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I'm not a practicioner of BDSM, but I like the concept of being able to hold a woman accountable for her actions using the reward/punishment principle. To be honest, women like this concept too. This is why women don't like nice guys. They don't punish her for bad behavior, only focus on rewarding her because they like her.
The movie 50 Shades of Grey is popular because women have fantasies of men dominating them and holding them accountable for their actions. I watched a video on BDSM because I was curious. One of the things they say is you can't expect a woman to submit to you because you're a man. You have to be worthy of submission.
By the way, submission is not about being defeated or losing. It's about relinquishing control. This is why a lot of women are miserable because they are control freaks, but that's because they aren't around men who are worthy of submission. However, they have been taught that being "in control" is girl power.
True girl power is like telekinesis. You want something and it moves without you having to even lift a finger. Being highly submissive and feminine IS girl power. These types of women usually ask men for something and men are willing to do it for them. Not because they're weak men, but because men feel better about helping women who act feminine and submissive.
On a non-sexual note, when a man sees a little girl crying because she is lost, he goes into protective mode and problem-solving mode instantly. He tries to help the little girl find her parents.
If a woman submits to the wrong man, her life will be turned upside down and inside out. If he's weak or lacks experience with women, he will end up leading her down the wrong path. When a man understands that he needs to be the leader of the relationship, he will focus on being a better leader. He will focus on being a stronger leader. He doesn't want to control her. That's time-consuming. He wants her to have the free will to make her own decisions, but those decisions won't get her into trouble or lead her to putting herself in situations where she is more inclined to cheat.
In a Dom/sub relationship, when the man is the Dom, he MUST be a good Dom because the woman will look for a man who isn't submissive... that's her role. This is true in non-Dom/sub relationships too, but women makes excuses for them leaving the man.
"I need a man who will challenge me" aka "I need a man who will check me anytime I step outta line"
"We lost that passion we had" aka "You don't dominate me in the bedroom anymore" or "You don't make me want to submit to you once I got to know you"
mistake that men make is they let a woman's femininity and submission soften them up. So you reward the good behavior, but you get soft in the process. When a woman is submissive and feminine, the goal is to keep her that way when she's dealing with you. So, you need to reward the good behavior, but it has to strengthen you. You need the mindset of:
"She's being submissive and feminine and I love that. This is my cue to maintain my masculine dominance to keep things this way."
When a man is dominant and masculine, women will naturally gravitate towards him. The more he practices being dominant with women, the easier it become for him. When he starts out, he's like Joffrey from the show Game Of Thrones... a brat with power. He expects women to submit to him because he learned that women are suppose to submit to men. Once he has guidance and learns how to become worthy of submission, women will start submitting to him at a higher rate. Once he learns how to dominate women and lead them to the point that
the women feel compelled to stay submissive towards him, this will have a multiplier effect.
When women see that a man has control and dominance in his relationship, she's not turned off, she's turn on. Most women attract men who jump through hoops for them because they want to gain her validation. When a man isn't looking for her validation, but her submission, she will test him to see if he's like the others. When that man checks her for testing his authority, she needs to wring her panties out once he leaves.
The movie 50 Shades of Grey is popular because women have fantasies of men dominating them and holding them accountable for their actions. I watched a video on BDSM because I was curious. One of the things they say is you can't expect a woman to submit to you because you're a man. You have to be worthy of submission.
By the way, submission is not about being defeated or losing. It's about relinquishing control. This is why a lot of women are miserable because they are control freaks, but that's because they aren't around men who are worthy of submission. However, they have been taught that being "in control" is girl power.
True girl power is like telekinesis. You want something and it moves without you having to even lift a finger. Being highly submissive and feminine IS girl power. These types of women usually ask men for something and men are willing to do it for them. Not because they're weak men, but because men feel better about helping women who act feminine and submissive.
On a non-sexual note, when a man sees a little girl crying because she is lost, he goes into protective mode and problem-solving mode instantly. He tries to help the little girl find her parents.
If a woman submits to the wrong man, her life will be turned upside down and inside out. If he's weak or lacks experience with women, he will end up leading her down the wrong path. When a man understands that he needs to be the leader of the relationship, he will focus on being a better leader. He will focus on being a stronger leader. He doesn't want to control her. That's time-consuming. He wants her to have the free will to make her own decisions, but those decisions won't get her into trouble or lead her to putting herself in situations where she is more inclined to cheat.
In a Dom/sub relationship, when the man is the Dom, he MUST be a good Dom because the woman will look for a man who isn't submissive... that's her role. This is true in non-Dom/sub relationships too, but women makes excuses for them leaving the man.
"I need a man who will challenge me" aka "I need a man who will check me anytime I step outta line"
"We lost that passion we had" aka "You don't dominate me in the bedroom anymore" or "You don't make me want to submit to you once I got to know you"
mistake that men make is they let a woman's femininity and submission soften them up. So you reward the good behavior, but you get soft in the process. When a woman is submissive and feminine, the goal is to keep her that way when she's dealing with you. So, you need to reward the good behavior, but it has to strengthen you. You need the mindset of:
"She's being submissive and feminine and I love that. This is my cue to maintain my masculine dominance to keep things this way."
When a man is dominant and masculine, women will naturally gravitate towards him. The more he practices being dominant with women, the easier it become for him. When he starts out, he's like Joffrey from the show Game Of Thrones... a brat with power. He expects women to submit to him because he learned that women are suppose to submit to men. Once he has guidance and learns how to become worthy of submission, women will start submitting to him at a higher rate. Once he learns how to dominate women and lead them to the point that
the women feel compelled to stay submissive towards him, this will have a multiplier effect.
When women see that a man has control and dominance in his relationship, she's not turned off, she's turn on. Most women attract men who jump through hoops for them because they want to gain her validation. When a man isn't looking for her validation, but her submission, she will test him to see if he's like the others. When that man checks her for testing his authority, she needs to wring her panties out once he leaves.
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