Why am I feeling so sad about that girl ?

[Nick.Harte]

Sunday rant.

I saw a girl I knew in my teens and now I can’t get rid of all these nostalgic feelings.

This sounds cucked and stupid but It’s been 2 fucking days and I still wanna reconnect with her.

I feel like crying because I wanna go back to where it all started, when I met for the first time. However, she ignored me because she has already moved on but I still regret not talking to her.I legit can’t stop being such a pathetic cuck.

I’m having issue getting over this one. I mean out of all people I’ve broken up, with, including my best friend for 4 years who made me start smoking weed, I’ve already moved on and didn’t want to reconnect when I saw them again.

 

[Rimaxtis]

Nostalgia is a bitch

 

[Kamui]

Because you are mentally weak

 

[Nick.Harte]

Because you are mentally weak

You’re right man.

 

[Nick.Harte]

Nostalgia is a bitch

Yeah it makes the past seems way better than it was.

 

[Nick.Harte]

Because you are mentally weak

Nigga how do I become mentally strong then ?

 

[Deleted member 32529]

Nigga how do I become mentally strong then ?

Growth mindset and realizing that , in this day and age, the thing you want will almost always still be there. You just have to get it.

It may not be the same girl but by the sheer amount of girls on the planet, its incredibly likely that you will have another good connection with someone in the future and itll be informed by past experience.


A hard pill to swallow is that noone really cares that much about others. That isn't to say people are evil, or don't try to be good, but most relationships in life happen because both people wanted it at the same time, not because they were destined for each other. Who you are is also constantly changing and the people you were when you were together may not be who you are anymore.

TLDR

You can only control what you put into life, how the specifics go in certain moments is largely outside of your control, ESPECIALLY when someone else is involved

 

[Nick.Harte]

Growth mindset and realizing that , in this day and age, the thing you want will almost always still be there. You just have to get it.

It may not be the same girl but by the sheer amount of girls on the planet, its incredibly likely that you will have another good connection with someone in the future and itll be informed by past experience.


A hard pill to swallow is that noone really cares that much about others. That isn't to say people are evil, or don't try to be good, but most relationships in life happen because both people wanted it at the same time, not because they were destined for each other. Who you are is also constantly changing and the people you were when you were together may not be who you are anymore.

TLDR

You can only control what you put into life, how the specifics go in certain moments is largely outside of your control, ESPECIALLY when someone else is involved

Yeah, man. Gotta try to forget about the past

 

[The Grinch]

Meanwhile she doesen’t even remember your name. Brutal incel moment

 

[Nick.Harte]

Meanwhile she doesen’t even remember your name. Brutal incel moment

Yeah, this is what years of not getting pussy did to me.

 

[NationalWarrior]

Happens to the best of us.

I have been there too in the past.

Don't worry, it will eventualy fade in a few days.

 

[EnglandBadman]

Sunday rant.

I saw a girl I knew in my teens and now I can’t get rid of all these nostalgic feelings.

This sounds cucked and stupid but It’s been 2 fucking days and I still wanna reconnect with her.

I feel like crying because I wanna go back to where it all started, when I met for the first time. However, she ignored me because she has already moved on but I still regret not talking to her.I legit can’t stop being such a pathetic cuck.

I’m having issue getting over this one. I mean out of all people I’ve broken up, with, including my best friend for 4 years who made me start smoking weed, I’ve already moved on and didn’t want to reconnect when I saw them again.

tell her youll kill yourself if she doesnt suck your cock

 

[Nick.Harte]

tell her youll kill yourself if she doesnt suck your cock

I will embarrass myself.

 

[try2beme]

Its easy to reminisce about memories but realistically if you were still together it wouldnt be the same, it would be worse

 

[EnglandBadman]

I will embarrass myself.

No u will get slops

 

[Nick.Harte]

Its easy to reminisce about memories but realistically if you were still together it wouldnt be the same, it would be worse

It could’ve been better, who knows ?
Yeah and I think you are right because when I approached the second time I met her, she was friendly but seemed like she didn’t want to keep in touch, so I should’ve understood it back then.

 

[try2beme]

It could’ve been better, who knows ?
Yeah and I think you are right because when I approached the second time I met her, she was friendly but seemed like she didn’t want to keep in touch, so I should’ve understood it back then.

Nah everything is better when you’re younger

 

[Nick.Harte]

Nah everything is better when you’re younger

I will never experience these things again. My youth is gone.

 

[try2beme]

I will never experience these things again. My youth is gone.

You can its just harder dw