around 14 i started to starve so my jawline could be visible lol

 

[Zenis]

when i hit 14 i started developing OCD tendencies and along with that came with the obsession / overall hyperfixation on my looks naturally. back then i didnt know i could change my face nor was i overthinking it so i was focussed on how my hair looked and how i dressed and if i didnt feel like i looked good a specific day i didnt even wanna go outside, and id frequently fake being sick to skip school when my hair didnt look good enough according to my standards

wbu

maybe 14

 

[Rothschild]

in like grade 8 when i was 13/14 some girl that was one of those "popular girls" called my nose big and i just sat there looking down at the table while some of the guys in my class just looked at me and didnt say anything.

i laughed it off but still hurt a lot but eventually i dismissed it (this was also the time andrew tate and other redpilled niggas were on tiktok) i was pretty redpilled ig and was like "muh looks cope, money and status is what matters fuck the foids" a year later after i got into high school it pretty much dawned on me how fugly looking i was, starting going on tiktok and tried new hairstyles, clothes, accessories, gym (still was ugly asf) and other shit.

Towards the end of grade 9 and into grade 10 I started realizing how important looks are (would still say personality was more important just to look more normal around others and not like a dick, this is also around the time I felt the worst and my life has been going downhill ever since) eventually end of 2024 - start of 2025 I actually cared about my looks and wanted to change and here we are.



Ty for anyone who actually read my shit

 

[Deleted member 85787]

15/16 when i found lookism.net content and blackpilled me af

 

[RealNinja]

I lost 100lbs and started gymmaxxing/doing other basic looksmaxxing shit like skincare and using minoxidil on my eyebrows. But up until the first semester of college there weren’t really any crazy results, I wasn’t a fatcel anymore but was still bloated and chubby.

First semester of college I lost like 15-20 pounds unintentionally so my face got lean. Apparently I have a sharp jawline and a striking eye area. I’d never thought I looked special at all, but at this point i started getting stared at everywhere I went & people started treating me differently. At first I thought it was because I was ugly. then I realized why these things were happening, and went further down the rabbit hole to see how far I could take it

 

[Azooe]

when i hit 14 i started developing OCD tendencies and along with that came with the obsession / overall hyperfixation on my looks naturally. back then i didnt know i could change my face nor was i overthinking it so i was focussed on how my hair looked and how i dressed and if i didnt feel like i looked good a specific day i didnt even wanna go outside, and id frequently fake being sick to skip school when my hair didnt look good enough according to my standards

wbu

When i discovered the bp

 

[browncurrycel]

Itis and her friends bullied me for my face and height after she rejected me

 

[xela2008]

I noticed how everyone around me were bigger than me when I was like 7-9 and got more and more insecure about my height. Eventually I started searching up "how to get taller" and started to eat more because I was insecure about my weight too. It got me focusing on eating more nutritious food and just more overall at like 12 and it made me grow from 7cm below average for my age to above average for my age. During all this time I got very hyperfixated on not only my height, but also my looks overall.