Why cant I handle having a love interest

[Bitchwhipper2]

Every single time I get so fucking dragged in and turn in to some giga emotional wreck and crash out over literally nothing.

This is so fucking brutal. What being a 21 year old virgin does to a mf

 

[Deleted member 115294]

turbo abused dog syndrome

 

[nuisance]

I cant handle it because I cant trust a girl anymore

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

Just got a snap from them and my entire mood switched from depression to euphoria in less than a second

Jfl @ this shit

 

[try2beme]

Non nt trait

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

Non nt trait

Probably my autism + ADS

 

[chadisbeingmade]

What being a 21 year old virgin does to a mf

I think it’s time you find that gay friend….

I cant handle it because I cant trust a girl anymore

LTR is a meme in 2025. It’s physically impossible to know a girls past, so off the rip you cannot trust a word that comes out her mouth. As I will prove:


Female friend of mine said “kiss count resets when you’re 20”.

Translation: I will sleep about and kiss however many guys I want, but when I’m 20 I will say I have a 0 body count.

What a fucking joke this generation is. I have gotten with that girl tbh, but that’s besides the point.

 

[nuisance]

I think it’s time you find that gay friend….


LTR is a meme in 2025. It’s physically impossible to know a girls past, so off the rip you cannot trust a word that comes out her mouth. As I will prove:


Female friend of mine said “kiss count resets when you’re 20”.

Translation: I will sleep about and kiss however many guys I want, but when I’m 20 I will say I have a 0 body count.

What a fucking joke this generation is. I have gotten with that girl tbh, but that’s besides the point.

I thought i was gonna marry this girl I was like insanely close with for 3 years dated for the last year. Its funny after she cheated on me I looked back and the last 3 months were filled with so much lies its insane borderline demonic. You really cant trust no one because i trusted her the most for 3 years and that shit happend.

 

[Arthur the Egyptian]

LTR is a meme in 2025. It’s physically impossible to know a girls past, so off the rip you cannot trust a word that comes out her mouth. As I will prove:


Female friend of mine said “kiss count resets when you’re 20”.

Translation: I will sleep about and kiss however many guys I want, but when I’m 20 I will say I have a 0 body count.

What a fucking joke this generation is. I have gotten with that girl tbh, but that’s besides the point.

What's the solution to find a good woman Chad ?

 

[nuisance]

What's the solution to find a good woman Chad ?

You cant really tbh, your playing with fire everytime. It might end good it might not with any girl. Just gotta try ig

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

I think it’s time you find that gay friend….

Please dont judge, but this thread is about him im ngl

Been talking to him for over a week and I basicly crashout when I feel ignored tbh.

Women, men, its all really the same even though I thought this would be smoother. Might aswell go back to only pursuing women, because then I wont have to deal with homophobia and Im generally more attracted to women anyways

 

[Arthur the Egyptian]

You cant really tbh, your playing with fire everytime. It might end good it might not with any girl. Just gotta try ig

What a waste of time and energy do you think it's worth it?

 

[chadisbeingmade]

I thought i was gonna marry this girl I was like insanely close with for 3 years dated for the last year. Its funny after she cheated on me I looked back and the last 3 months were filled with so much lies its insane borderline demonic. You really cant trust no one because i trusted her the most for 3 years and that shit happend.

After experiences like this, you really can’t date at all. Trust for any woman or relationship goes out the window forever. Normies will come with “she’s good” “she’s the one” “she won’t cheat” “this stuff won’t happen to me” but inevitably it will and then they realise.

What's the solution to find a good woman Chad ?

Know her and be together from the point where love and relationships and sex isn’t even a consent they are familiar with, or don’t have an interest in. Which means it’s a wrap for 99% of people. I’m talking like some secondary school shit (high school).

 

[chadisbeingmade]

Please dont judge, but this thread is about him im ngl

Been talking to him for over a week and I basicly crashout when I feel ignored tbh.

Women, men, its all really the same even though I thought this would be smoother. Might aswell go back to only pursuing women, because then I wont have to deal with homophobia and Im generally more attracted to women anyways

No judgment here g.

Talking, as in, like talking stage? or just convo?

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

No judgment here g.

Talking, as in, like talking stage? or just convo?

Just convos i guess. I just find snapchat so hard to communicate over because of all the games and whatnot.

Massive headache for me. Talking irl would feel so much better tbh

 

[nuisance]

What a waste of time and energy do you think it's worth it?

Its funny because its like two complete opposite sides.

The feeling you get when a girl loves you and you love her is one of the best feelings ever, but the feeling of betrayal is probably the most painful things ever.

Heartbreak is good sometimes, in-fact i would say its necessary for men to go through at least once. I had really bad anxiety and high inhibition for a long time before, its gone now and I realized it takes something as painful as betrayal to rewire your brain. Im more focused aswell, finances body and looks have never been better.

Im more prepared for my next girl

 

[Arthur the Egyptian]

Its funny because its like two complete opposite sides.

The feeling you get when a girl loves you and you love her is one of the best feelings ever, but the feeling of betrayal is probably the most painful things ever.

Heartbreak is good sometimes, in-fact i would say its necessary for men to go through at least once. I had really bad anxiety and high inhibition for a long time before, its gone now and I realized it takes something as painful as betrayal to rewire your brain. Im more focused aswell, finances body and looks have never been better.

Im more prepared for my next girl

Same but mine was like 2 years and 4 month
She left me and I loved her the most
I think that what made me more into BP

I'm sorry that you had to go through this
We all will have a good oneitis one day

 

[NoaA99]

Happens even to Chad at some point, but he avoids the consequences.

Stop acting like your life depends on it with a hot woman.
Men, who behave like that usually try to compensate for self-hatred.

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

Happens even to Chad at some point, but he avoids the consequences.

Stop acting like your life depends on it with a hot woman.
Men, who behave like that usually try to compensate for self-hatred.

Youre right and I am overreacting.

But I know exactly whats gonna happen every single time, but I cant stop it. Its always the same thing and I cant stop the feeling this way because its so intense

Its like crushing despair

 

[NoaA99]

Youre right and I am overreacting.

But I know exactly whats gonna happen every single time, but I cant stop it. Its always the same thing and I cant stop the feeling this way because its so intense

Its like crushing despair

I think almost every man has been in that situation before. My best friend is a literal Chad, and we talked about this topic a countless times. You would not believe, how insecure he used to be with women back then, despite his success.
I also kept making the same mistake every single time- putting women on a pedestal.
Even women who showed affection toward me would gradually lose their interest. And, I used to be pretty popular with the girls back then, but still always felt this insecurity.
At some point, I just stopped giving a damn, and that’s when things got easier, and more successful as well.

I know it’s not easy, but you really have to force yourself to behave more like a man. Women don’t respect overly emotional men - not because these emotions are necessarily wrong, but because they can feel when a man is insecure/ uncomfortable in his own skin, through those emotions.

If you become more confident in yourself, or at least remember that, in the end, no one really cares if a woman rejects you except you- your situation should improve. Shame is not real, just self-made, and men place far to much value on something so irrelevant.

 

[Deleted member 141128]

Every single time I get so fucking dragged in and turn in to some giga emotional wreck and crash out over literally nothing.

This is so fucking brutal. What being a 21 year old virgin does to a mf

i used to be like this at 16 tbh

its okay bhai