Where should a 20 year old be at in life

[getra]

I dropped out of college (community jfl) and I’m not employed. I’m free but at the same time I feel as if I’m completely behind my peers. What do?

 

[Merćer]

Be a cartel hitman

 

[getra]

Be a cartel hitman

I heard you need deep connections to be a hit man, let alone associated with cartels. Sounds fun though.

 

[Merćer]

Sounds fun because you will have alot of money and bitches, but most of the time your ending will be like this.

 

[getra]

Sounds fun because you will have alot of money and bitches, but most of the time your ending will be like this.
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Nvm

 

[chadison]

you won't get an accurate answer here, that's for sure. too many factors to weigh

 

[studiocel]

idk im 19 in uni and I feel very behind as well

 

[Deleted member 7173]

idk im 19 in uni and I feel very behind as well

Same, are you a freshman

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Start hanging out with your grandmother more often. Take her out to breakfast/lunch and have movie nights with her. That's what I did at 20.

 

[Deleted member 6538]

6 feet under

 

[getra]

Start hanging out with your grandmother more often. Take her out to breakfast/lunch and have movie nights with her. That's what I did at 20.

She passed but I see what you’re saying. Wholesome ngl.

 

[SkinjobCatastrophe]

If you dropped out of community college then its over. Community college is like the lowest level litmus test to see if you have what it takes to do things on time, do your work, etc. Of course if you were really attractive, or had good social connections with high status rich parents, then it wouldnt matter. But if youre going to community college I doubt you have these things.

 

[studiocel]

Same, are you a freshman

no im in 2nd year

 

[getra]

If you dropped out of community college then its over. Community college is like the lowest level litmus test to see if you have what it takes to do things on time, do your work, etc. Of course if you were really attractive, or had good social connections with high status rich parents, then it wouldnt matter. But if youre going to community college I doubt you have these things.

True but tbh I got bored of community. I was accepted to a state uni but I just wasn’t feeling it.

 

[Deleted member 7173]

True but tbh I got bored of community. I was accepted to a state uni but I just wasn’t feeling it.

Now what are you going to do for a living

 

[SkinjobCatastrophe]

True but tbh I got bored of community. I was accepted to a state uni but I just wasn’t feeling it.

Damn then its really over. Its not about having a good work ethic or being smart, because i know lots of people that have both of those things and they still work in construction or at a factory or at a grocery store even though theyre 50. There is just a certain set of traits you need to function well in the modern world, one of those is being able to do a whole bunch of useless, worthless, boring shit, like community college or regular college, and put up with all the bullshit that the modern world has. Plus, nowadays with degree inflation, you really need a bachelors degree just to be competitive in the job market.

 

[skull_mogger]

It varies by person but you should in the very least be training for something, in education, or working. if you're doing none of that shit, take a hard look at your life and do something other than LDAR

 

[getra]

Now what are you going to do for a living

Either get into real estate (if I have the patience for that shit) or just flow w life. All that career shit just seems dull atm.

 

[getra]

It varies by person but you should in the very least be training for something, in education, or working. if you're doing none of that shit, take a hard look at your life and do something other than LDAR

Yeah no joke I need to get my shit together. Blackpill and my delusional mental legit took a toll on my development jfl.

 

[Deleted member 6939]

I dropped out of college (community jfl) and I’m not employed. I’m free but at the same time I feel as if I’m completely behind my peers. What do?

First you should plan out what you even want for your life

what is your personality?

What type of income would you want to have?

what type of routine?

Then figure out what type of job you would be pleased with and that routine to go with it

don’t compare yourself to other 20 year olds

everyone has their own path at their own pace

 

[getra]

First you should plan out what you even want for your life

what is your personality?

What type of income would you want to have?

what type of routine?

Then figure out what type of job you would be pleased with and that routine to go with it

don’t compare yourself to other 20 year olds

everyone has their own path at their own pace

Not even sure tbh. I gotta retrace all my steps again at this point. I’ve always wanted to be something bigger in the world though ngl. Hopefully I can still scrape up those prospects.

 

[Deleted member 7173]

Either get into real estate (if I have the patience for that shit) or just flow w life. All that career shit just seems dull atm.

Maybe go to trade school. There are some super niche trades, like elevator mechanic or refrigeration repair, that make 6 figures

 

[skull_mogger]

Where should a 20 year old be at in life​

in the basement

 

[getra]

Maybe go to trade school. There are some super niche trades, like elevator mechanic or refrigeration repair, that make 6 figures

Jfl that sounds boring but I get your point. Might consider it.

 

[Deleted member 7173]

Jfl that sounds boring but I get your point. Might consider it.

Another option is going to a ship school where you can eventually become a cargo ship captain and make 7 figures (srs)

 

[getra]

Another option is going to a ship school where you can eventually become a cargo ship captain and make 7 figures (srs)

Sounds good tbh. My main problem is I’m way too independent. I like doing stuff my own way.

 

[getra]

Sounds good tbh. My main problem is I’m way too independent. I like doing stuff my own way.

Then again that counteracts the whole point of this thread. I will consider it.

 

[recessed]

im a cumbridge student with 200k in cryptoand feel behind aswell

 

[getra]

im a cumbridge student with 200k in cryptoand feel behind aswell

Mirin, I heard that’s a good uni. What major?

 

[Deleted member 4044]

With his nose in between a stacey's butt cheeks

 

[Deleted member 6939]

Not even sure tbh. I gotta retrace all my steps again at this point. I’ve always wanted to be something bigger in the world though ngl. Hopefully I can still scrape up those prospects.

Yep, that’s how it is.

try to analyze your past as well

there is this program called the Self Authoring Suite and I highly recommend it.

it helps with tracing out what type of place you are in life and tracing out where you want to be and how to get there.

As long as you aren’t in debt, made a random girl pregnant, or did a serious fuck up then you can rest assured if you take the proper steps then you can live the life you want.