IntelligentCel
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As an incels myself, I have came to the conclusion that, although looks is critical for receiving good treatment and warm smiles from people, it isn't important for long-term relationships.
Modern society is based on post-modernist and consumerist "values", and most people have superficial understanding of the world.
Given that most people, including women, have superficial understanding, that means that nowadays, attraction is based on looks and short-term pleasure from cheating and "novelty". Given that in mind, it's accurate to say that looks matter, right? Yes... but actually no. Although looks is important, as I already said, it isn't the most important thing.
Here is what looks can do:
1. Looks can allow you to be treated better by society;
2. Looks can make women respect you more and treat you better;
3. Looks can give you a higher self-esteem;
4. Looks can increase your chances of mating and sex (IMPORTANT NOTE: If looks is the only reason a woman has sex with you, her plan is short-term pleasure and fun, not a long-lasting relationship;
Here is what looks can not do:
1. Pay for a woman's esthetic surgery for the purpose of increasing her self-esteem and confidence, so she can attract male attention;
2. Bring food to the table;
3. Make your personality good (if you are a bad person, being beautiful won't change that);
4. Increase your penis size and make you last longer in bed;
5. Make a woman, who has a rich boyfriend, decide to leave him and start a relationship with you;
6. Buy a yacht;
7. Buy an expensive, luxury car;
8. Buy a private jet;
9. Buy a mansion;
10. Pay the electricity bill;
11. Pay the bill in an high-profile, luxurious restaurant;
12. Allow you to have a lavish lifestyle modern women like;
Those are just a few examples. Although looks is important, women being attracted by your appearance means the following:
1. She may decide to have sex with you;
2. She may treat you better and with more respect, laughing at your jokes, even if they are sexually offensive (NOTE: You know that meme that shows a women being happy at good-looking male's compliments, while being offender and angry at ugly male's compliments, right)?
That's it, as far as I know.
Looks won't bring you a long-term relationship, but just some fun, temporal fun. If a women is attracted to you because of the way you look, keep in mind you aren't the most beautiful person in the world and there are many more males who are more beautiful than you. And since relationships based on looks are superficial, fetish-based, they are temporal. That means that a woman, who is attracted to the way you look, will have sex with you but then will leave you once she had enough.
On the other hand, money brings long-term security and abundance of resources. That means that, a woman will eventually settle down for a rich male, no matter how ugly he is, and won't need a beautiful male, no matter how beautiful he is.
Here is a thought experiment:
We have one poor and beautiful male. We have one rich and ugly male.
If you are a woman, who will choose for a long-lasting relationship? Well, obviously, you will choose the rich and ugly male, because he has more resources than the beautiful and poor male. You may choose to have sex with the beautiful male or even cheat on the rich male with beautiful males, but, eventually, you will return to the rich male, leaving the poor male without a long-lasting relationship. And keep in mind that being beautiful won't guarantee that beautiful women will cheat on their rich males with you. It simply increases the chances, but there won't be a lot of women who will risk the long-term security and resources their rich males can give them, just for some sex and fun with a beautiful male.
That's why money is more important than looks. Modern women don't care a lot about your looks a d personality, they are more interested in negotiations for long-term security. That's why they will do anything in bed if they have sex with a rich male. They know that they can use sex to control males, so they use sex to control males. Sexual things a woman would never do with a beautiful/poor male are things she will absolutely do with a rich male in bed.
If you want beautiful women, you need money. Modern women know there are males who are ready to pay for sex with beautiful women or even financially support beautiful women for the purpose of a long-term relationship, so those modern women prioritize long-term relationships with rich male, and prefer money over looks.
Even black males with "big black cocks" can't have a long-lasting relationship solely based on their penis size. Modern woken keep such males for fun only, but then replace them with males who can give long-term security.
Looks is much, much less important, when it comes to long-lasting relationship, than you thing. In the process of negotiations, women prioritize long-term security and money over looks. Nowadays, the whole thing is about "How much money do you have?", "What can you bring to the table?", "What can you offer, if I'm with you, what will I receive?".
If you want a long-lasting relationship with a modern woman, make sure you have money. Otherwise, prepare to be cheated on and eventually left alone and replaced with a rich male.
Modern society is based on post-modernist and consumerist "values", and most people have superficial understanding of the world.
Given that most people, including women, have superficial understanding, that means that nowadays, attraction is based on looks and short-term pleasure from cheating and "novelty". Given that in mind, it's accurate to say that looks matter, right? Yes... but actually no. Although looks is important, as I already said, it isn't the most important thing.
Here is what looks can do:
1. Looks can allow you to be treated better by society;
2. Looks can make women respect you more and treat you better;
3. Looks can give you a higher self-esteem;
4. Looks can increase your chances of mating and sex (IMPORTANT NOTE: If looks is the only reason a woman has sex with you, her plan is short-term pleasure and fun, not a long-lasting relationship;
Here is what looks can not do:
1. Pay for a woman's esthetic surgery for the purpose of increasing her self-esteem and confidence, so she can attract male attention;
2. Bring food to the table;
3. Make your personality good (if you are a bad person, being beautiful won't change that);
4. Increase your penis size and make you last longer in bed;
5. Make a woman, who has a rich boyfriend, decide to leave him and start a relationship with you;
6. Buy a yacht;
7. Buy an expensive, luxury car;
8. Buy a private jet;
9. Buy a mansion;
10. Pay the electricity bill;
11. Pay the bill in an high-profile, luxurious restaurant;
12. Allow you to have a lavish lifestyle modern women like;
Those are just a few examples. Although looks is important, women being attracted by your appearance means the following:
1. She may decide to have sex with you;
2. She may treat you better and with more respect, laughing at your jokes, even if they are sexually offensive (NOTE: You know that meme that shows a women being happy at good-looking male's compliments, while being offender and angry at ugly male's compliments, right)?
That's it, as far as I know.
Looks won't bring you a long-term relationship, but just some fun, temporal fun. If a women is attracted to you because of the way you look, keep in mind you aren't the most beautiful person in the world and there are many more males who are more beautiful than you. And since relationships based on looks are superficial, fetish-based, they are temporal. That means that a woman, who is attracted to the way you look, will have sex with you but then will leave you once she had enough.
On the other hand, money brings long-term security and abundance of resources. That means that, a woman will eventually settle down for a rich male, no matter how ugly he is, and won't need a beautiful male, no matter how beautiful he is.
Here is a thought experiment:
We have one poor and beautiful male. We have one rich and ugly male.
If you are a woman, who will choose for a long-lasting relationship? Well, obviously, you will choose the rich and ugly male, because he has more resources than the beautiful and poor male. You may choose to have sex with the beautiful male or even cheat on the rich male with beautiful males, but, eventually, you will return to the rich male, leaving the poor male without a long-lasting relationship. And keep in mind that being beautiful won't guarantee that beautiful women will cheat on their rich males with you. It simply increases the chances, but there won't be a lot of women who will risk the long-term security and resources their rich males can give them, just for some sex and fun with a beautiful male.
That's why money is more important than looks. Modern women don't care a lot about your looks a d personality, they are more interested in negotiations for long-term security. That's why they will do anything in bed if they have sex with a rich male. They know that they can use sex to control males, so they use sex to control males. Sexual things a woman would never do with a beautiful/poor male are things she will absolutely do with a rich male in bed.
If you want beautiful women, you need money. Modern women know there are males who are ready to pay for sex with beautiful women or even financially support beautiful women for the purpose of a long-term relationship, so those modern women prioritize long-term relationships with rich male, and prefer money over looks.
Even black males with "big black cocks" can't have a long-lasting relationship solely based on their penis size. Modern woken keep such males for fun only, but then replace them with males who can give long-term security.
Looks is much, much less important, when it comes to long-lasting relationship, than you thing. In the process of negotiations, women prioritize long-term security and money over looks. Nowadays, the whole thing is about "How much money do you have?", "What can you bring to the table?", "What can you offer, if I'm with you, what will I receive?".
If you want a long-lasting relationship with a modern woman, make sure you have money. Otherwise, prepare to be cheated on and eventually left alone and replaced with a rich male.