HLI
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I recently noticed that all my friends always plan things without me. The only time when I’m getting invited to something, is when I active ask if I could come and even if I’m asking or atleast making it clear, then I’m still getting excluded. I really don’t know what I am doing wrong. I’m not an incel. I’m also quite sociable. Additionally I’m really good with them, they also seem to like me.
I have recently talked to one of my main friends about all this because he is one, where I somewhat knew that he thinks the same way I do. It was then also confirmed because he told me that he pretty much feels the same way. We talked about it and so on; however then he said if there is any meet up or whatsoever he would try to get me invited and tell me. Infact he didn’t do shit and I’m still getting excluded everywhere. And the thing is, there are no „social signs“ that they don’t like me or whatsoever.
I look pretty decent. I am sociable. Confident enough to make friends. I’m just clueless
I have recently talked to one of my main friends about all this because he is one, where I somewhat knew that he thinks the same way I do. It was then also confirmed because he told me that he pretty much feels the same way. We talked about it and so on; however then he said if there is any meet up or whatsoever he would try to get me invited and tell me. Infact he didn’t do shit and I’m still getting excluded everywhere. And the thing is, there are no „social signs“ that they don’t like me or whatsoever.
I look pretty decent. I am sociable. Confident enough to make friends. I’m just clueless