Why am I excluded everywhere?

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I recently noticed that all my friends always plan things without me. The only time when I’m getting invited to something, is when I active ask if I could come and even if I’m asking or atleast making it clear, then I’m still getting excluded. I really don’t know what I am doing wrong. I’m not an incel. I’m also quite sociable. Additionally I’m really good with them, they also seem to like me.

I have recently talked to one of my main friends about all this because he is one, where I somewhat knew that he thinks the same way I do. It was then also confirmed because he told me that he pretty much feels the same way. We talked about it and so on; however then he said if there is any meet up or whatsoever he would try to get me invited and tell me. Infact he didn’t do shit and I’m still getting excluded everywhere. And the thing is, there are no „social signs“ that they don’t like me or whatsoever.

I look pretty decent. I am sociable. Confident enough to make friends. I’m just clueless
 
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Cause they obvioisly dont like you ans they aren't actually your friends
You gotta find some new ones bro badly
 
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I get invited to things but never parties and it doesn't make sense to me either, all the social signs say they like me, and I get invited to everything but parties with lots of people.
 
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you possess the god angel gene so you'll walk through live alone
 
I get invited to things but never parties and it doesn't make sense to me either, all the social signs say they like me, and I get invited to everything but parties with lots of people.
maybe its cuz they dont want other people to know ur friends with them? same thing happens to me thats why i cut connections with all of them and took my own path but still ended up on this forum...
 
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they dont like you.

you consider them your best friends but they dont view you as the same
 
Youre weird, boring and ugly
 
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I recently noticed that all my friends always plan things without me. The only time when I’m getting invited to something, is when I active ask if I could come and even if I’m asking or atleast making it clear, then I’m still getting excluded. I really don’t know what I am doing wrong. I’m not an incel. I’m also quite sociable. Additionally I’m really good with them, they also seem to like me.

I have recently talked to one of my main friends about all this because he is one, where I somewhat knew that he thinks the same way I do. It was then also confirmed because he told me that he pretty much feels the same way. We talked about it and so on; however then he said if there is any meet up or whatsoever he would try to get me invited and tell me. Infact he didn’t do shit and I’m still getting excluded everywhere. And the thing is, there are no „social signs“ that they don’t like me or whatsoever.

I look pretty decent. I am sociable. Confident enough to make friends. I’m just clueless
fk them
find new ones who actually want to spend time with you and dont exclude you like a 10 y/o foid
 
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They're not really friends with you like that, they are just being passive and indirect about it
 
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Cause they obvioisly dont like you ans they aren't actually your friends
You gotta find some new ones bro badly

I get invited to things but never parties and it doesn't make sense to me either, all the social signs say they like me, and I get invited to everything but parties with lots of people.

maybe its cuz they dont want other people to know ur friends with them? same thing happens to me thats why i cut connections with all of them and took my own path but still ended up on this forum...
fk them
find new ones who actually want to spend time with you and dont exclude you like a 10 y/o foid
Yeah your right
 
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I recently noticed that all my friends always plan things without me. The only time when I’m getting invited to something, is when I active ask if I could come and even if I’m asking or atleast making it clear, then I’m still getting excluded. I really don’t know what I am doing wrong. I’m not an incel. I’m also quite sociable. Additionally I’m really good with them, they also seem to like me.

I have recently talked to one of my main friends about all this because he is one, where I somewhat knew that he thinks the same way I do. It was then also confirmed because he told me that he pretty much feels the same way. We talked about it and so on; however then he said if there is any meet up or whatsoever he would try to get me invited and tell me. Infact he didn’t do shit and I’m still getting excluded everywhere. And the thing is, there are no „social signs“ that they don’t like me or whatsoever.

I look pretty decent. I am sociable. Confident enough to make friends. I’m just clueless
jus drug em then assrape em vro its not that deep:forcedsmile::forcedsmile:
 

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