Why are most users here always wallowing in self pity?

[Jason Voorhees]

The victim mindset is one hell of a drug ngl. I see so many users here wallowing in self pity and just crying endlessly about their situation
. Now I know some of you are indeed helpless and are in position where you can't just pull yourself off the bootstrap but many here aren't. I also acknowledge that this forum serves as a safe space for venting frustrations as an incel and social outcasts from society but this kind of "woe is me" mindset won't lead you anywhere.

While I'm not saying you should delusionmax and adop the reddit tier advice of "if you stop thinking of the problem, it won't be a problem anymore,' constantly complaining about your circumstances and putting yourself down isn't helpful either.

There's a lot more you can do in life and money is your best friend as an incel but I know a few low iq subhumans here still won't get it and won't accept their situation calling everything to be a cope while being miserable and hopeless. They might be copes but what other option you have? Heck many blackpillers here rot everyday while bluepilled normies are out there gymaxxing, fashionmaxxing and social circle maxxing. Why should a woman date someone like you?

Self pity and victimizing yourself just makes it easier for you to accept and cry about the situation you are in and dwell upon it like cuckold wishing for sympathy from others. Only women and men with a feminine minded men think like this. It's pointless and self pitying will lead you nowhere. All it does is help you to push away your own responsibilities. You have got to realize that why you're here now isn't your fault, but it's your responsibility because no one else is going to help you, but you. Accept that this situation is your responsibility, even if it isn't your fault.

There's a lot you can do to have a good life despite being LTN. Escortmaxx, moneymaxx. Have a social life, go out.

Even I've had the victim mindset for years but you can't let these things bring you down. You literally have nothing to offer to a woman. No looks, no money, no goals in life. You are just aimlessly floating through life, wallowing in self pity and trying to convince others that you are the victim of the society. I'm not saying all of things that lead you to this point in life are fake but it's still your RESPONSIBILITY. Every time you see some LTN kissing a girl you like, just remember he wasn't a self doubting pitymaxxed subhuman like you, drowning in self loathv and had a life and the courage to ask a woman out.

 

[Jason Voorhees]

@Veganist @<6PSLcel @Autismcel @Heinrich Schmidt @cytoplasm @Richard Cheese @try2beme

 

[Imretarded?]

they should join incels.is. This forum is for looksmaxing

 

[Veganist]

let a nigga have his moment

we all need to let some steam off some days

 

[Deleted member 67869]

lol i got humbled in life thats why. When i was bluepilled i used to think i was the sht didnt realize how ugly i was. Now i accept it and i dont even care if ppl insult me irl anymorr i have 0 pride

 

[Deleted member 33711]

let a nigga have his moment

we all need to let some steam off some days

if i was in greece, id be happy 24/7, beautiful views and women

 

[Deleted member 33711]

The victim mindset is one hell of a drug ngl. I see so many users here wallowing in self pity and just crying endlessly about their situation
. Now I know some of you are indeed helpless and are in position where you can't just pull yourself off the bootstrap but many here aren't. I also acknowledge that this forum serves as a safe space for venting frustrations as an incel and social outcasts from society but this kind of "woe is me" mindset won't lead you anywhere.

While I'm not saying you should delusionmax and adop the reddit tier advice of "if you stop thinking of the problem, it won't be a problem anymore,' constantly complaining about your circumstances and putting yourself down isn't helpful either.

There's a lot more you can do in life and money is your best friend as an incel but I know a few low iq subhumans here still won't get it and won't accept their situation calling everything to be a cope while being miserable and hopeless. They might be copes but what other option you have? Heck many blackpillers here rot everyday while bluepilled normies are out there gymaxxing, fashionmaxxing and social circle maxxing. Why should a woman date someone like you?

Self pity and victimizing yourself just makes it easier for you to accept and cry about the situation you are in and dwell upon it like cuckold wishing for sympathy from others. Only women and men with a feminine minded men think like this. It's pointless and self pitying will lead you nowhere. All it does is help you to push away your own responsibilities. You have got to realize that why you're here now isn't your fault, but it's your responsibility because no one else is going to help you, but you. Accept that this situation is your responsibility, even if it isn't your fault.

There's a lot you can do to have a good life despite being LTN. Escortmaxx, moneymaxx. Have a social life, go out.

Even I've had the victim mindset for years but you can't let these things bring you down. You literally have nothing to offer to a woman. No looks, no money, no goals in life. You are just aimlessly floating through life, wallowing in self pity and trying to convince others that you are the victim of the society. I'm not saying all of things that lead you to this point in life are fake but it's still your RESPONSIBILITY. Every time you see some LTN kissing a girl you like, just remember he wasn't a self doubting pitymaxxed subhuman like you, drowning in self loathv and had a life and the courage to ask a woman out.

@MoggerGaston @St.TikTokcel @📎♿️⚙️

 

[Jason Voorhees]

they should join incels.is. This forum is for looksmaxing

I got gangraped on .is again.

Why are most users here always wallowing in self pity?

The victim mindset is one hell of a drug ngl. I see so many users here wallowing in self pity and just crying endlessly about their situation . Now I know some of you are indeed helpless and are in position where you can't just pull yourself off the bootstrap but many here aren't. I also...

incels.is

 

[Deleted member 33711]

yo

I got gangraped on .is again.

Why are most users here always wallowing in self pity?

The victim mindset is one hell of a drug ngl. I see so many users here wallowing in self pity and just crying endlessly about their situation . Now I know some of you are indeed helpless and are in position where you can't just pull yourself off the bootstrap but many here aren't. I also...

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uyoy listen to ken carson?

 

[Jason Voorhees]

yo

uyoy listen to ken carson?

Yes

 

[Deleted member 33711]

Yes

 

[6PSLcel]

The victim mindset is one hell of a drug ngl. I see so many users here wallowing in self pity and just crying endlessly about their situation
. Now I know some of you are indeed helpless and are in position where you can't just pull yourself off the bootstrap but many here aren't. I also acknowledge that this forum serves as a safe space for venting frustrations as an incel and social outcasts from society but this kind of "woe is me" mindset won't lead you anywhere.

While I'm not saying you should delusionmax and adop the reddit tier advice of "if you stop thinking of the problem, it won't be a problem anymore,' constantly complaining about your circumstances and putting yourself down isn't helpful either.

There's a lot more you can do in life and money is your best friend as an incel but I know a few low iq subhumans here still won't get it and won't accept their situation calling everything to be a cope while being miserable and hopeless. They might be copes but what other option you have? Heck many blackpillers here rot everyday while bluepilled normies are out there gymaxxing, fashionmaxxing and social circle maxxing. Why should a woman date someone like you?

Self pity and victimizing yourself just makes it easier for you to accept and cry about the situation you are in and dwell upon it like cuckold wishing for sympathy from others. Only women and men with a feminine minded men think like this. It's pointless and self pitying will lead you nowhere. All it does is help you to push away your own responsibilities. You have got to realize that why you're here now isn't your fault, but it's your responsibility because no one else is going to help you, but you. Accept that this situation is your responsibility, even if it isn't your fault.

There's a lot you can do to have a good life despite being LTN. Escortmaxx, moneymaxx. Have a social life, go out.

Even I've had the victim mindset for years but you can't let these things bring you down. You literally have nothing to offer to a woman. No looks, no money, no goals in life. You are just aimlessly floating through life, wallowing in self pity and trying to convince others that you are the victim of the society. I'm not saying all of things that lead you to this point in life are fake but it's still your RESPONSIBILITY. Every time you see some LTN kissing a girl you like, just remember he wasn't a self doubting pitymaxxed subhuman like you, drowning in self loathv and had a life and the courage to ask a woman out.

I do wallow and complain but Im at least Working towards trying to improve my situation, idk about the others u mentioned

 

[raleqtambrobret]

if i was in greece, id be happy 24/7, beautiful views and women

perfect era for a petite 5’2 femboy

 

[Imretarded?]

I got gangraped on .is again.

Why are most users here always wallowing in self pity?

The victim mindset is one hell of a drug ngl. I see so many users here wallowing in self pity and just crying endlessly about their situation . Now I know some of you are indeed helpless and are in position where you can't just pull yourself off the bootstrap but many here aren't. I also...

incels.is

you have an is account?

 

[raleqtambrobret]

ideal ancient greek day:

philosophise all day with the homies then come back home to @murdah and relieve myself of all the minor stresses, like seeing a female

 

[romanstock]

can't even get pity for my plight on here anymore. fuck this gay copecel forum

 

[dreamcake1mo]

I personally think the situation for men and society globally is in a very fucked up state unless you are rich and otherwise famous/popular. At least middle class. If you aren't part of this percent income wise then your life is pretty much shit if you are a man.

Those who share their experiences are seen as wallowing in self piety because the person hearing such things projects that it is situation worth pitying. Not necessarily that the person sharing those experiences want pity or is self pitying themselves. People do not want to pity others or feel uncomfortable, so they instead tell the person to stop wallowing, or crying like a bitch.

What I'm saying may seem like self piety, but its reality. It just can be shocking to some people to see a vast majority of men talk about the same things, with those things being very grim in nature. But, just because a person goes through grim things does not mean they themselves are grim people. People talk about their experiences here, not ones from being on the internet, but ones realized personally. Most users here logistically are more likely to go through very grim situations. Otherwise they would not be here. Of course many people here are desperately trying to improve their situation, but that does not necessarily have to be talked about, since that's a situation they obviously do not live in. I also don't think projecting a "happy" life you don't live in for others on the internet, especially when you are anonymous, would have any better impact on the situation, hence why users prefer to be themselves. Afterall this is a place of authentic discussion. It would be worthless of a place for everyone to larp as some rich and happy guru.

There may be cases where a rich person may larp as a broke man for attention, but lets be real? Its rare a anonymous person on a online incel forum would go this far for no reason.

The likely case is that when users post things that may seem like self pity regardless of how grim it may sound, Its usually a analysis of their perceived quality of life and really has no bearing on whether that person decides to improve his situation. Because lets be real, who isn't trying? If you give up you die. If it seems like a bunch of guys are all trying to invoke self pity when it really makes no sense for them to do that, than it just a testament of the times we live in.

 

[Yliaster]

No one :

Not a Single Soul :

Moggergaston : Life is soo fckn pointless.....

Meanwhile is HTN who gets invited to Pool Parties by 18 year old jbs with a good paying Job in a
1st World Country

 

[Deleted member 45175]

@MoggerGaston @St.TikTokcel @📎♿️⚙️

How do I wallow in self pity?

 

[cytoplasm]

Its easier

 

[St.TikTokcel]

Born in fourth world shithole, craniofacial deformity (any sort of recession in the jaws), poor family = absolutely justified to rot and do nothing because there is nothing to do @russiancelreturns

 

[PARISIEN]

im at work and i go there to fullfill my boredom

 

[sub5outsider]

what do you work

 

[Deleted member 33711]

How do I wallow in self pity?

You genuinely think ethnics have higher smv than whites

 

[Deleted member 45175]

You genuinely think ethnics have higher smv than whites

Because they do?

 

[Shkreliii]

if i was in greece, id be happy 24/7, beautiful views and women

My 2 friends in sweden ditched me to start workint there for 5 months

 

[dreamcake1mo]

Because they do?

I think the issue is that media has boosted ethnic smv past white and Europeans. The SMV for regular white men is about the same as it was for ethnics prior to early 2000s. Most European males have a very high likely chance of being born in at least middle class family due to residual of peak smv with the boomer generation, but they essentially have to work with what they have.

Black and ethnics on the other hand are more likely to start off with less, but a high chance of higher QOL and benefits in todays society to get things rolling. For example, black Americans are more likely to be born in a hood, though, that hood and the culture may very well have rich funders or gangsters eager to funnel money and socioeconomic opportunities in those locations. Indians in the united states as well as Chinese are more likely to own businesses, and im pretty sure they are a bunch of funding and grants involved with those class of people when finding businesses to own, including family and a circle who own businesses and are more eager to share amongst each other (i observed most Chinese buffets and restaurant people in my area all know each other, as well as indians who own gas stations and other small to medium sized businesses). Spanish men are more likely to be able to find work. A bunch of indeed jobs which only look for Spanish workers by posting job applications in full Spanish. White europeans are basically left to rely on their prexisting wealth. Though, they do have some pros in starting a business.

Id say its a skill issue, but at the end of the day society is just getting worst overall, and women are becoming far more parasitical so everyone is feeling the heat and discussions such as these occur, where both sides are fighting over who is losing out more. When in reality, all sides are fucked.

 

[MoggerGaston]

Good post, I made a similar post today:

More than 44% of 20yo men are KHHV truecels.

44% of genZ non-teen men say they never dated or had a gf during their teen years (11-19yo). JFL honestly. My own generation (millennials although I am somewhat in between being a 1995cel) was already a truecel generation, but GenZ managed to accelerate trueceldom into overdrive. It's OVER for...

looksmax.org

basically I am saying:
our own inceldom isn't our fault whatsoever, we are just living in a fucked up time period where half of the men are incel nowadays

But just because it isn't our fault, it's still our responsibility to create a fun life. Like doing a lot of drugs, going to raves, travelling, having hobbies, etc. Like will smith says here:



we have to deal with our incel trauma and make a fun life.

 

[Yliaster]

Good post, I made a similar post today:

More than 44% of 20yo men are KHHV truecels.

44% of genZ non-teen men say they never dated or had a gf during their teen years (11-19yo). JFL honestly. My own generation (millennials although I am somewhat in between being a 1995cel) was already a truecel generation, but GenZ managed to accelerate trueceldom into overdrive. It's OVER for...

looksmax.org

basically I am saying:
our own inceldom isn't our fault whatsoever, we are just living in a fucked up time period where half of the men are incel nowadays

But just because it isn't our fault, it's still our responsibility to create a fun life. Like doing a lot of drugs, going to raves, travelling, having hobbies, etc. Like will smith says here:



we have to deal with our incel trauma and make a fun life.

You're an ungrateful Sociopath

 

[MoggerGaston]

You're an ungrateful Sociopath

elab

 

[Yliaster]

elab

You have above average looks making an above average Salary living in a 1st World Country

Step outside of yourself sometimes and try to realize how much better you have it than most people

 

[MoggerGaston]

You have above average looks making an above average Salary living in a 1st World Country

Step outside of yourself sometimes and try to realize how much better you have it than most people

stop saying I am chad in mumbai, it is not useful

i am competing with tall old-money chads IN THE NETHERLANDS, yet because I would mog in mumbai I shouldn't complain.

why should I feel good about mogging someone in mumbai when I get brutally mogged in my daily life non-stop?

 

[Yliaster]

stop saying I am chad in mumbai, it is not useful

i am competing with tall old-money chads IN THE NETHERLANDS, yet because I would mog in mumbai I shouldn't complain.

why should I feel good about mogging someone in mumbai when I get brutally mogged in my daily life non-stop?

Your Neurons are clearly fried

My mistake for trying to help

 

[St.TikTokcel]

stop saying I am chad in mumbai, it is not useful

i am competing with tall old-money chads IN THE NETHERLANDS, yet because I would mog in mumbai I shouldn't complain.

why should I feel good about mogging someone in mumbai when I get brutally mogged in my daily life non-stop?

Think about the children starving in africa, bro.

 

[MoggerGaston]

Think about the children starving in africa, bro.

Go up to a homeless person and say: 'hey man, at least ur not a starving child in africa. look at how good you have it.'

he will feel great after your comment

 

[optimisticzoomer]

they should join incels.is. This forum is for looksmaxing

This is not a looksmaxxing forum

 

[Deleted member 33711]

This is not a looksmaxxing forum

Why not

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Why not

This is a place for high IQ individuals to gather and converse with one another, outside the struggles of daily life

 

[Jason Voorhees]

they should join incels.is. This forum is for looksmaxing

I got a 30% warning for this thread on .is. I fail to understand why. @murdah @St.TikTokcel

 

[St.TikTokcel]

I got a 30% warning for this thread on .is. I fail to understand why. @murdah @St.TikTokcel

Most of them are hopeless. Your "advice" doesn't apply to them.

 

[Imretarded?]

I got a 30% warning for this thread on .is. I fail to understand why. @murdah @St.TikTokcel

also dont they restrict people from getting accounts? You're not even ugly, shouldnt you be banned?

 

[klip11]

I got gangraped on .is again.

Why are most users here always wallowing in self pity?

The victim mindset is one hell of a drug ngl. I see so many users here wallowing in self pity and just crying endlessly about their situation . Now I know some of you are indeed helpless and are in position where you can't just pull yourself off the bootstrap but many here aren't. I also...

incels.is

Do .is users know you're being hunted by Haitian and Liberian cannibals??

 

[wishIwasSalludon]

The victim mindset

It’s not a victim mindset it’s a victim reality, not an excuse to give up but the reality is yes you are at a disadvantage this is just truth

 

[vermillioncorefan]

Bluepilled content

 

[ElTruecel]

Because they’re like females and weak minded

 

[HumidVent]

Changing your mindset doesn't change the material reality.
Imagine going to a slave in the 1700s and telling them to stop feeling bad and blaming all their problems on the slave owners, they just need to be positive. That's nonsense, they are justified in how they feel.

Also if you want to motivate people you need to learn how to communicate better, you won't be motivating anyone when talking down to them.

 

[Deleted member 46941]

I can't change anything about my situation or my past (not looks wise)

 

[Deleted member 46941]

Changing your mindset doesn't change the material reality.
Imagine going to a slave in the 1700s and telling them to stop feeling bad and blaming all their problems on the slave owners, they just need to be positive. That's nonsense, they are justified in how they feel.

Also if you want to motivate people you need to learn how to communicate better, you won't be motivating anyone when talking down to them.

Yeah exactly, op is being retarded

 

[yeeyeeslayer]

@Veganist @<6PSLcel @Autismcel @Heinrich Schmidt @cytoplasm @Richard Cheese @try2beme

how can your tag list for a thread about wallowing in self pity, not include the 1# wallower in self pity @PseudoMaxxer

 

[97baHater]

I got gangraped on .is again.

Why are most users here always wallowing in self pity?

The victim mindset is one hell of a drug ngl. I see so many users here wallowing in self pity and just crying endlessly about their situation . Now I know some of you are indeed helpless and are in position where you can't just pull yourself off the bootstrap but many here aren't. I also...

incels.is

JFLLLLLLL 30% bluepill warning