when to let other peoples opinions affect you?

[rarityrs]

i am struggling with understanding how people view me. Sometimes people will call me cute and etc, but other times i feel put down in a way. it's so hard to decipher whether I am good looking. i think im good looking, sometimes people will call me majestic but sometimes i feel like people try to call me mid in passive ways.
please help.

 

[xegigi]

post face

 

[rarityrs]

post face

sorry but i will never show my face to the org

 

[xegigi]

sorry but i will never show my face to the org

describe features then

 

[Xol]

Then ur in the middle and some people r gonna find u attractive and some won’t, they don’t matter tho

 

[rarityrs]

describe features then

blue eyes, 100% white somewhat tan, good jawline.
i just went on a date with a girl 30 minutes ago but sometimes i think that some people view me as clapped.
im going crazy

 

[xegigi]

blue eyes, 100% white somewhat tan, good jawline.
i just went on a date with a girl 30 minutes ago but sometimes i think that some people view me as clapped.
im going crazy

if you're going on dates with girls you are fine

dw about autistic shit just focus on being as normal as possible

 

[sensu]

feel the same way

 

[rarityrs]

feel the same way

thank you

 

[vzidel]

blue eyes, 100% white somewhat tan, good jawline.
i just went on a date with a girl 30 minutes ago but sometimes i think that some people view me as clapped.
im going crazy

i think you have a variant of body dysmorphia buddy

 

[rarityrs]

i think you have a variant of body dysmorphia buddy

i've wondered about that but i don't even think body dysmorphi is real. maybe i do have it.

 

[poopoohead]

i am struggling with understanding how people view me. Sometimes people will call me cute and etc, but other times i feel put down in a way. it's so hard to decipher whether I am good looking. i think im good looking, sometimes people will call me majestic but sometimes i feel like people try to call me mid in passive ways.
please help.

get to the point of knowing your looks are objectively good no matter what others say

 

[FBl]

Yeah I have severe body dymorphia aswell but I do get IOIs yesterday 3 girls approached me but they flaked out. The thing is even if they liked me like that my body just doesn't register it. It could be due to my insecurities and shit who knows

 

[vzidel]

i've wondered about that but i don't even think body dysmorphi is real. maybe i do have it.

yeah think you might have it, stage 1 is denial

 

[rarityrs]

Yeah I have severe body dymorphia aswell but I do get IOIs yesterday 3 girls approached me but they flaked out. The thing is even if they liked me like that my body just doesn't register it. It could be due to my insecurities and shit who knows

thank you.

 

[sub5outsider]

your looks is not your problem probably most likely mentalcel with not much going on for him

 

[Deleted member 45780]

i am struggling with understanding how people view me. Sometimes people will call me cute and etc, but other times i feel put down in a way. it's so hard to decipher whether I am good looking. i think im good looking, sometimes people will call me majestic but sometimes i feel like people try to call me mid in passive ways.
please help.

If it's negative take it to heart if its positive disregard

 

[rarityrs]

If it's negative take it to heart if its positive disregard

no that's bad advice. i call my good looking friends ugly sometimes and it gets to them.