Why do I get so angry when people ask me about myself

[Former Shortcel]

Even if its the smallest question like “are you ok” or “how has your day been” it pisses me off

Im tired of being constantly asked questions and I dont know why it angers me so much. I people please a lot in hopes of avoiding constant questions, masking so people dont see how I truly feel and it results people asking me questions less. So im stuck in a cycle of doing it over and over again since it works a majority of the time

But im so tired of it all, masking takes up so much energy for such useless shit that I wish could be easily avoided. I hate people so much why cant they just leave me alone

 

[Joeseminate]

90% of the time there is nothing to say

 

[AgentAngularity]

How's your day been?

does it enrage you that much?

 

[Former Shortcel]

90% of the time there is nothing to say

A lot of questions people ask are so pointless, a majority of them just piss me off but i have to hide how i feel about it and people please because it results in me being questioned less

 

[pxe]

You are just dark bud you're dark triad

 

[Sceptical]

“are you ok” or “how has your day been”

i usually change the subject or just give them an awkward grin

 

[Former Shortcel]

i usually change the subject or just give them an awkward grin

Thats usually what i do, although sometimes i get tired of masking and it just results in the situation getting worse, so i have to do it as much as possible

 

[dragons6422]

Because it locks you in a social contract against your will to volunteer information about yourself. If you don’t you’re seen as the weird one. It’s symptom of high independence and low opinion of others

 

[Former Shortcel]

Because it locks you in a social contract against your will to volunteer information about yourself. If you don’t you’re seen as the weird one. It’s symptom of high independence and low opinion of others

I think this is it, thanks

 

[Matrix88]

But im so tired of it all, masking takes up so much energy for such useless shit that I wish could be easily avoided. I hate people so much why cant they just leave me alone

True

 

[Former Shortcel]

True

Yep